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NOTES WHILE LISTENING TO THE MODE ONE AUDIOBOOK (ALAN ROGER CURRIE)

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Are you READY for the CHALLENGE? Start TAKING NOTES . . . Start CONQUERING YOUR FEARS . . . You are on a MISSION . . . . . . and that MISSION BEGINS RIGHT NOW Copyright © 2014 Alan Roger Currie and Mode One Multimedia, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the author or Mode One Multimedia, Inc.

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My Personal Journey from Mode Two, Mode Three, and Mode Four to Mode ONE Behavior Primary GOAL: It is my strong desire to CONQUER MY FEARS and eliminate most, if not all of MY EGOTISTICAL INSECURITIES. Think about the very last time you were in the company of a woman who you found physically attractive and sexually appealing, but you failed to approach this woman … and you failed to initiate a conversation with this woman. How did you feel after you left that woman’s presence, or she left your presence? List all of the reasons why you were afraid of approaching this new female acquaintance, and why you were afraid of initiating a conversation with her:

Now … similarly, think about the last time you were in the company of a woman who you found to be both physically attractive and sexually appealing, only this time, you had enough confidence to approach her and initiate a conversation with her, but on the negative end, just about your entire conversation with this woman centered on entertaining, but disingenuous ‘chit chat,’ ‘fluff talk,’ and ‘small talk.’ List all of the reasons why you were afraid of discussing your true romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions with this woman in your very first conversation with her:

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Chapter ONE What is Author Alan Roger Currie’s general definition of ‘fluff talk’ and ‘small talk’? 1. Any conversation that you engage in with someone that is not related to dating and relationships 2. Any conversation that you engage in with someone that is not related to sex 3. Any conversation that you engage in with someone that is ‘pleasantly phony’ 4. Any conversation that you engage in with someone that is not representative of your true thoughts, desires, interests, and/or intentions 5. Both “3” and “4”

What adult film caused Alan to ‘re-evaluate’ how men should approach women, initiate a conversation with them, and express their desires, interests, and intentions to them? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Every Woman has a Fantasy (starring John Leslie) Insatiable (starring John Leslie) Nothing to Hide (starring John Leslie) Talk Dirty to Me (starring John Leslie) Talk Dirty to Me, Part II (starring John Leslie)

What month and year did Alan first create ‘The Four Modes of Verbal Communication’? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

December 1984 January 1985 June 1986 October 1990 March 1996

Where did Author Alan Roger Currie attend college? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Indiana University (Main campus in Bloomington, IN) Indiana University-Northwest (Satellite campus in Alan’s hometown of Gary, IN) University of California-Los Angeles University of Southern California Both “1” and “2”

When did Alan’s brother Stephen first become a ‘believer’ in Alan’s ‘Mode One’ philosophy? 1. After watching Talk Dirty to Me with Alan and friend Marlon in Summer of 1981 2. After witnessing Alan seduce a woman he had just met into performing oral sex on him at a grocery store in Bloomington, Indiana in Summer of 1986 3. After witnessing Alan seduce a woman he had just met into performing oral sex on him at LAX airport in Los Angeles in Spring of 1994 4. After reading Alan’s first pamphlet entitled The Mode One Principles of Verbal Communication in Spring of 1996 5. After reading Alan’s self-published eBook version of Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking in December of 2001

What type of women was Alan the most afraid of being upfront and straightforwardly honest about his true sexual desires, interests, and intentions with? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

All women Women who had some type of friendship or relationship with his parents, aunts, and uncles Women who he had some type of friendship or relationship with the girl’s parents or siblings Women who had a reputation for being classy, innocent, wholesome, prudish ‘good girls’ “2,” “3,” and “4”

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Chapter TWO What is the primary benefit of being ‘platonically popular’ with women? 1. 2. 3. 4.

Women will invite you to a lot of parties and general social events Women will share your company for lunch, dinner, and/or a movie without resistance Women will compliment you constantly and tell their girlfriends how ‘nice’ and ‘sweet’ you are According to Alan Roger Currie, there are NO benefits that come from being ‘platonically popular’ with women when you are single and have not had sex in weeks, months, or years 5. “1,” “2,” and “3”

What are the four general types of sexual relationships that men and women engage in? 1. Great, Good, Average, and Horrible 2. One-on-One, Ménage à trois, Couple-swapping, and Orgies 3. Long-term monogamous, Long-term non-monogamous, Short-term monogamous and Short-term non-monogamous 4. Anal Sex, Intercourse, Oral Sex, and Phone Sex-Mutual Masturbation 5. All of the answers are valid, but Alan primarily emphasizes Answer #3

Which definition best describes the concept of being ‘direct’ with others? 1. Finding out from people whether they like kinky sex or conservative sex 2. Letting people know exactly WHY you are talking to them, and specifically WHY you are interested in sharing their company in the short-run and/or the long-run 3. Using X-rated or XXX-rated language with people instead of G-rated or PG-13 rated language 4. Finding out from people if they have some of the same favorite movies that you do 5. Gossiping with people about the love lives and sex lives of your friends and neighbors

What does it mean to be ‘manipulative’ with others? 1. To offer people “incentives” and “rewards” to motivate them to do favors for you or engage in activities with you that they really are not genuinely interested in 2. To threaten people with consequences and repercussions in order to motivate them to exhibit behavior that is conducive to your own desires, needs, goals, and objectives 3. To mislead people into believing that you have one set of desires, interests, and intentions in regard to sharing their company when in actuality you have a totally different set of desires, interests, and intentions that motivate you to share that person’s company regularly 4. All of the above 100% HONESTY

The Vague and Ambiguous Zone (This is where most miscommunications, misinterpretations, and misleading interpersonal communication takes place)

100% DISHONESTY

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Chapter TWO When you first meet a new female acquaintance who you find yourself physically and sexually attracted to, how soon do you express to that woman a desire to share her company in a romantic and/or sexual manner at some point in the near or distant future? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.

