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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons by Jack Hutson Founder of HowToGiveHead.biz & JacksBlowjobLessons.com with Tanya J Special thanks to Justin T. Moore for the design and editing work! Disclaimer: No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotations utilized in articles and reviews. The programs and information expressed within this book are not medical advice, but rather represent the author’s opinions and are solely for informational and educational purposes. The author is not responsible in any manner whatsoever for any injury or health condition that may occur through following the techniques and opinions expressed herein. Sexual information is presented for informational purposes only and may not be appropriate for all individuals. Consult with your partner before starting any of the methods described in this book.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Jack’s Blowjob Lessons ............................................................................. 2 Introduction ............................................................................................. 7 Part 1: The Attitude you need for giving the Best Blow Job .................. 13 1 -‐ Intro .............................................................................................. 13 2 – Love that Dick ............................................................................... 14 3 – Why love that dick? ...................................................................... 16 4 – How to love it? ............................................................................. 17 5 – The Winner Attitude .................................................................... 20 Part 2: Quick Anatomy of his Penis ........................................................ 23 His Balls – or Scrotum ........................................................................ 23 His Shaft ............................................................................................. 24 His Head ............................................................................................. 24 Part 3: The Good, the Bad and the Best -‐ Blow Job Positions ................ 26 The Regular Housewife – ** .............................................................. 26 The Regular Housewife 2.0 – *** ...................................................... 27 Supreme Dominance – ***** ............................................................ 28 Ultimate Relaxation -‐ **** ................................................................ 28 Doggy Style Position – *** ................................................................. 30 Sit and Suck – *** .............................................................................. 31 Sixty Nine – ** ................................................................................... 32 The Smart Housewife – **** ............................................................. 33 Reverse Mouthfuck – *** .................................................................. 33 Supreme Mouthfuck -‐ **** ............................................................... 34 Part 4: Foreplay ...................................................................................... 37 Mental Foreplay ................................................................................. 37 Step #1 = get him to relax. ................................................................ 38 Step #2 = get him hard ....................................................................... 39 Step #3 = teasing him. ........................................................................ 42 Part 5: Blow Job Techniques .................................................................. 45 1 -‐ Regular .......................................................................................... 46 2 -‐ Twisting ......................................................................................... 46 3
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons 3 – Left-‐right ...................................................................................... 48 4 – Up ’n’ Down ................................................................................. 49 5 – Two Handed Twisting ................................................................... 50 6 – Blowing and Licking ...................................................................... 51 7 – Stroking it on your tongue ........................................................... 52 8 – Vacuuming ................................................................................... 52 9 – Spitting ......................................................................................... 54 10 – Ball Control ................................................................................. 55 11 – Tickling and Sucking ................................................................... 57 12 – In and Outs, regular ................................................................... 58 13 – In and Outs, biting ...................................................................... 58 14 – In and Outs, tongue twisting ...................................................... 60 15 -‐ Slapping ...................................................................................... 61 16 – Mouthfucking ............................................................................. 62 17– No Hands ..................................................................................... 66 18 – Going out ................................................................................... 67 19 – Using your delicious lips to caress his cock ................................ 68 20 – This “technique” is only for the brave (Golden) ......................... 68 21 – Cheeks ........................................................................................ 72 22 – A few details that will help ......................................................... 72 Part 6: How to Deepthroat like a Porn Star ........................................... 76 Part 7: Top Blowjob Locations ............................................................... 83 1. How to Give Head in a Car ............................................................. 84 2. The Kitchen .................................................................................... 88 3. How to Give Head in a Cinema ...................................................... 90 4. Outdoor/Public .............................................................................. 91 5. Public Toilet ................................................................................... 93 6. Bathroom Blowjobs and How to Motivate Your Man .................... 94 7. Elevator .......................................................................................... 96 8. On the Beach ................................................................................. 98 Part 8: Atmosphere .............................................................................. 100 Part 9: Blow Job Styles ......................................................................... 107 4
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Aggressive Blow Jobs ....................................................................... 107 Take it easy Style .............................................................................. 108 Mixing it up ...................................................................................... 109 Good Morning Blow Jobs ................................................................. 109 Good Night Blow Jobs ...................................................................... 110 Surprise Blow Jobs ........................................................................... 111 Part 10: How to Talk Dirty during Blow Jobs ........................................ 112 What you should say before giving him head? ................................ 112 What you should say while giving him head and right before he cums? ............................................................................................... 114 What you should say after you gave him a blow job? ..................... 116 Part 11: End Game aka “The Grand Finale” ......................................... 118 Option 1 – Spitting (bad girl) ............................................................ 122 Option 2 – Swallowing (good girl) .................................................... 123 Fast ................................................................................................... 123 Slow (very good girl) ........................................................................ 124 On your tongue ................................................................................ 125 “Shooting” – In your mouth, when YOU’re holding his cock ........... 125 “Shooting” – In your mouth, when HE is holding his cock ............... 126 Facials .............................................................................................. 127 Somewhere else on your body ........................................................ 129 The Taste of Sperm .......................................................................... 129 Part 12: Problems that may come along, and how to solve them ....... 131 Erection Problems ............................................................................ 131 I’m tired, now what? ........................................................................ 133 Scratching ........................................................................................ 136 Wow! Go take a shower. ................................................................. 137 Part 13: Additional Advice ................................................................... 138 Feedback .......................................................................................... 138 Experiment ....................................................................................... 138 Working out ..................................................................................... 139 Part 14: Sexually Transmitted Diseases ............................................... 142 5
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons 15: Powerful Bonus Tips ...................................................................... 144 Doggy Style End-‐Game Position ....................................................... 144 Additional Dirty Talking Tips ............................................................ 145 Slow Motion Technique ................................................................... 146 One More Magical End Game Tip .................................................... 146 The Best for Last – Welcome Home Baby ........................................ 147 Part 16: Putting it all together ............................................................. 151
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Introduction 1 Hello girls. I’m Jack. First of all, thanks for buying my book – and second – Congratulations on investing your money into something fun, exciting and most importantly – useful. You’ve made the right choice – and you’ll see why once you finish reading it. This is not a typical how-‐to mumbo jumbo book. Most people that give advice on giving head probably don’t get any. And how can someone, who got 1 blow job in his entire life, tell you how to do it properly? Can someone please explain me that? I get a blow job every single day of the week. Not once a year! Let me tell you why I wrote this book… do you have any idea how most of you girls give head? Nine out of 10 blow jobs are – absolutely shit. Out of those 9 – probably more than 5 think they’re “amazing at giving head”, the other half are honest, shy and AWARE (which is very important) that they suck at it. Now these are the girls that I wrote this book for. They (you) deserve to learn how to REALLY give amazing head. You girls are honest and brave enough to admit that you’re not “that good”… and that’s great, I truly appreciate that. You have to be honest with yourself if you want to learn anything in life. You deserve to learn… but the girls that think that “they’re amazing” – wow, they’re 7