Within the first five minutes of my first conversation with her Within the first fifteen minutes of my first conversation with her Within the first thirty minutes of my first conversation with her Within the first hour of my first conversation with her Within the first 2-to-3 hours of my first conversation with her During my second or third conversation with her or later Never; I wait for the woman to express an interest FIRST

Let’s say you invest 30 minutes or longer flattering women, engaging in entertaining ‘fluff talk’ or ‘small talk’ with them, or even going out on one or two ‘dinner-and-a-movie’ dates with women only to find out later that they have no interest in sharing your company in a romantic and/or sexual manner. How does that make you feel after you’ve been rejected? 1. 99% of the time, it does not bother me at all. I just “suck it up” and quickly move on to the next woman 2. I feel very disappointed and regretful that I wasted time with a woman who did not share the same desires, interests, and intentions that I did 3. The first two or three times it happened, it was no big deal, but when this scenario started happening on a weekly or monthly basis, I found myself feeling very angry, frustrated, and bitter; I realized that engaging in entertaining ‘fluff talk’ with women was a huge waste of time 4. I have no idea how it feels to engage in ‘fluff talk’ with women because I have never had the confidence or courage to approach women and initiate a conversation with them 5. I love engaging in lengthy conversations with women because at least it allows me to share the company of attractive, sexy women (as opposed to being at home alone watching television or masturbating to Internet porn!)

Let’s say you have spent days, weeks, or months interacting with a woman socially, but you have yet to express your true romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to her; Later you find out she is engaging in monogamous or non-monogamous sex with a close friend of yours, a neighbor of yours, a co-worker of yours, or some other casual acquaintance of yours. How does this news leave you feeling? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.

Angry enough to physically assault her and/or her new male sex partner Angry enough to harshly criticize, insults, and curse out her and/or her new male sex partner I simply ended my social interactions with this woman and never, ever spoke to her again I have experienced “1,” “2,” and “3” with different women I continued interacting with the woman, but I bad-mouthed the guy she was having sex with I continued interacting with the woman, but inside, I felt incredibly jealous and envious of the guy she was having sex with

How soon do you typically offer to ‘wine and dine’ women and spend money on them? 1. 2. 3. 4.

By the end of my very first conversation with them As soon as they give me their phone number As soon as a woman offers a suggestion that I should treat her to lunch or dinner Not until they have confirmed that they have the same romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions that I do 5. I never, ever offer to treat women to lunch or dinner or offer to spend money on them

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Mode TWO Behavior Primary Fear: I am afraid of being harshly criticized by others; I am afraid of being insulted by others; I am afraid of being unpopular with women and/or ‘disliked’ by women; I am afraid of women having any type of anger or animosity toward me

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The LEAST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

The MOST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

Mode Two Weakness #1 – No respect for my own time, attention, and social companionship

Mode Two Weakness #2 – My tendency to exhibit duplicitous behavior (monogamy-minded gentleman in public / wannabe promiscuous womanizer in private)

1) How much time per day, per week and per month do you spend flattering women, engaging in lengthy, entertaining conversations with them, and ‘wining and dining’ women? If you do spend a significant amount of time on a monthly basis engaged in one or more of those activities, what type of desirable results has it produced? Have you ever found yourself later on feeling as though you have allowed multiple women to bait you into engaging in a lot of time-wasting conversations and social activities? 2) In those instances when women have caused you to waste time and money, how did that make you feel afterwards? Angry? Frustrated? Bitter? Resentful? ‘Used’? Do you ever feel like you’ve allowed yourself to be treated by women as a ‘chump’ and/or a ‘trick?’ 3) If you had to put a realistic ‘price tag’ on your time, attention, and social companionship, what would it be? $10.00 per hour? $25.00 per hour? $50.00 per hour? More? 4) In those instances where you spent days, weeks, or months operating in the ‘Vague and Ambiguous Zone,’ and you went out of your way to ‘pretend’ as though having sex with a woman was the ‘last thing on your mind’ (when you knew it was the foremost thing on your mind), how did you feel later on when that woman started treating you like you were nothing more than a purely platonic friend to her? Also, if you did spend a lot of time flattering a woman, entertaining a woman, and ‘wining and dining’ a woman … and you were lucky enough to engage in sexual relations with her at some point … did you spend the same amount of time with her on a weekly or monthly basis AFTER you had sex with her? - BE HONEST with your answers to ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS -

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Mode THREE Behavior Primary Fear: I am extremely afraid of being rejected by women; I am very afraid of not having my way with people and/or not getting what I want from people; I have a profound fear of either a) not being able to gain the attention and companionship of a woman who I am very attracted to or b) losing the attention and companionship of a woman who I am very attracted to with no possibility of regaining it

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The MOST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

Mode Three TIMIDS

Mode Three TARGETS

Mode Three LIARS and CHEATERS

Men who never approach women or initiate a conversation with women

Men who go out of their way to attempt to ‘impress’ women with their level of wealth, their material possessions, their level of education or their career-related achievements

Men who ‘FunClub’ with women

Men who blatantly cheat on their wives, girlfriends, or monogamous sex partners

Men who give women the misleading impression that they are looking for their next long-term girlfriend, but in reality, they are only looking for a new short-term non-monogamous sex partner

1) Do you frequently avoid approaching women and initiating a conversation with them? Why? 2) Do you frequently spend hours, days, weeks, or months engaging in conversations with women that are primarily centered on your achievements, your accomplishments, your level of wealth, your material possessions, and/or your degree of financial generosity? Have you ever accused a former spouse or exgirlfriend of being a ‘gold digger’ and/or a ‘status seeker?’ Do you frequently find yourself feeling ‘used?’ 3) Have you ever spent weeks, months or years ‘pretending’ to be content with a purely platonic friendship with a woman when you knew deep-down that you wanted to interact with that woman in a more romantic and/or sexual manner? Why were you so afraid to tell her the truth? 4) Have you ever repeatedly cheated on a former spouse or an ex-girlfriend? If so, why? Why were you afraid to confess that you really wanted a long-term non-monogamous relationship instead of a longterm monogamous relationship? How do you know that she wasn’t cheating on you as well? 5) Do you often lie to women and tell them that you are looking for a new long-term monogamous girlfriend, when you know deep down that you only want a new short-term non-monogamous sex partner? How many times have your lies caused women to bad-mouth you to their girlfriends? - BE HONEST with your answers to ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS -

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Mode FOUR Behavior Primary Desire: The desire to make women feel awful about the fact that they did not fully respect and appreciate my time, my attention, and my companionship; The desire to make women feel extraordinarily guilty for not reciprocating my romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions; The desire to make women feel like they are the absolute ‘scum of the earth’ for disrespecting me, ignoring me, and/or generally wasting my damn time

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The MOST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

4 Three men who made news headlines for exhibiting Mode Four Behavior and hatred toward women:

1. Ted Bundy 2. Elliot Rodger 3. George Sodini

When Mode Two and/or Mode Three Behavior fail to create romantic or sexual chemistry with a woman, a man will usually transition into the ‘Mode Four Zone’ of bitterness and misogyny for a few hours, a few days, a few weeks, a few months or even indefinitely. When a man exhibits Mode Four Behavior, he tends to express harsh criticisms and personal insults toward women in a very upfront, specific, and straight-to-the-point manner

My Journey from Mode TWO Behavior to Mode FOUR Behavior

My Journey from Mode THREE Behavior to Mode FOUR Behavior

Men typically transition from exhibiting Mode Two Behavior to exhibiting Mode Four Behavior when they feel as though a woman of interest has caused them to waste a significant amount of time and/or money, but their investment of time, money, and effort was not ‘rewarded’ with the opportunity to share that woman’s company in a romantic or sexual manner

A Mode Three ‘Timid’ will typically transition into the ‘Mode Four Zone’ when he feels that too many women have completely and blatantly ignored him

Secondly, many men who are duplicitous in their behavior toward women tend to transition from Mode Two Behavior into the dreaded ‘Mode Four Zone’; As long as their misleading ‘polite gentleman’ façade is working in their favor, they are fine, but as soon as the women who know about their more private and promiscuous activities begin to expose them publicly, they will soon become angry, frustrated, and bitter, and start exhibiting Mode Four Behavior

A Mode Three ‘Target’ will typically transition into the ‘Mode Four Zone’ when he begins to feel that the only women who are attracted to him are ‘gold digger’ types and ‘status-seeker’ types who are just looking to ‘use him’ for financial favors A Mode Three ‘Cheater’ will transition into the ‘Mode Four Zone’ once he finds out that his wife, long-term girlfriend, or other supposed-to-be-monogamous sex partner has been cheating on him behind his back A Mode Three ‘Liar’ will transition into the ‘Mode Four Zone’ when he realizes that the women who he has been regularly lying to and misleading are just as dishonest, disingenuous, and manipulative as he is, and that they are actually BETTER at ‘manipulative head games’ than he is

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Mode FOUR Behavior 1) Have you ever met a woman … and you invested a lot of time, effort, and money trying to persuade her to be your next girlfriend or your next casual sex lover, but once she rejected you, you found yourself feeling angry, frustrated, and bitter for days, weeks, months, or years? Please write down the names of all of the women who left you feeling bitter and resentful after exhibiting Mode Two Behavior toward them. 2) Have you ever felt angry at women simply because you felt ignored by women, and the few women who did give you any attention only gave you purely platonic attention? If so, how long did that anger and frustration last? 3) Have you ever had a woman make you feel that the only reason she gave you a lot of attention and allowed you to share her company was because of the fact that you were always flattering her, entertaining her, and/or spending money on her? And once you realized she was never, ever going to have sex with YOU … but you found out she was having sex with other men who were not flattering her as much as you did, entertaining her as much as you did, and didn’t spend any money on her … how did that make you feel? 4) Have you ever attempted to ignore a woman indefinitely after she informed you that she did not have any interest in sharing your company in a romantic and/or sexual manner? How long did you ignore that woman? Please … write down the names of all of the women that you used this technique with. 5) Have you ever attempted to regularly criticize women and insult them in order to purposely provoke them to hate you and feel anger toward you? What is the longest you ever did this to a woman? Please … write down the names of all of the women that you used this technique with. 6) Finally, have you ever slapped a woman or hit a woman after she denied you sex? Have you ever date-raped a woman, raped a woman, or at least, entertained the thought of date-raping or raping a woman? Have you ever thought about physically torturing a woman or even murdering a woman? If your brutal honest answer to yourself is “Yes, I have,” then you need to seriously thinking about contacting a mental health expert, an anger management expert, or a psycho-therapist. This means your mind, ego, and emotions are in the danger zone, and you need way more help than I could possibly provide you with. - BE HONEST with your answers to ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS -

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Chapter SIX Short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex is not for everyone . . . . . . but neither is marriage and long-term monogamous relationships. Most Men’s TIERS of WOMEN

Most Women’s TIERS of MEN

PRIORITY PRIORITY The WIFE Zone The HUSBAND Zone #1 #1 PRIORITY PRIORITY The GIRLFRIEND Zone The BOYFRIEND Zone #2 #2 PRIORITY PRIORITY The Long-Term Casual Sex Partner Zone The Strictly Platonic Friend Only Zone #3 #3 PRIORITY PRIORITY The Short-Term Casual Sex Partner Zone The Long-Term Casual Sex Partner Zone #4 #4 PRIORITY PRIORITY The Strictly Platonic Friend Only Zone The Short-Term Casual Sex Partner Zone #5 #5 (Note: These ‘Companion Zones’ for each gender are not based on any type of official ‘scientific research’ or sociological surveys)

CREATE YOUR OWN ‘COMPANION ZONES’

if your priorities are different than those above PRIORITY #1 PRIORITY #2 PRIORITY #3 PRIORITY #4 PRIORITY #5