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons completely clueless. I feel sorry for those girls, and even sorrier for their boyfriends and husbands, or whatever. Fuck them, they’re stupid. They live in an illusion. Just because he came doesn’t mean it felt good. Whatever, their problem. You need real advice, from a real guy, that has real experience with getting head – with more than one girl, on more than one occasion. I’m a bit of an asshole, or maybe I look like that – but girls love me, and there’s nothing I can do about that. I got my first blow job when I was 15 and sadly, it was shit. I was thinking about it day and night, the only thing I could think of was getting a blow job, I didn’t even think about losing my virginity… I was just like “blowjob, blowjob, blowjob”, literallyJ. Then one day, at my friend’s party I hooked up with an older girl, Jessica, she was 17. I acted like a complete jerk for no apparent reason – and then… suddenly we’re in the toilet and she’s unzipping my jeans! It was my dream coming true (or so I thought at the time), I couldn’t believe it was happening, you should have seen the smile on my face – and then, then she started sucking it as if it was a chopstick! Her tongue was sore as sand, she started biting my dick off, I couldn’t believe that THIS was what I was dreaming about, “this?!” She even turned the lights off. I was like, what the fuck?! Then it just started hurting after she was scratching my shaft and head. I turned the lights on and told her to stop. I just got out of there in a shock and went home… 8
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons You can’t imagine how disappointed I was. I couldn’t believe that this was “it”? I didn’t want to get another blow job – ever. I still couldn’t imagine that this is what I was waiting for with such amazement. I was frustrated and angry, angry at her and at myself. After that I was so afraid of blow jobs and sex in general that I didn’t even dare to hook up with a girl. But all my friends lost their virginity, so I had to as well. I saved some money and I went to a professional. This time it was a lot different. It was amazing and finally what I expected – not only did I lose the V stamp from my forehead, but I also got a truly incredible blow job. It felt like heaven. The most amazing experience a man can get – a perfect blow job. I still remember that day, I was smiling for weeks, I was laughing by myself – people walking by me on the street probably thought I was insane J. I felt like… It’s indescribable… it was the best day of my life. After that, every blow job I got was not even close as good as the one I got from the “professional”. Not even close. I went from one relationship, to the next relationship, from one night stand to one night stand, from one fuck buddy to the next, I even got married once (I divorced her when she refused to give me head – No, it’s not a joke. Yes, I’m serious). Affairs, coworkers, parties. Oh, I forgot about 4 years of college… that was fun J 9
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons 2 I’m talking about hundreds of girls I’ve slept with, long term, short term relationships, “friends with benefits”… literally thousands of blow jobs. I’m not telling you this to brag. It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe me, you don’t have to. Some of you may ask, why have I been with so many women? How old am I? Am I crazy? Yes, I am probably a bit crazy, I’m 34 years old. I have a strong sex drive and it’s hard to satisfy me. And I love women, but I could never fall in love with “a woman”. (Except for a few times). It’s not easy to fall in love when you can’t find a girl that will give you amazing head. How am I supposed to completely fall in love with someone who can’t satisfy my needs as a man? Every time I got a bad blow job (and there were many – as I said, out of 10 women, 9 give bad head), I had this feeling of despair… “Will I ever find a girl that will truly satisfy me?” is a thought that crossed my mind many times… thank God I did find them, and I fell in love with them, these girls were like angels – I wake up, I slowly open my eyes and I see her sucking my dick and smiling – now, is there a better way to start a day? I don’t think so. Most guys feel like shit ‘cause they never found these girls. Their wife or girlfriend is either miserable at giving head or she’s average at best – but she THINKS she’s good, or – she doesn’t give him head at all, 10
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons because it’s “yukee”. How sad… Millions of guys will never experience receiving an incredible blow job. I guess you know how they say – “A good man is hard to find”. The same way guys say -‐ “A good blow job is hard(er) to find” Once you read this book -‐ you will be far ahead of other girls when it comes to giving blow jobs – which means more guys for you, better guys for you and better relationships for YOU. After I got head from a professional, (the first amazing blow job I got) – there was nothing that could come close to it. I met a bunch of girls that I really liked – but they couldn’t give great head – this made me so angry that I literally made it my “mission” to teach these girls how to give amazing blow jobs. These girls didn’t understand that THE BEST way to satisfy a man is to give him amazing head, they didn’t understand that in order to make a guy do almost ANYTHING for them – all they needed was the skill to give amazing blow jobs. Of course, that’s not the most important thing – but it is crucial for a good relationship. There was no one out there teaching these girls how to do it properly – I got fed up a few months ago when another girl ruined it as I was cumming – That’s when I told myself “Enough, if no one else is gonna teach them – I will!” … and that’s how this book was created. To teach You everything your mother should have thought you -‐ just joking – to teach you everything you were afraid to ask and everything you will ever need to know about giving head. 11
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons The problem is that most guys are too shy to tell girls how to do it – or they don’t know how good it CAN be. Then most of you girls ask other girls – girls that THINK they know how to do it well. Then you get some completely stupid advice like “twist your tongue counter clockwise 4 times, then 3 times clockwise in an angle of 45 degrees” WTF?! Are these girls crazy, that’s the stupidest advice I ever heard in my life. Girls – you can NEVER learn how to give amazing blow jobs from another girl – period. We – the men – have the dick. So obviously WE know what “it” (our proud and erect friend called “the penis”) likes best. So… dear Ladies, I promise you – you WILL learn the secrets of giving THE BEST head on the planet by reading this book. You will be the one out of 10 girls that know how to really satisfy their man – and he will love you for it, he will beg you for more and he will do ANYTHING you tell him to. Not only will he be eating out of your hands, he will feel as if it was his duty to repay you with amazing sex, favors and presents. You’ve got the “blowjob skills” – you’ve got the power J Buying this book is probably the best investment you’ve made in the last few months. I’ve put a lot of work into it and I hope you enjoy it. Now let’s get this party started. Your blow job instructor, Jack 12
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Part 1: The Attitude you need for giving the Best Blow Job
1 - Intro Most information on the internet about giving head is pure bullshit – I already said that. But let me make it clear exactly why it’s almost completely useless information. The reason is simple – they focus on teaching you the most irrelevant parts of giving head. They try to teach you the “X special secret technique” or “super blow job technique blah blah blah” – and that’s all nice, but it’s completely useless if you don’t have the right attitude. Some of them say “you have to be into it” and then they immediately go to – “xyz blow job technique”. They forget how important attitude is. And then YOU forget how important attitude is – because you think that in order to give the best blow job you have to know the best technique. … girls, that is stupid. Forget all about that. Yes, you will learn a bunch of great techniques in this book, don’t worry. But they will be of little to no use to you if you don’t “install” the “winner attitude” into your head. 13
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Let me tell you something plain and simple – Attitude is 80% of a great blow job, 10% is technique and 10% is everything else. If you don’t have a great attitude – you won’t give him the best head. Period. When you add up everything – great attitude, great technique and great details – you’ll give him the most amazing blow job of his life, and he will love you for it… more than you can possibly imagine. You will be amazed when you realize what kind of a difference a good blow job can make in your relationship, marriage and life in general. Anyway, let’s keep the ball rolling…
2 – Love that Dick This is the most important part of a killer blow job – yes, you read it right – Love that dick. I’m not saying “be enthusiastic or excited”, I’m not saying “enjoy sucking it”, I’m not saying “act like you like it” – I’m telling you to BE COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH YOUR MANS DICK. I know some of you girls don’t like the smell of it (we’ll talk about that), I know some of you don’t enjoy giving your man head – but believe me, you will. Once you finish reading this book, and practicing a little, you will start enjoying it more and more. The better you get at it, the more you will like it – the more you like it, the better you will get at it. That’s the way it goes. 14
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So, what does “being in love with his dick” mean? What I’m trying to say is that simply “enjoying it”, or “acting like you’re into it” is not enough, not even close. You need to suck his dick with true passion and complete love – as if it was the most delicious thing on the planet. Imagine a guy going down on you – let’s say his name is Steve. Steve is going down on you and he has this boring, stupid look on his face, like a robot. Absolutely no emotions. He starts licking your clit in a slow, monotone tempo, without making a sound. Then he makes a horrible grimace – as if he just tasted a piece of smelly, brown shit – then he keeps on licking you and he’s trying to act as if nothing has happened – but you can still see this ugly frown he made. Now forget about Steve… I’m Jack. Imagine I go down on you. Besides being crazy and brutally good looking – I’m also confident that I can give you amazing head. I slowly tease you, and kiss your clit passionately while looking into your eyes, you can see me smiling, you can see me going crazy, and completely horny. I slowly inhale the smell of your beautiful pussy – it makes me even hornier, I can already feel your pussy getting wet, I look deep into your eyes and smile. Mmm, I can’t wait to taste it. I lick your inner thighs slowly with the tip of my tongue and then when you’re already on the verge of screaming for me to start – I jump in there with my entire face, I kiss you, lick you and drink your beautiful juices like 15
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons there’s no tomorrow… Honestly girls, I love eating you out more than life itself. So… who did you like better, Steve the robot or Jack the sexmachine? Yep. You liked me better. If I was you, I’d like myself better too… J Anyway, this example is completely the same when you give head to guys – if you are BORED -‐ he will be even more bored, if you like giving it – he’ll like getting it. That’s a simple rule – but a rule that most of you girls either forget or don’t give enough attention to.
3 – Why love that dick? Do you want your man to have an incredible orgasm or not? If yes – then you HAVE to love it. When I say “love that dick” what I’m trying to say is “love sucking his dick” – he needs to see this. He needs to see that you’re not just enjoying it a little bit – but that you are truly loving every second of it – you want it more than anything else. Nothing else exists in that moment – but the pleasure you are getting from licking, sucking and stroking his cock. Guys can sense when you genuinely enjoy sucking their dick – and they truly appreciate it. But when you look bored, or make nasty faces – or 16
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons when he sees you’re doing it as If it was a chore – he will feel like a failure. He will feel as if he doesn’t excite you enough – and that is a miserable feeling. I guess all of you girls felt it at least once in your life – if your man couldn’t get an erection – or even worse, if he lost it during sex. That’s exactly how a guy feels when you’re bored while giving him head. I’ll talk more about what you shouldn’t do when giving a blow job – but not now, later. We have more important things to discuss now.
4 – How to love it? So, you are aware that you have to love it, but you’re still not quite sure what “loving it” means and how to show him that you love it. There are many things indicating that you love it – you can show it with your body language, words, sounds and of course – your actions. I’ll explain each of these in detail later. While you’re sucking his dick – look into his eyes and moan. Imagine you are sucking on your favorite ice cream, slowly kiss it with passion, lick it with a moan… say “Mmmm it tastes so good”, then look deep into his eyes and smile as if you have never been happier. You have to be horny If you want him to get horny. This is called entering a “state” – a state of mind. So, when you are really horny he will get hornier a lot faster than if you were bored for example. Emotions tend to jump from one person to the other. So, 17
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons since You are giving Him head – you should lead. Get into an aroused, horny state – even if you have to act in the beginning – and it will pass onto him. Listen to me now ‘cause this is extremely important – as I already said, attitude and mindset are the key – we already talked a little about attitude – here’s the mindset you need to have (a mindset is a way you are looking at something, very similar to an attitude, but still not the same) – YOU are getting pleasure from sucking his dick – this has to be your mindset. This type of thinking will make you better at giving head than 95% of other women out there in the world. Imagine how powerful just one attitude can be. Most girls think that by giving their man a blow job – they are GIVING him something, or giving him pleasure. And they are right – but that’s not the correct way to view giving head – because when you think like that not only do you enjoy it less – you also make him feel insecure about it, ‘cause he feels as if he’s taking something from you – taking your time, taking your effort or whatever. Or he feels as if he owns you something – and all of this leads to more problems, like making him feel uneasy and destroying his ability to relax and fully enjoy the blow job. Did you even know this? So many things can go wrong, or just not good enough – just because of a stupid attitude. This one bad attitude is why 18
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons most girls give bad blow jobs – and changing this one attitude will completely change how You Feel when giving head. As I already said, how you feel is how he will feel. So, let’s recap – you have to change “He should be happy that I made the effort to be on my knees and suck his dick, I hate doing this” Into >>> “I looove sucking his dick, mmm, it feels so good, I love the taste of it, I wish I could keep on sucking it forever, God, I’m so happy he let me suck on it, it’s the most beautiful thing on Earth, Aaaah” “I am giving him head” Into >>> “He is giving me incredible pleasure from letting me suck his hard, tasteful cock” It is much harder to unlearn old stuff than learn new stuff. That’s why you need to CHANGE these attitudes and replace them with the new one’s I gave you. Forget about you giving him anything – he is giving you pleasure by letting you suck on his dick. I know this is hard to swallow for some of you girls – but understand that this is exactly how you need to think in order to give him THE BEST blow job he will ever get. 19
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Blow jobs are in some way a method to convey male dominance over the female. It is natural for a man to be dominant in sex, and by giving him a blow job you are showing ultimate submissiveness – and thereby giving him ultimate pleasure. Remember girls – this is NATURAL, that’s the way it should be by nature. So forget about feminism when giving head.
5 – The Winner Attitude OK. Everything above was JUST an introduction to the “winner attitude” you need for giving the best blow jobs. Yes, you already know you have to love it – but that’s not everything. You have to STOP trying to skip THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF GIVING HEAD – almost every girl forgets this. Attitude is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR GIVING AMAZING HEAD. Never, ever forget that. I’m trying to build a strong foundation for you here, so if you skip reading and understanding this part of the book almost everything else you read (techniques, end game, positions etc.) will be useless. So, what is “the winner attitude”? When giving head your man needs to feel like a King – he is your King and you are his Queen -‐ giving him the best blow job, and he is letting 20
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons you suck his dick – which is amazing, because there is nothing in the world you love more than licking, sucking and stroking your mans dick. He can see the Love in your eyes, he can see that you’re sucking it with true passion and COMPLETE love. Second – ACT HORNY. Your man can see everything in your eyes, he will know if you really love it or not. Everything you do can be seen in your body language (more on that later). He needs to see in your eyes that you are soo horny… you have to act like a little slut, make naughty faces and smile seductively. This will make him incredibly horny and it will also show him that you “love his dick” – which is your goal. Your goal is to convince him that you are COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH SUCKING HIS COCK. You have to be naughty, just like a Porn star. Third – BE HAPPY. This is another extremely important part of a “winner” blow job attitude. So, not only are you enjoying it, not only are you horny and naughty as hell – you are also INCREDIBLY HAPPY. He has to see all of this in your eyes, while you’re looking deep into his eyes – while his dick is deep in your mouth. You are happy because you know that he is happy. You are happy because you are GETTING something that YOU LOVE – his dick. He has to see joy in your eyes, true happiness. There is nothing more beautiful for a man than a happy, horny girl giving him the best blow job in his life – and you can be that girl. You can be his dream. 21
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So, the more you smile the better. To make HIM smile all YOU need is a nice, seductive, horny smile J A bunch of girls make angry or dull faces when giving head. Or they give me the “I’m working” look, as if they were working on a very important project the entire day. Every face that you make that is not a) smiling or b) horny – is not good. Yes, there are a bunch of other faces that you can make, but slutty plus happy equals – SUPER ORGASM. Stick to the basics, make a strong foundation and then build on that. Most of you girls have a really bad “blow job foundation”, because you don’t understand that attitude comes first – and everything else comes second. Now keep on reading and don’t worry – I’ll get this “winner attitude” into your head throughout the entire book from time to time till it becomes completely natural for you to think this way when giving head.