“Wrong Assumption” Clarification #1: Not all of the women I am going to meet, converse with, and socialize with are going to be innocent, wholesome, monogamy-minded, prudish ‘good girls’ “Wrong Assumption” Clarification #2: Not all of the women I am going to meet, converse with, and socialize with are going to be kinky, highly promiscuous, easy-to-seduce ‘sluts’ or ‘whores’ who will immediately have sex with just ‘any man’ at the drop of a dime HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIO: Let’s say I had you enter into a hotel room with ten (10) attractive, desirable women who you have never met before and never conversed with before. Now, look at the ‘Companion Zones’ above underneath the label “Women’s TIERS of MEN”; each of the ten women in this room has – in their mind unbeknownst to you – placed you in one of these five companion zones: • • • • •

One of the women in the room, in her mind, has placed you in ‘The HUSBAND Zone’; Two of the women in the room, in their minds, have placed you in ‘The LONG-TERM BOYFRIEND Zone’; Two of the women in the room, in their minds, have placed you in ‘The LONG-TERM CASUAL SEX PARTNER Zone’; One of the women in the room, in her mind, has placed you in ‘The SHORT-TERM CASUAL SEX PARTNER Zone’; Four of the women in the room, in their minds, have placed you in ‘The STRICTLY PLATONIC FRIEND ONLY Zone’

Now, let’s say you had only two-and-a-half hours to engage in a conversation with all ten women. How would you start off the conversation with each woman in that room? What would you talk about in order to find out what each woman’s interest was in sharing your company? Added Complication #1: What if the two women who had you placed in “The LONG-TERM BOYFRIEND Zone” were to spend 10-15 minutes ‘pretending’ as though they had you in “The STRICTLY PLATONIC FRIEND ONLY Zone?” How would you converse with these women in order to ‘break through their misleading façade’ and expose their true interest in sharing your company?

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Added Complication #2: What if two of the four women who had you placed in “The STRICTLY PLATONIC FRIEND ONLY Zone” were to spend 10-15 minutes ‘pretending’ as though they had you in “The SHORT-TERM CASUAL SEX PARTNER Zone?” How would you converse with these women in order to ‘break through their misleading façade’ and expose their true interest in sharing your company? Added Complication #3: What if the one woman who had you placed in “The SHORT-TERM CASUAL SEX PARTNER Zone” was to spend 10-15 minutes ‘pretending’ as though she had you in “The LONG-TERM BOYFRIEND Zone?” How would you converse with this woman in order to ‘break through her misleading façade’ and expose her true interest in sharing your company? RECIPROCATORS

This is a woman who will immediately and straightforwardly let you know that she has the exact same romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions that you do

REJECTERS

This is a woman who will immediately and straightforwardly let you know that she has absolutely NO INTEREST in sharing your company in any type of romantic and/or sexual manner

WHOLESOME PRETENDERS / EROTIC HYPOCRITES

A ‘Wholesome Pretender’ is a woman who will initially, temporarily, or indefinitely attempt to give you the misleading impression that she is a woman who only engages in sex within the context of a long-term monogamous type relationship, but deep-down, she is more-thanwilling to engage in short-term and/or non-monogamous sex; An ‘Erotic Hypocrite’ is simply a more materialistic, status-seeking version of a ‘Wholesome Pretender’

TIMEWASTERS

A ‘Timewaster’ is a woman who will initially, temporarily, or indefinitely attempt to give you the misleading impression that she is a woman who has some degree of interest in sharing your company in a romantic and/or sexual manner, but in reality, this woman only wants to share your company in order to have you flatter her, entertain her, perform financial and non-financial favors for her, or become an ‘Empathetic Listening Ear’ to her problems, disappointments, frustrations, and emotional wounds

Make sure and answer all of the “hypothetical scenario” and “added complication” questions

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Chapter SEVEN ‘ALPHA’ male traits vs. ‘BETA’ male traits

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1 I am extremely competitive with others

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I constantly fawn over women’s beauty and sex appeal, and I generally worship the ground that women walk on

I totally respect all of the women who I interact with

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I could care less if I say things to women that have the potential to leave them feeling agitated, angry, or egotistically frustrated

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Instructions:

I always invest a significant amount of time flattering women and/or entertaining women, and also, I consistently spend a significant amount of money ‘wining and dining’ women … but I never have any of the women who I interact with invite me to have sex with them

1) For each of the four “1” to “5” scales, please place a ‘check mark’ either in-between the “1” and “2,” between the “2” and “3,” between the “3” and “4,” or in-between the “4” and “5” 2) Assign seven (7) points for each check mark that is placed between the “1” and “2”; Assign five (5) points for each check mark that is placed between the “2” and “3”; Assign three (3) points for each check mark that is placed between the “3” and “4” Assign one (1) point for each check mark that is placed between the “4” and “5” 3) Add up your total points! If your point total is between 23 and 28, place a check mark in this column

If your point total is between 17 and 22, place a check mark in this column

If your point total is between 10 and 16, place a check mark in this column

If your point total is between 4 and 9, place a check mark in this column

TOTAL ALPHA MALE

ALPHA MALE with BETA traits

BETA MALE with ALPHA traits

TOTAL BETA MALE

BE TOTALLY HONEST IN YOUR ASSESSMENT OF YOUR BEHAVIORAL TRAITS

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Chapter SEVEN ‘ALPHA’ male traits vs. ‘BETA’ male traits Upside: Men in this category generally tend to have the easiest time motivating women to engage in short-term and/or non-monogamous sex with them

Total ALPHA male

Downside: Men in this category generally tend to ‘scare off’ women who are primarily looking for a husband or a long-term monogamous romantic companion Upside: Men in this category generally tend to be the most highly desired by women who are looking to get married as well as women who are looking to engage in a long-term monogamous ‘boyfriend-girlfriend’ type relationship