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Part 2: Quick Anatomy of his Penis You don’t have to know every inch of his cock, but let’s just run over some basics. As I said earlier – a good foundation is very important, when you’ve got that down you can move on to the details that make a blow job the best blow job.
His Balls – or Scrotum … are very sensitive. So be gentle when sucking them (you’ll learn that later) – for some girls it’s disgusting, you don’t have to do it, but you’ll lower the quality of the blow job by not doing it. Everything that is sensitive on a man’s dick is a turn on. Everything that is sensitive feels good when you lick it, suck it or tickle it. Anyway, his balls are more sensitive than his shaft or head, that’s where his sperm is stored and created. When he gets really aroused, his balls will get a bit harder – they will get even harder when he starts cumming.
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His Shaft … is less sensitive, so it can take a lot more pressure than his head or his balls. You can even bite it a bit (when you learn how to use your teeth). The shaft is also called “the stick” or fallus in Latin.
His Head … a “head” of a dick, you probably know, is the top of it. On the head you have a few parts. You can see this little part of skin that’s “connecting” the shaft and the head – this part is called the frenulum – and it’s probably the most sensitive part of the head, you have to watch out when sucking on the head not to use your teeth, because you may accidentally scratch his frenulum. Then, there’s the “rim” of his head, which is not directly the head of the penis, but a part under it and above his shaft. It’s a great feeling to lick just this part when teasing him. Then last but not least – the tip of his head is called the “urethral opening” – that’s where his load blasts out. His head is also called the glans – it’s not that important that you know every part of his penis, the only reason you need a basic understanding of it is so you can understand what I’m talking about later. ~ Note ~ Some guys are circumcised – some are not. I don’t know with which of these two guys did you have encounters so far in your life – but just let me tell you that it’s not important at all if the guy has foreskin or 24
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons doesn’t – everything is exactly the same when it comes to pleasuring him – the only difference is that guys that are uncircumcised might enjoy it a little more, since that part of their skin is protected and therefore more sensitive, other than that there is no difference. Once an uncircumcised guy’s cock gets up – you just have to pull the skin back by giving him a few strokes – when it’s erect everything is completely the same as if you were giving head to a guy that’s circumcised. So don’t worry about that…
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Part 3: The Good, the Bad and the Best - Blow Job Positions … There are literally hundreds of ways to suck a cock – but only a few will produce an incredible orgasm. After getting more than a thousand blow jobs I realized there are some positions that are generally much better than others. And most guys prefer them. Yes, guys like different things – but when it comes to blow jobs, most of us agree on what’s good and what’s not. The problem is that only a few of us that know what’s good – also know what’s THE BEST – because only a few of us got head from girls that have Porn Star blow job skills.
The Regular Housewife – ** This is the most common blow job position. I call it “the regular housewife”. He is lying down on the bed, on his back, and your head is just between his legs. You can be on your stomach or on your knees – both are fine. This position has many variations; the standard one I just described can be boring – since the guy can’t really see anything beside your face. 26
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons You have to understand that guys are extremely VISUAL. Not just when getting head but in general. So the more we can see the better. You have to give head with your entire body, not just your mouth. Why do I give this position only two stars? -‐ ‘cause it’s limiting the true potential of the blow job you could give your man.
The Regular Housewife 2.0 – *** Everything’s the same as above except for his position. Instead of just lying flat on his back with his head on the pillow, make him get up just a bit. When he goes back a bit and puts his head higher – he will have a much better view of you. He will see a lot more than your face. What’s important here is where your hands are. You have a few combinations. You can have your elbows on his legs and your palms on his shaft. Another option (which is probably better), is to put your elbows on the bed, between his legs. This will be more comfortable for him since you are focusing all the attention on his cock, without putting any pressure on his legs. He also has more space for his balls when his legs are open than closed. It’s also a lot easier for you to get one palm working on his balls, while you use your other hand to stroke his shaft with a tight grip.
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Supreme Dominance – ***** This is one of the best positions you can give head in. Your man should stand up, and you get down on your knees. It’s very important that you’re comfortable when giving head in this position. Put something under your knees so they don’t hurt and therefore disturb you later. The “supreme dominance” position is amazing, 90% of guys prefer this position when getting head. First of all – they can see everything. They can see your face, your back, your ass, your hair. It’s the perfect view. Second – it’s the ultimate position of submissiveness. You are getting pleasure from sucking his cock – but he is completely dominant in this position. You are his slave, his servant, bowing down – as it should be – you are giving your man ultimate pleasure and you are receiving even more pleasure from sucking your master’s cock. It’s the 100% natural way, and that’s why this is probably the best position you can give head in – of course it has some downfalls, but it’s probably the best. One more reason most guys prefer this position is that it’s easier for you to get to every part of his dick, so you have more options and thereby more ways to please him.
Ultimate Relaxation - **** I call this position “ultimate relaxation” ‘cause it’s probably the most comfortable for both of you. It’s VERY important that your man can relax when getting head. Of course there are some blow job styles 28
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons where the focus is not on relaxing, but most of the time – the more he can relax, the more he will enjoy it. I’ll teach you later how to control his emotions during the blow job, sometimes guys can start thinking of something else, or get nervous and lose their erection – it’s absolutely not allowed for him to get nervous or frustrated during the blow job. Never forget that. So, “ultimate relaxation” involves him sitting in a chair, or on the couch, or anywhere else where it’s comfortable – but he has to sit, so when you get down on your knees, you are just a bit above his cock. It’s called ultimate relaxation because he really doesn’t have to use any muscles (as opposed to standing in “supreme dominance”), he can just lay back and completely enjoy the show. When he’s completely relaxed then he doesn’t feel anything except you enjoying his cock – this way he can totally focus on the pleasure you’re giving him (or getting from him). The higher he sits the better; if he is too laid back he won’t be able to see your nice ass, waist and back. When you want to give him a rough, crazy blow job then it’s better to use the “Supreme Dominance”, but when he’s a bit tired after work, or something else, it’s cool to just lay him back and let him relax and enjoy the show with “Ultimate Relaxation” – but, keep in mind that most of the time, “Supreme Dominance” produces more intense orgasms – because he has more energy when standing, and because it will make him a lot hornier – when you want him to finish in your mouth, make
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons sure you’re in the SD position, it will be a much stronger orgasm than Ultimate Relaxation. You can always mix it up, starting with UR and finishing with SD. Variation is very important and we’ll talk more about that in later chapters.
Doggy Style Position – *** All of you know about the doggy style sex position, well, there’s a doggy style way of giving head too… it’s just reversed. So, you’re on all four – and he’s kneeling or squatting in front of your delicious, wet mouth – that just can’t wait to taste his big ‘n’ hard cock. (I told you I’ll get that attitude into your head). This position has its good and bad parts, but overall it can be both amazing and shit – it all depends on how well you put together all the other stuff we’ll talk about. Doggy style blow jobs are amazing for “mouthfuck” (more on that later), he can see your ass, your whole body, and it’s also a very dominant position. It may be a bit uncomfortable and complicated to use both hands – but it’s more than worth doing it. It’s easy to transition from this position to “Supreme Dominance” which most guys like best.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Naturally it’s an amazing feeling for guys to be ABOVE you when getting head, the lower you are the better, and the more your head is pulled back, the more you’re looking at him from down under – the better he will feel. You don’t have to perform this position on the floor; the bed is perfectly fine too. If you can deepthroat, then “doggy style” can be VERY interesting for him, because he can then literally fuck you in the mouth, while your ass is up and tight – so he’s pulling your ass toward him, and therefore banging his cock deep into your mouth while you’re looking into his eyes and almost gagging – this can be great when using “aggressive style” blow jobs (more on blow job styles later).
Sit and Suck – *** The sit and suck position is very easy and simple to perform. My personal favorite is getting head in the morning while brushing my teeth and shaving – as I’m looking at myself in the mirror, my girl is sitting on the toilet and sucking my dick with so much passion and love – it’s hard to describe, but I can see it in her eyes, this burning desire to swallow my sperm, as if she was hungry for cum and she can’t wait to get it out. She starts begging me to cum in her mouth – and I do. Then she squeezes every last drop out of it and smiles as if she just won the lottery. 31
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Every woman should be like this. Anyway, you can sit and suck pretty much anywhere… Just make sure you adjust the chair (if you can), so that you are just a bit under his dick, your nose should be at the tip of his cock. That’s the ideal height you should be at.
Sixty Nine – ** You’re all familiar of the 69 position. Well… to be honest, it’s shit. OK. Sometimes it can be good, but it all depends. It has major minuses… First of all, he can’t see anything except your pussy – which can be nice if he likes licking. But – this way he can’t completely focus on receiving head. His attention is split into giving and receiving – and as you probably know, guys have a problem doing more than one thing at a time J Now seriously, there is a time and place for everything. When you want to give him head – then forget about yourself – as I already said – you ALREADY get INCREDIBLE pleasure from sucking on his dick. (remember, winner attitude is key) So, you can give him head in 69 – but I don’t recommend it. He can’t feel like a King in 69 – and that is a major disadvantage of this position.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons If you end up doing this position, then at least make sure you are ON TOP – ‘cause if you aren’t it will be even more uncomfortable for both you and him.
The Smart Housewife – **** The “Smart Housewife” position is an even more upgraded version of the “regular (boring) housewife”. He’s lying on the bed, and you are – instead of being in between his legs – on his left or right side, in an angle where he can completely see your ass, legs, face, titts – everything. There are literally dozens of ways you can perform this position – it can be on the couch, on the floor, in the car (more on locations later). As long as you’re on the side – great. Remember that he has to feel like a King when getting head, so the more he can see of you, the hornier and happier you are – the better. By the way this positions is great, you have easy access to his balls, his stomach, you can even kiss him in between sucking his cock – (while you kiss him, keep on stroking).
Reverse Mouthfuck – *** This position is a bit harder to perform, but it’s worth it when it comes to deepthroating. To be honest I love this position, but just a few girls know how – and are ready to do it. You need to get on the bed, lying on 33
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons your back, with your head on the edge of the bed – actually your head should be in the air, so you can lower your neck down – then your man squats just a little bit and fucks you in the mouth – this is a very dominant position, plus he can see everything – it can be a bit complicated for girls to perform – but with practice you can achieve everything. As in everything – variety is very important, so you should try this position at least once and see how he reacts. Mouthfucking is a very powerful blow job technique – it’s a bit advanced but we’ll talk more about it later.
Supreme Mouthfuck - **** I’m in love with this position. Especially if the girl has nice, big breasts, but even if she doesn’t – it’s still pleasurable. Here’s how you do it, you lie on a bed or a couch, on your back, your head should be just a little bit up – and your man puts his cock right between your breasts – I’m sure most of you girls have done this, it’s pretty simple. The good thing about this position is that you can combine sucking his cock (where you do the “work”) and him pushing his shaft deeper into your mouth and “mouthfucking” you – it’s great because he has an nice view of you, plus his balls have enough space because his legs are stretched a bit. I recommend you tickle his balls with one hand while sucking on his cock. Make sure your pillow is a bit bigger so you don’t have to push yourself up too much. A great thing you can do is to make him put his 34
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons cock between your breasts – then push them together and let him fuck your breasts, then you can put your tongue out completely and make it his goal to reach your tongue and mouth, this is a really, really – REALLY good feeling, plus it’s exciting – especially if he finishes in this position, just let him shoot it on your breasts, or in your mouth, however you want it. There are dozens of blow job positions – and choosing the right one at the right time is very important, different angles equal different pleasures – some are great, some are not so good – you just have to look for your man’s feedback to determine what he likes best. The most important part is that YOU are comfortable in that position – ’cause you don’t want to get tired too fast, and you sure as hell don’t want something disturbing you from the pleasure you get from giving him head. It’s also important that HE feels dominant and comfortable at the same time. You just have to experiment with different positions – once you find out what’s best for you, don’t be afraid to change it from time to time – as I said earlier, variety is key. Sometimes too much of a good thing can become a bad thing – ’cause it happens all over again. Keep experimenting, but don’t over-‐experiment. Find 3-‐4 great positions that suit you and him and then just keep mixing them up.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Okay girls, now that you’ve got some theoretical knowledge, we can go on with some practical stuff J
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Part 4: Foreplay Before you start you need to get him ready for it. When I say „foreplay“ I’m not just talking about preparing him sexually – but mentally. Some girls think that guys don’t need foreplay – that they’re always ready to go – well, it’s not like that. Sometimes it may be true – but you have to understand that a good start can mean a great finish – while a regular start (without proper foreplay) – can ruin everything, or make it average at best.
Mental Foreplay Depending on what kind of blow job style you’re using (more on styles later) you should prepare him mentally. Sometimes it’s unnecessary – sometimes it’s mandatory. When you give him a surprise blow job in the elevator – you don’t need foreplay, but when you’re at home, and you want to give him a nice, wet blow job – then you definitely want it. It all depends on the speed you’re doing it. Sex is a lot more mental than physical – so you have to learn how to control his mental state (his feelings) in order to produce some extremely good orgasms.
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Step #1 = get him to relax. First and foremost – he has to be relaxed. If he’s not relaxed, if he’s thinking about other things, if something else is worrying him – then he won’t be able to completely focus on the pleasure he’s getting from you giving him head. A lot of girls have problems with their man being unable to cum just from getting head – why is this happening? Well, there can be a hundred different reasons – that’s why you’re reading this book, to eliminate those problems. But one of the main reasons is pretty simple – HE CAN’T RELAX. When he can’t relax, he can’t enjoy it completely, and therefore he can’t cum. It is your job to get him as relaxed as possible – it’s your job to have all his attention focused on YOU, and his mind COMPLETELY clear, without any distractions. (of course, depending on the situation, sometimes distractions and mental discomfort can be a good thing – because they shoot his adrenalin through the roof – for example giving him head in front of other people, or in a public toilet without a lock on the door). So, how do you get him to relax? Loosen him up a bit, let him sit down on the couch, make sure he’s comfortable and nothing is bothering him. Give him something refreshing to drink. Talk about something casually... Put on some relaxing music, dim the lights (more on 38
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons atmosphere later)... you have to shift his thoughts away from everything... and just make him completely relax. He has to be in the moment. Some guys just can’t loosen up, if it’s your first time giving him head he might even be too nervous, or too excited – which can result in 2 things – premature ejaculation or he can’t get hard (which is very rare but happens at least once to every guy).