ALPHA male with BETA traits

BETA male with ALPHA traits

Downside: Men in this category generally tend to be ‘challenged’ and ‘tested’ a lot by Total ALPHA males, BETA males with ALPHA traits, and even by their own wives, girlfriends, or other female companions; Men and women want to know if these men genuinely have more ‘Alpha’ traits than ‘Beta’ traits, and they also want to know if men in this category truly have a very firm, strong sense of ‘backbone’ Upside: Men in this category generally tend to attract a lot of women who are ‘Total ALPHA female’ types and even quite a few women who are ‘ALPHA females with a few BETA traits’; These men are usually perceived as making great easy-toget-along-with husbands and great fathers to children Downside: Men in this category generally tend to exhibit a high degree of ‘passive-aggressive’ behavior with both men and women; The vast majority of women will usually only have sex with men in this category if these men are financially generous and/or totally willing to promise women indefinite monogamy Upside: Men in this category generally tend to be the most highly desired by women who are looking for a new strictly platonic friend and/or a ‘male girlfriend’

Total BETA male

Downside: Men in this category generally tend to have an extremely difficult time getting women to see them as ‘husband’ material, ‘boyfriend’ material, or ‘casual sex lover’ material; Usually these men have to resort to street prostitutes, professional Call Girls, and upscale Erotic Escorts in order to have sex

General Rule: When a woman perceives you as being far more ‘Alpha’ than ‘Beta,’ the less talking you will have to do in order to get that woman in bed … the less money you will have to spend on that woman to get her in bed … and the more promiscuous and/or polyamorous you can continue to be with other women and still get that woman in bed; When a woman perceives you as being far more ‘Beta’ than ‘Alpha,’ the more time you’re going to have to spend talking to that woman, flattering that woman, and entertaining that woman … the more money you’re going to have to spend on that woman to get her in bed … and the more you’re going to have to present yourself to her as a man who has been faithfully monogamous to all of your past spouses and/or former girlfriends.

Questions: 1) If you are currently in the “Total ALPHA male” category, are you content with being in this category? If so, what behavior do you need to avoid to remain in this category? If not, would you like to move down to the “ALPHA male with BETA traits” category in order to have an easier time attracting a wife or longterm girlfriend? 2) If you are currently in the “ALPHA male with BETA traits” category, do you find yourself being ‘challenged’ and ‘tested’ a lot by other men as well as many of the women you interact with? How do you respond to those ‘challenges’ and ‘tests?’ 3) If you are currently in the “BETA male with ALPHA traits’ category, how frequently do you exhibit ‘passive-aggressive’ or ‘moody’ behavior with women and other men? Are you content with your wife or girlfriend ‘leading’ the relationship? Do you have a strong desire to engage in short-term and/or nonmonogamous ‘casual’ sex with multiple women? If so, are you frustrated that you are unable to? 4) If you are currently in the “Total BETA male” category, would you categorize yourself as very ‘romantically frustrated’ and ‘sexually frustrated’? Are you tired of being perceived by women as a “strictly platonic friend” type only? Have you spent money on prostitutes, Call Girls, or Erotic Escorts? - BE BRUTALLY HONEST WHEN ANSWERING ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS -

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Mode ONE Behavior Primary Desire: The desire to quickly and effectively identify those women who have the same romantic and/or sexual desires, interests and intentions as I do … and also the desire to quickly and effectively identify those women who do NOT have the same romantic and sexual desires and interests as I do. Ultimately, I want to motivate all of the women who are ‘Wholesome Pretenders’ to acknowledge that they are really Reciprocators, and I want to expose all of the women who are exhibiting the behavior of a misleading and manipulative Timewaster who are looking to do nothing more than toy with my ego, ‘use me’ for self-serving favors, and generally waste my time

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The LEAST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can possibly be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

The MOST upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest I can possibly be with a woman in my very first conversation with her

I am currently ___________________________________________ (in the blank above, please write in “a Total Alpha Male,” “an Alpha Male with Beta traits,” “a Beta male with Alpha traits,” or “a Total Beta Male”)

How Mode One replaces and How Mode One prevents me How Mode One totally provides me with a more from experiencing any eliminates my motivation to effective upgrade from degree of Mode Four anger, exhibit Mode Three Behavior Mode Two Behavior bitterness, and frustration How many times has engaging in a lengthy, flattering, and entertaining conversation with a woman failed to lead to a series of romantic and/or sexual interactions with that woman? How much do I value on my own time, attention, and social companionship? How many times have I invested time and money ‘wining and dining’ a woman only for my interactions with that woman to never elevate to a level that was above and beyond a strictly platonic friendship only?

If I were a woman, would I be attracted to myself romantically and/or sexually?

Whose decision was it to allow women to cause me to waste time and money?

Would I want a woman to spend hours trying to “impress” me with her academic achievements, her career success, or her level of wealth and material possessions?

Are all women legally obligated to reciprocate my romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions?

Would I want a man blatantly lying to my mother, aunt(s), sister(s), or daughter(s) in order to get them in bed? Would I want a man regularly cheating on my mother, aunt(s), sister(s), or daughter(s)?

How many times have I ‘pretended’ to be a polite, monogamy-minded ‘gentleman’ with a woman when I knew deep down that I was more of a promiscuous womanizer?

Would I want my long-term girlfriend or wife giving me the misleading impression that she is being loyal and faithful to me, when in actuality, she is having sex with multiple men behind my back?

How many times have I allowed my fear of being harshly criticized and/or insulted by others to prevent me from behaving the way I really wanted to behave?

How would I react to learning that one of my female platonic friends was engaging in ‘casual’ sex with one of my best friends or close male acquaintances?

Whose decision was it to avoid approaching a woman and avoid initiating a conversation with her? Whose choice was it to indefinitely ‘pretend’ to be a woman’s ‘platonic male friend’ when I knew deep-down that I wanted a series of interactions with her that were more romantic and/or sexual in nature? Whose decision was it for me to try to ‘impress’ women with my degree of career success, wealth, and material possessions only to later regret dating a ‘gold digger’ type or ‘status seeker’ type? Whose choice was it to lie to my wife or long-term girlfriend about my promiscuous and/or polyamorous tendencies?