Step #2 = get him hard After you’ve gotten him relaxed and comfortable – it’s time to get him aroused. I don’t know why so many girls think that guys don’t need foreplay – that we’re always ready to go. That’s bullshit. Good foreplay is the difference between a nice blow job and an amazing blow job. Imagine you have 10 buttons to push – he can orgasm if you push 5 of them – but pushing 7 is much better than 5, and pushing all ten is even better – so why not push all of them, in perfect order, and get an enormous explosion? Anyone can give a 5, but a 10? Girls, this is a hard world for you. Let’s face it, there are 10 times more hot girls than great guys – why would a great guy choose YOU instead of the girl next to you? What do you have that she doesn’t? She may even look better than you, but maybe she’s shit at giving head. Actually there’s an almost 90% chance that she is average or worse... Whatever. You get the picture. 39
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So... he’s relaxed, now let’s get his dick up. Look at him seductively, make a naughty smile, as if you’re about to do something „bad“, giggle, touch his cock through his pants – ask him, „oh, what’s this? mmm“ come closer to his ear, kiss his neck slowly, kiss him while touching his cock... while you’re touching it, take his finger, his middle finger, get your tongue out and give it a few long licks – as if it was his cock, close your eyes as if you’re enjoying it like it was your favorite lollipop, moan, say „mmm“ give his finger a few sucks, put it deep into your mouth and slowly – slowly, slide it out while looking into his eyes, when you get it out, give him a big smile, but make sure it’s naughty at the same time. Seeming innocent – and appearing as if you “don’t really know what you are doing” – can be EXTREMELY seductive. Experiment with that attitude as well. Kiss his stomach a bit while using both hands to slowly unbutton his jeans or pants or whatever he’s wearing. Slowly open it up, moan while looking into his eyes, as if you just can’t wait to suck his cock... make a “hungry” look on your face, have your mouth OPENED almost all the time. Lick your lips, bite your lower lips softly – usually when girls do this guys think they’re horny as fuck – and as you know – THE HORNIER YOU LOOK, THE BETTER. Remember, YOU LOVE sucking his cock more than anything. And every time you give him head, you do it as if there is no tomorrow. YOU are getting pleasure from sucking his cock, ’cause you adore sucking it. You love it more than life itself. 40
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons All of this has to be natural and smooth – so don’t think about stuff like „Ok, now I have to do this, now I have to do that, Jack told me to do this blah blah“. No. You have to get out of your head – just don’t think about anything except YOU getting pleasure from sucking his cock. If you don’t love it – start loving it. Tell yourself every day „I love it, I love it, I love it“ and you’ll start loving it. You have to „feel“ your man... you know, read his body, feel it. Connect with him on a deeper level – by being in the moment. You have to suck it with passion and pure love. Of course it all depends on the situation and how you feel about that guy. That’s why I’ll talk with you about different blow job styles later so you can adjust your technique to the situation (the guy you are with). You then slowly or aggressively (depending on the style) get his jeans off. The key is that you’re acting naughty, smile, moan, be happy. You’re about to get something you love and truly enjoy. Now he only has his boxers on, cool. Bite his shaft. Make sure you do this softly – you don’t want to scare him off, or he’ll think you’re nuts. Guys are pretty sensitive when it comes to their balls (and dick in general) – there is always this small fear that you might just „snap“ and bite his dick off... and „toss it out of the window of a moving car“ as Tyler (Brad Pitt) would say in Fight Club. So, through his boxers you find the bottom of his shaft, hold it down with two fingers, and then turn
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Step #3 = teasing him. OK girls, this part is VERY important. A lot of you fuck up big time when it comes to teasing him before giving him head. Now listen up, ’cause if you fuck up here, you fucked up big time... and it’s hard to recover from it later during the blow job (because you destroy everything you did during step #1, and therefore you’ve got a bad foundation). Teasing can be a few things, one is sucking on his finger, or licking a lollipop or licking your lips – it’s just giving him an image of what’s waiting for him, what’s about to happen – then you can tease him when you’re already holding his dick – but not sucking or licking it yet, you’re just looking at it and coming really close, just about to lick it – and then you move away and laugh. Many girls have this tendency, it is just completely stupid. Teasing him can be good if you exactly know when to stop, otherwise it can be extremely frustrating for your guy. Think about it for a second – YOU 42
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons tease HIM? This implies that you are not giving him something YOU will be enjoying. „you giving him“? I guess you remember the golden rule – YOU are getting pleasure from sucking HIS cock. HE is LETTING YOU enjoy the amazing feeling of sucking his dick. That is what your mindset should be all the time. Would you tease yourself from getting pleasure? No, you wouldn’t. You LOVE that cock more than life itself, and you can’t wait to suck it! So you would never look at it and hold it and not suck it. You’d jump right in there the second you got his cock out of his boxers. If someone should be teasing – then it should be him, he should tease you by not giving you his cock right away – and then you should say „mmm, please, let me suck it, mmm, please baby, you know I need it“. Something like this will turn him on incredibly... Yes, there are a few cool ways to tease him – but in general teasing is BAD, and 95% of guys don’t want to get teased – it’s frustrating. And doesn’t feel anything special. Some girls just open their mouth and then come close to putting their lips around his head, and then they move away – what’s the point of that? This clearly shows your man that you’re attitude is „I’m giving you a blow job, and you should be thankful you’re getting it“ – the worst possible attitude you can have (and probably over 90% of girls have it, that’s why they suck at giving head, and they’ll never get better). 43
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Girls, my honest advice to you is to never tease your man. Never... it is frustrating and completely pointless, it gives him a bad message about your attitude and it will turn his relaxed state – into a nervous, frustrated state. If you still decide to tease him – make sure it doesn’t last longer than a minute. While teasing, laugh, giggle, be happy and make sure he get’s the feeling that you love sucking his cock, and that you get INCREDIBLE pleasure from it. A part of Foreplay is setting up a good, relaxing environment before you give him head – we’ll talk about that at the end. So, to sum it up – get him to relax, tease him just a bit, get his dick hard, make sure he gets a clear idea that you have a “winner attitude” and then jump right in there with all you’ve got – after all, you’re lovin’ it :)
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Part 5: Blow Job Techniques So, we’re here J Finally – the favorite part for most of you girls. Techniques… Well, as I said earlier, techniques are only 10% -‐ but still an important 10% if your attitude is great. Everything I write in this section will be of little to no use to you if you don’t have a “winner attitude”. You can know ALL the techniques and you can do everything else perfectly – but if your attitude is shit? The blow job will be just a bit above average. Is that what you want? To be average, like all the other girls? I guess not. You have to be better than other girls if you want to get the best guys – and you’ll be way ahead of other girls when you can sexually satisfy your man – every single time, in a way that no other woman can. There are a bunch of different ways you can suck a cock, I’ll give you about 22 techniques – the art is to figure out the perfect combination for all these techniques. Let’s get started…
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1 - Regular A “regular” technique is, well… regular. Your lips are around the head of his cock, on the rim – and you’re holding (stroking) his shaft with one hand. You can do this in any position… This is not even a technique; it’s more of a starting position, like a base. Make sure you maintain eye contact as much as you can, you don’t want to look as if you are “working” – so don’t make a serious face. Remember, you’re enjoying it. A perfect blow job is a combination of great attitude, great atmosphere and great technique – a great technique is a combination of strokes, licks and sucks – with sounds, words and smiles J
2 - Twisting Twisting is great. And pretty simple to do… So, you’re holding his cock tight (the closer to the base the better), you can even hold it with just your thumb and index finger (right at the base of his shaft). You have your lips around his head and you slowly move your head in little circles – at the same time you lick his head with your tongue in different directions – clockwise, counterclockwise… and at the same time you stroke his cock with your hand. This can be an amazing feeling for him.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Try to open your mouth as much as you can, so there is some space between your lips and his cock. I forgot to tell you to drink some water before giving him head – it’s very important that you’re well hydrated. The wetter his cock is the better, then it can easily slide in and out of you and it’s a great feeling for him. Moan while doing this, lots of mmm’s and aaah’s – remember, you love it. And he has to see this. So, while you’re twisting with your head (just a little bit, left right), you’re pushing his cock a little deeper into your mouth, then out, then in again – at the same time you twist your tongue and you stroke his shaft – as you’re stroking you also TWIST a bit. As you twist you gradually increase and decrease pressure (the tightness of your grip). All this time, look into his eyes with a happy, naughty look on your face. This is a really good technique and you should practice it till you master it – you are sucking, licking, stroking – and TWISTING, all at the same time, believe me he will feel incredible. You are combining about 5 good feelings at the same time, which is rare. Most girls just hold it as if it was a hotdog and put their mouth in and out like robots…
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons … don’t be like most girls. Use everything you’ve got. You should be giving him head with your whole body, not just with your mouth. The purpose of your hand is not only to hold his cock and direct it into your mouth, there are a bunch of more things you can do with your hands...
3 – Left-right The “left-‐right” is simple, but feels great. This technique works best if he’s sitting and you’re kneeling in front of him. You’re holding his cock with one hand, at the base – but hold it down, so it’s tight. Then you get your tongue out as much as you can (as long as it’s comfortable for you)… you look him in the eyes, smile, and you slowly direct his cock on your tongue – then you push it left-‐right on both sides of your tongue, you can also move your tongue left and right at the same time. Make a lot of “aaah’s” here and kiss his cock passionately in between licking it – so you’re moving your head, and tongue at the same time, left-‐right, moan and give a few kisses on the head of his cock. One more thing – as you’re pushing his cock on your tongue, try sliding it over his frenulum – which is the most sensitive part of his head. This is just a basic thing you do as foreplay – so you do this just before you start to suck it deeper. You gradually start with stroking, then licking and you finally move on to sucking it. But all the time you have to combine all these actions with
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons a great attitude and a good atmosphere. Giving good head is an art in some way.
4 – Up ’n’ Down Another licking technique that’s very attractive. I love it when girls do this. You are kneeling. You hold his cock on one side; you push it just a bit to the side so he can have a better view of you. Then, as you gently hold his cock, you start licking it from the base to the head, you start softly at the base and increase pressure as you’re getting up to the frenulum, then you slide back down, kiss his balls, then slide back up… smile at him, remember, you’re happy. This is all great for teasing before you start the real deal. You can do the up and down mixed, so you’re going from bottom to top left and right – not just in a straight line. Both are great… you get up (licking his shaft), then slide down straight or slowly circling left and right with your tongue. (making an 8 shape is also cool, you can slowly lick his shaft up and down in an 8 shape. Or different letters. Try doing this slow, then fast, this way you can dramatize the whole thing and make a better show). Another great thing you should try out is finishing the movement with a circle around his head. You start at the base of his shaft, lick your way 49
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons up however you want (maintain eye contact, moan), you get to the top – and instead of sliding back down immediately after you got to the frenulum – you make a few circles with your tongue around the head of his cock – just a few times, then you slowly slide down with your tongue. You can also combine this with the “left-‐right” technique.
5 – Two Handed Twisting The title says it all… this is just great, just make sure his cock is already wet when you do this, it’s much better when it’s wet than when it’s dry like sand. So before you do this, lick it left, right, up and down, suck it a little… then you put one hand closer to the base of his cock, and the other hand just above it. This way you’re holding his entire shaft – (just leave his head free so you can combine the twisting with some delicious licking). You have to experiment with this… depending on the size of his cock you can grip his shaft with all your fingers, or if it’s smaller then just take away your index and middle finger from the hand that’s on top. As I said, you have to experiment with this. You can stroke up with one hand, down with the other, twist left with one hand, right with the
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons other, more pressure, less pressure. Left, right, up and down – you have to go with your feelings – try to see what he likes best. Anyway, this can be great, just find the right combination. While twisting and stroking with both hands, lick or suck on his head. Or give him a few longer sucks – with more pressure. So, as you’re twisting with your hands you give him a few strong licks head. It’s also great if you use “full twisting”, so, as you are twisting/stroking his cock with both hands – his head is free, then with your tongue, you swirl around his head, in different directions. He will feel amazing.
6 – Blowing and Licking This is a really cool feeling, only a few girls know about it. Use it during foreplay. You lick his cock from bottom to top, slide it slowly, look deep into his eyes with a naughty look… then, after a few licks, when his shaft is wet – you hold his cock and slowly blow on it, from the base to the top… he’s gonna have a cold but nice feeling on his shaft – then just as you finished blowing you lick it again, and blow again – repeat this a few times, then give him a finishing lick and move on to sucking his head.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons As I said, it can be a great feeling. Any kind of breathing can be good, you can even suck on his head, then as your mouth is wide open you breath in for air – (but keep your mouth very close to his head) – he will feel the vibrations in the air – then give him a quick lick on the tip of his cock, and smile at him naughty.
7 – Stroking it on your tongue A personal favorite of mine… This technique should be used all the time – but especially during the “end-‐game” when you’re waiting for him to cum. It’s best if you’re in “Supreme Dominance” position, you are giving him hard, strong and longer strokes – your tongue is way out and you are resting the head of his cock on the middle of your tongue – and you’re stroking all the time. Look him straight in the eyes and moan while doing this, you can give his head a few licks, but it’s completely cool if you just keep your tongue far out as much as possible. If you combine this with a few deeper sucks, he’ll orgasm in no time.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons But when you’re sucking it deeper, then sometimes there’s not enough space for your hands, so you don’t stroke. Vacuuming is pretty simple, push his cock into your mouth as deep as it’s comfortable for you (we’ll talk about deepthroating later), when you get to the deepest point you can, tighten your lips around his cock – and slowly start sliding your mouth out – make sure your teeth are behind your lips to avoid scratching, then, as you’re sliding it out you stop at the tip of his head, give it a few licks with your tongue, then finish the vacuuming with giving him a quick kiss, or slide it back in. You can combine the end with a “pop” sound. If his cock is bigger, then you can hold his cock down with one hand, or a few fingers – the point of vacuuming is that you really vacuum, you suck it hard as you’re sliding it out of your mouth and at the same time you’re trying to breath in. You can combine this with some regular – faster sucking. So you give him a few quick and short in-‐and-‐out’s. And then you slide it in deeper, hold it for a second and then slowly vacuum it till you get it out. This can be a truly amazing feeling if done right. And don’t forget – the wetter the better.
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9 – Spitting OK. As I just said, the wetter – the better. So, spit on his cock. I’ll tell you exactly how to do it if you want him to go crazy. Suck on his cock a bit deeper and try to gather as much saliva in your mouth as you can… Do some regular in and out’s, then put it in as deep as you can, slowly vacuum his cock out of your mouth, then, as you’re looking at him, open your mouth and let all that saliva you accumulated in your mouth – slowly drip all over his shaft… stick your tongue out a little bit while doing this. This will make him go nuts. It’s extremely sexual… then start sucking on him again, now his cock will be even wetter and easier to suck ‘n’ slide over it. Another way to spit on his cock is when you’re using a more aggressive style (more on blow job styles later), I like it when girls do this a little before I cum all over their face. You stroke his cock hard, waiting for him to orgasm, and as you’re stroking it hard you spit on the head of his cock aggressively to make it even more wet… you suck a little on the head, you get it out, spit on it again and keep on stroking it till he orgasms. This works great when you combine it with some dirty talking (more on that later).