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Mode ONE Behavior Returning to the Hypothetical “10 women in the room with me” Scenario 1) One of the ten women in the room with me wants to engage in a long-term monogamous relationship with me, but she wants to wait until we get married before agreeing to have sex with me; 2) One of the ten women in the room with me is fine with the idea of engaging in a one-night stand or weekend fling with me, but she has been persuaded to give me the misleading impression that she only has sex with men within the context of a long-term monogamous ‘boyfriend-girlfriend’ relationship; 3) Two of the ten women in the room with me are interested in having sex with me, but only within the context of a long-term monogamous ‘boyfriend-girlfriend’ relationship; 4) Two of the ten women in the room with me are interested in engaging in a long-term non-monogamous ‘Friendswith-Benefits’ relationship with me as long as I am fine with them having at least one or two other male sex partners in addition to myself; 5) One of the ten women in the room with me is only interested in maintaining a purely platonic friendship with me, but she has been persuaded to give me the misleading impression that she is possibly interested in engaging in a long-term non-monogamous “Friends-with-Benefits” relationship with me as long as I bowling with her, go to the movies with her, go grocery shopping with her, and I offer to talk to her on the phone 3 or 4 times per week in order to listen to her whine about her problems, disappointments, and frustrations; 6) One of the ten women in the room with me is only interested in maintaining a purely platonic friendship with me, but she has been persuaded to give me the misleading impression that she is possibly interested in engaging in one or two weeks of casual sex with me if I agree to wine & dine her at a 5-star restaurant and take her on a weekend trip to Hawaii; 7) Two of the ten women in the room with me are only interested in maintaining a purely platonic friendship with me, but both of them want to engage in a lengthy and entertaining conversation while in the room about dating and relationships that will last at least a half hour, if not longer.

What am I willing to do differently – STARTING TODAY – in order to improve my love life, my sex life, and my overall social life?

What fears and egotistical insecurities are dominating my way of thinking and preventing me from TAKING ACTION toward improving myself and achieving my desired goals and objectives?

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Mode ONE Behavior The easiest approach you will ever experience will be with a woman who is a ‘Reciprocator’; All you have to do is let them know what you are REALLY thinking, and they will let you know that they share the exact same romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions that you do. Similarly, a woman who is a ‘Rejecter’ will never attempt to motivate you to waste time and/or money pursuing her romantic or sexual companionship once she knows that your desires, interests, and long-term intentions are totally different than her own. Do not give in to the temptation to be dishonest, misleading, or ‘vague and ambiguous’ with a Rejecter type. Neither one of you will benefit in the long-run.

PRETENDERS:

TIMEWASTERS:

Women who are really Reciprocators who have decided to initially, temporarily, or indefinitely give me the misleading impression that they are on the verge of becoming a ‘Rejecter’

Women who are really Rejecters who have decided to initially, temporarily, or indefinitely give me the misleading impression that they are on the verge of becoming a ‘Reciprocator’

If you want a more detailed explanation regarding the psychology behind women who are ‘Pretender’ types, please purchase the eBook or paperback version of Alan Roger Currie’s book entitled, Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex

If you want a more detailed explanation regarding the psychology behind women who are ‘Timewaster’ types, please purchase Alan Roger Currie’s eBook entitled, The Possibility of Sex: How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly

Many men tend to confuse a ‘Pretender’ type with a Rejecter. These two types are similar, but yet, different.

Many men tend to confuse a ‘Timewaster’ type with a Reciprocator. These two types are similar, but yet, different.

Rejecter: Once you let her know your true desires, interests, and intentions, she will tell you immediately and straightforwardly that she does not share the same desires and interests;

Reciprocator: Once you let her know your true desires, interests, and intentions, she will let you know immediately and straightforwardly that she shares the same desires and interests that you do;

Timewaster: Once you let her know your true desires, interests, and intentions, she will attempt to keep things lighthearted and very ‘talky’; She will make every effort to keep her desires and interests very ‘vague and ambiguous’; More than likely, she is going to attempt to motivate you to spend time flattering her, entertaining her, and/or ‘wining and dining’ her, but if you make any type of physical or sexual advance toward her, she is not going to fully Best Advice: Never allow a Pretender type to ‘bait reciprocate it (she definitely is not going to engage in you’ into backing down from something you said to any sort of oral sex and/or intercourse with you). her, apologizing for something you said to her, or Best Advice: Never allow a Timewaster type to tempt engaging in a time-wasting, petty ‘debate’ or ‘argument’ about her opinions vs. your opinions you into spending a lot of time flattering them, about how to approach women and properly entertaining them, or ‘wining and dining’ them. State your romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and converse with them. This will get you NOWHERE. intentions to them confidently and directly, and do Just stand by everything you said, and reiterate what not share their company for any lengthy period of your desires, interests, and intentions are. Always time until they definitely and specifically reciprocate remain cool, calm and collected with your demeanor. your romantic or sexual desires and interests. Pretender: Once you let her know your true desires, interests, and intentions, she will suggest that your manner of verbal expression is ‘too forward’ or ‘too provocative,’ and then she will transition into expressing a high degree of nitpicky, highly subjective criticisms and insults about various aspects of your behavior toward her and women in general; But rarely if ever will she flat-out reject you.

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BEING MODE ONE The Major Principles of Exhibiting ‘Mode One’ Behavior

Main Principle: Never allow your fear of being criticized, your fear of being rejected, and/or your fear of receiving a ‘negative reaction’ from a woman to prevent you from approaching a woman of interest and initiating a conversation with her; The more frequently you give in to your fears and your egotistical insecurities, the stronger and more intimidating those fears and insecurities are going to become

Mode One – Principle #1: Never allow yourself to be afraid to let women know why you really approached them, and why you really want to share their company in the near or distant future; Never ‘back down’ or apologize for expressing your romantic and/or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman in a bold, upfront, specific, and straightforwardly honest manner

Mode One – Principle #2: Never allow yourself to engage in more than roughly five (5) minutes of trivial, inconsequential ‘chit chat,’ ‘fluff talk,’ or ‘small talk’ with a woman prior to letting her know why you really approached her and why you really initiated a conversation with her. Ideally, if you are in a social environment where it is just you and the woman, and no one else is around, you should keep to your ‘small talk’ to a maximum of two-to-three minutes

Mode One – Principle #3: Never behave toward a woman as if she is your ONLY option for romantic or sexual companionship with a woman. You might think you are going to make her feel “special,” but the reality is that more-than-likely, the woman you are interacting with is going to perceive you as ‘desperate,’ ‘lonely,’ or ‘needy.’ Also, never ‘fawn over’ a woman or be too quick to offer to ‘wine and dine’ a woman; these gestures also make you look ‘needy’ and ‘desperate’ in the eyes of most women

Mode One – Principle #4: Never offer nitpicky, highly subjective criticisms to women about their looks or their personality and behavior. Bottom line, either you want to spend time with this woman romantically and/or sexually, or you do not. Either, or. If a woman’s behavior gets on your nerves and leaves you feeling agitated to the point where you are starting to ‘whine and complain’ about a woman’s behavior behind her back, then plain and simple, it is time to divorce that woman, break up with that woman, and generally leave that woman alone

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BEING MODE ONE The Major Principles of Exhibiting ‘Mode One’ Behavior Mode One – Principle #5: Never try to disparage another man’s looks, personality, achievements, or popularity with women while in the company of women. You might think you are doing a good job of undermining that man’s appeal to women, but in actuality, you are raising that man’s value in the eyes of those same women. When you harshly criticize or insult other men who are popular with women (otherwise known as ‘player-hatin’), in the long run, it makes you look egotistically insecure

Mode One – Principle #6: Unless you have a really good feel for a woman’s facial expressions and body language cues and signals, and you can quickly sense that this woman is going to be very receptive to your sexual advances, I would suggest that you never be too quick to use erotically explicit / XXX-rated language with a woman; In most situations, you should wait until you are within roughly one foot of a woman before you attempt to arouse a woman with ‘erotic dirty talk’; Preferably, you should wait until that woman allows you to get close enough to talk to her using a half-whisper tone of voice in HER LEFT EAR (what I commonly refer to as ‘The Left Ear Zone’; A woman’s left ear is connected to the RIGHT SIDE of her BRAIN, which is the more ‘emotional,’ ‘spontaneous’ and ‘free-spirited’ side of a human being’s brain). Probably 80-90% of my raunchiest erotic dirty talk with women has been when I was close enough to them to converse with them using a self-assured, smooth, and seductive half-whisper tone of voice into their left ear. Also, in those moments when you are not talking into a woman’s left ear, then always look women directly in their eyes while talking to them

Mode One – Principle #7: Never display an ‘angry’ reaction in response to a woman rejecting you; being rejected by a woman is never representative of ‘failure’ with women. Never. The only time you can say to yourself that you ‘failed’ with women is when you FAIL TO APPROACH WOMEN who you are attracted to … you FAIL TO INITIATE A CONVERSATION WITH THEM … and/or you FAIL TO EXPRESS TO THESE WOMEN YOUR TRUE ROMANTIC and/or SEXUAL DESIRES, INTERESTS, and INTENTIONS. As long as you had the confidence and courage to approach a woman, initiate a conversation with her, and let her know that you want to share her company at some point in the future in a romantic or sexual manner, you have done your job. After that point, the ball is in the woman’s court to reciprocate your desires and interests or reject your desires and interest. Either, or

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Glossary of Terms and Phrases Alpha Male with Beta traits – This is a man who usually possesses far more ‘Alpha’ personality traits than ‘Beta’ attributes, but generally speaking, he has a ‘blend’ of both

Platonic companionship – When a man or woman wants to share each other’s company without any sort of romantic and/or sexual undertones to the interaction at all

Beta Male with Alpha traits – This is a man who usually possesses far more ‘Beta’ personality traits than ‘Alpha’ attributes, but generally speaking, he has a ‘blend’ of both

Player – A womanizer who has a reputation for being upfront and straightforwardly honest with women about the fact that he primarily wants to engage in promiscuous and/or polyamorous sexual behavior with Chump – A man who frequently gets ‘used’ multiple women and manipulated by women; Also, a man known for performing a lot of financial and Reciprocator – A woman who will quickly and non-financial favors for women without any straightforwardly let a man know that she expectation of being rewarded with a shares the same romantic and/or sexual woman’s romantic or sexual companionship. desires, interests, and intentions that he has ‘Companion Zones’ – Different tiers of companions that both men and women desire; For example, most men consider a long-term casual sex partner to be more desirable than a ‘platonic friend only’ companion

Rejecter – A woman who will quickly and straightforwardly let a man know that she has no interest whatsoever in sharing his company in a romantic or sexual manner

Dog – (Also referred to as a ‘Pig’) A man who has a reputation for being an adulterer, a cheater, and a liar; A womanizer who has a reputation for giving women the misleading impression that he wants to engage in a longterm monogamous relationship when he really wants to engage in a short-term nonmonogamous relationship

Seduction – The process of persuading a person to overcome their feelings of indifference, reluctance, or resistance and avoid giving in to their inhibitions or prudishoriented objections and instead become more enthusiastic and receptive to the idea of engaging in sexual relations with you

Romantic companionship – When a man or woman wants to share each other’s company Disingenuous Behavior – Behavior that is both sexually and non-sexually, and there is a insincere, misleading, and/or phony. profound emotional bond between them

Sexual companionship – When a man or woman wants to share each other’s company in a strictly sexual manner; When a man or woman has no desire to spend time with others in any sort of platonic or romantic manner

Duplicitous Behavior – When a man or woman has the tendency to exhibit one type of behavior in public, but a totally different type of behavior in private; For example, giving people the public impression that you only indulge in long-term monogamous type sex, but privately, you indulge in short-term Slut – A term used by many men and women to describe a person who has indulged in and/or non-monogamous type sex. sexual relations with a high number of people Effective Behavior – Any behavior you exhibit in a relatively short period of time; Also, a that has a high potential to help you woman who has a reputation for having sex accomplish your desired objectives and with a high number of men within 24 hours or achieve your desired goals less after first making their acquaintance

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‘Empathetic Listening Ear’ or ‘Male Girlfriend’ – A man who regularly allows himself to listen to women ‘vent’ about their problems, disappointments, frustrations, and ‘emotional wounds,’ particularly as it relates to the men who these women have recently dated or had sex with; A man who is involved in a ‘platonic friend only’ relationship with a woman who loves to listen to her gossip about others while never making any attempt to be physical and/or sexual with this woman

Small Talk – (also known as ‘chit chat’ or ‘fluff talk’) Any conversation you engage in with others that is usually flattering and entertaining, but on the negative end, is insincere and/or trivial and inconsequential

FunClubbin’ – When a man is ‘pretending’ to be content with maintaining a purely platonic friendship with a woman, when in reality, he really wants to be in a romantic or sexual relationship with that same woman

(Mode Three) Timid – A man who never approaches women and also avoids initiating a conversation with women because of a profound fear of being rejected or humiliated by a woman in public

“Sneakin’ in a woman’s pants through the back door” – Slang phrase for a man who attempts to get a woman to engage in shortterm and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex by persuading her to consume large amounts of alcohol, drugging her, date-raping her, or Erotic Hypocrite – A woman who is very raping her (i.e., the man who tends to exhibit materialistic, status-oriented, and sexually Mode Four Behavior) duplicitous; A woman who is a combination of a ‘Gold Digger’ and a ‘Wholesome Pretender’ “Sneakin’ in a woman’s pants through the side door” – Slang phrase for a man who Erotic Tension – The usual ‘starting point’ of attempts to get a woman to engage in shortcreating sexual chemistry between a man and term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex by a woman; Normally, a man or woman giving her the misleading impression that he develops erotic tension when they are wants to engage in a long-term monogamous attracted to a member of the opposite sex, relationship (i.e., the man who tends to but that person is exhibiting behavior that is exhibit Mode Three Behavior) extremely bold and provocative, or frustrating Strong Behavior – Any behavior you exhibit to their ego that makes it hard for others to control you, Façade – To present a façade to others is disrespect you, influence you, manipulate essentially the same thing as exhibiting you, mislead you, or generally have their way duplicitous behavior with people; For with you example, when a woman who is a ‘Wholesome Pretender’ type publicly gives (Mode Three) Target – A man who spends men the impression that sexually provocative most of his conversation with a woman conversations that include profane, erotically attempting to ‘impress’ her with his academic explicit language are a ‘turn off’ and are achievements, his career-related ‘disrespectful’ and/or ‘offensive,’ but deep- achievements, his level of wealth, or his down, that same woman is actually becoming degree of social status or popularity; Also, a aroused by such a stimulating conversation, man who has a knack for attracting ‘gold this would represent a woman presenting digger’ types and/or ‘status-seeker’ types men with the misleading façade that she is prudish and not fond of X-rated language. Timewaster – A woman who tends to frequently give men the misleading Friends-with-Benefits – A sexual relationship impression that she has some degree of where a man and a woman will publicly interest in sharing their company in a present themselves as being ‘just friends,’ but romantic or sexual manner, but in reality, she privately, they are engaging in a very discreet really just wants to share the company of these same men in a purely platonic manner non-monogamous sexual relationship

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(Polite) Gentleman – A man who gives women the impression that he will only engage in sex within the context of marriage, or at minimum, only within the context of a long-term monogamous ‘boyfriend-girlfriend’ type relationship; Also, a man who rarely uses profanity or erotically explicit language while in conversation with women

Total Alpha Male – A man who possesses no ‘Beta’ traits in his behavior or personality at all; A man who is usually aggressive, controlling, demanding, erotically dominant, extremely masculine, seductively charming and and persuasive, self-assured, uncompromising with women Total Beta Male – A man who possesses no ‘Alpha’ traits in his behavior or personality at all; A man who is usually very accommodating, acquiescent, compliant, deferential, erotically submissive, financially generous, flattering, highly respectful, lenient, and passive with women

(Prudish) Good Girl – A woman who gives men the impression that she will only engage in sex within the context of marriage, or at minimum, only within the context of a longterm monogamous ‘boyfriend-girlfriend’ type relationship; A woman who is perceived to have never, ever engaged in short-term and/or non-monogamous sex; Also, a woman Trick – Any man who is willing to pay a woman who never uses profanity or erotically explicit money in order to share her company in a romantic or sexual manner language while in conversation with men

Weak Behavior – Any behavior you exhibit Ineffective Behavior – Any behavior you that makes it easy for others to control you, exhibit that has the potential to prevent you disrespect you, dominate you, influence you, from accomplishing your desired objectives or manipulate you, mislead you, or generally prevent you from achieving your desires goals have their way with you Kinky Freak – A man or woman who is very adventurous and erotically uninhibited in bed, and generally receptive to the idea of engaging in short-term and/or nonmonogamous sexual relationships

Wholesome Pretender – A woman who tends to exhibit a high degree of sexually duplicitous behavior toward men

Whore – A woman who frequently agrees to have sex with men in exchange for some sort (Mode Three) Liars and Cheaters – Any man of financial compensation, monetary favors, who is never open and honest with women employment offers, materialistic gifts, or about his desire to engage in short-term anything else of value and/or non-monogamous sex with them ‘Wining and Dining’ a woman – Anytime a Manipulative ‘Head Games’ – When a man or man frequently treats a woman to free meals, woman frequently exhibits behavior that is free concerts, free movies, or he buys a dishonest, disingenuous, duplicitous, and/or woman a high number of expensive material misleading with others gifts in order to motivate that woman to become his wife, his next long-term girlfriend, (Mode Four) Misogynist – A man who has or his next casual sex lover allowed himself to become so bitter and resentful toward women that he no longer Womanizer – A man who has a reputation for wants to share their company in a platonic, having sex with a high number of women in a romantic, or even a sexual manner; In relatively short period of time; An honest extreme cases, he develops a desire to date- womanizer is frequently referred to as a rape women, rape women, torture them, or ‘Player’ while a dishonest and manipulative even murder them womanizer is usually referred to as a ‘Dog’ or ‘Pig’