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10 – Ball Control Funny title J A lot of girls forget about “the balls” in the game of blowjobs. Do not, I repeat – DO NOT – forget about his balls. Forgetting his balls is like going to war with a knife – yes you can kill someone, but your enemy has guns – so you’re busted before you even start fighting. I’m equipping you girls with bazookas, shotguns and AK-‐47’s... so you can get out there and win that war. Destroy the competition. As I said somewhere earlier, his balls are pretty sensitive, so forget about pulling, hitting or squeezing them in any way. You can be pretty aggressive with his shaft – you can even bite it a bit, but his balls are a completely different thing. His balls want you to be soft, nice and gentle… nothing more, nothing less. You can -‐-‐> -‐ Hold them -‐ Suck on them -‐ Lick them -‐ Tickle them Tickling is probably the best, but you should try out all of them. Doing one of these four things with his balls, while giving him head at the 55
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons same time – can really make a huge difference in the quality of the blow job you give him. Here’s what I recommend. When you’re on your knees, stroking his cock with one hand and sucking on his head… use your other hand to just gently hold his balls, grasp them in your palms, stroke his shaft and keep on sucking on his cock. This is a great feeling… You can then improve this even further… as you hold his balls, gently move your fingers up and down around his balls – make sure you’re touching them with just the tip of your fingers – his balls are VERY sensitive, so light touches like this can tickle him and give him great pleasure. When you get him to shave his cock and balls (more on how to get him to do that if he doesn’t want to) – then you can practice licking and sucking his balls – which is an AMAZING feeling for him. Only a few girls do this, so it’s another thing that will make you better than them. There is no special technique for licking his balls, just make sure you’re soft and nice with them, you can lick them slowly in circles – at the same time you should hold his shaft up high and slowly stroke it. Also, when you’re licking his balls, make sure you’re doing it with the tip of your tongue. This way it “tickles” more :) Believe me, less can sometimes be more.
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11 – Tickling and Sucking This is also one of my favorites. Some girls do this during foreplay, just before they start sucking on it like there’s no tomorrow. You’re NOT holding his shaft and you’re sucking only on the head of his cock… you use your hands (and it’s best if you have nails for this, ‘cause they intensify the feeling), you use your hands to tickle his entire cock, you swirl around every part of his cock, the middle section of his cock, the base of his shaft, his balls… his thighs, scratch his stomach firmly… or even better – put both hands up on his chest and slowly slide your nails down his stomach, to his crotch, around his balls and shaft and all the time suck on the head of his cock. Just make sure you’re gentle – you don’t want him to freak out and think you’re a psycho/maniac, so control your movements and make sure they tickle him, that’s why your movements need to be slow, seductive and naughty. These movements should actually be right in between pain and pleasure. It’s seductive, it’s aggressive, it shoots his adrenalin through the roof – some guys love it, some don’t. Try and see for yourself. You’ve got nothing to lose anyway. Quick reminder: You can know all the techniques in the world, but if you don’t have a great attitude it’s unlikely that he’s going to enjoy it. Technique is something you can develop over time and practice, so 57
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons don’t worry about it too much. You HAVE to love, love and looove (and did I say love? J ) sucking his cock more than anything else in the world -‐ then he’ll enjoy almost any technique you use.
12 – In and Outs, regular I mentioned the in-‐and-‐outs earlier, it’s pretty simple actually. You hold his cock with one hand, and put his shaft into your mouth, just a bit over the head of his cock. Then you put it in just a bit deeper, then out, then in, then out and so on… you get the picture. This is the most common way girls give head. The problem is that most of them do only this technique – which is stupid. You should combine all these techniques in a way that’s comfortable for both you and him – and of course, in a way he likes best. You can do a bunch of stuff with in-‐and-‐outs. All the techniques described below are typical in-‐and-‐out variations that can feel A-‐mazing.
13 – In and Outs, biting Using your teeth can be DANGEROUS and can hurt your mans cock if you fuck up. So be careful and use it smart. It’s interesting that your teeth can make him orgasm incredibly and make him some real pain at the same time. I’ve experienced both… more than once. 58
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So before you use your teeth let me tell you how not to use them: DO NOT use them on his head, never. Just don’t. Whenever you get close to the beginning of the head of his cock, pull your teeth back behind your lips and keep them there. What may happen is that you accidentally scratch his frenulum with your lower teeth as you’re sliding his cock out of your mouth. DO NOT bite his balls. And don’t put too much pressure when biting. When his cock is deeper in your mouth, don’t slide his cock on the side of your mouth ‘cause it may scratch over your back teeth. When you bite his cock – bite his shaft. His shaft is less sensitive, so you can be more aggressive with it. I love it when girls bite my cock correctly. You slide his cock in, you stop halfway, then you SLOWLY put your teeth around his cock, try smiling while doing this (look into his eyes), then slowly, with little pressure on his cock, starts sliding it out… when you get really close to his head, pull your teeth back and finish the movement with your lips and tongue. Then do this again a few times. Biting is pretty special and only a few girls know how to do it without hurting their man. So remember to be gentle and soft, even a little 59
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons pressure will be great for him – since the moment you bite him a little bit and hold your teeth there for a few seconds – adrenalin will rush through him like crazy. It’s very important that you keep your mouth open as wide as possible – and you just go in and out, in and out – after some time of practicing this you will get yourself ready for two more amazing techniques – deepthroating and moutfucking (which we will talk about later in more detail).
14 – In and Outs, tongue twisting This one is basically the same as “regular” in and outs, the only difference is that instead of just keeping your tongue under his cock while sliding it in and out, you push his cock in your mouth and as you’re sliding out you make circles with your tongue around his head or around his shaft – both are good. You can also make small strokes and twists with your hand that’s holding the base of his cock. So you’re sliding it in and out and you’re twisting your tongue like a tornado in both directions. Open your mouth as much as possible so you can breathe at the same time and slide it in without hitting the head of his cock on your teeth. 60
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15 - Slapping Mmmm, I love this. This can be very powerful when you’re giving him more aggressive blow jobs – usually during end-‐game, just before he cums. If he can’t cum for a longer time, you start stroking it harder and slapping yourself with his cock. It doesn’t have to be strong. Here’s how you do it – as you’re on your knees, stroking him hard, being completely horny, talking dirty to him, you put your tongue out – as you’re waiting for him to cum all over your tongue and into your mouth – you’re waiting for his load, you can’t wait anymore, you want it more than life itself. Then you move your hand down lower, to the base of his cock and slowly pounce it onto your wet tongue – hit it a few times gently and moan. Suck his cock a few times, pop it out and hit your cheeks a few times, or your tongue again… keep on hitting your tongue with his cock till he cums. Combine hitting with stroking, dirty talking and moaning. Supreme Dominance position is best for this, he’ll love it. He’ll love YOU actually. I got more than a thousand blow jobs, maybe 5% of girls did this slapping thing and I’m sorry that there were only few of them. It’s interesting that the girls that give the best head usually do everything right – there’s always this 5% of them that are perfect. It’s just hard to find those girls, I’m a bit more experienced now so I can usually know 61
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons after a few minutes of talking to a girl how good she can suck. – and I’m right most of the time. You can just see that some girls have the right attitude, and I love them for it. Anyway, slapping yourself with his cock is another way of showing him how much you care and how submissive you are. Remember – guys want to feel dominant when getting head, so make him feel like your king, you’re his little blow job queen and you love his cock. I know it may be “too much” for some of you girls to slap yourself with his cock – but the more submissive you are the better. It’s your decision, you can do whatever you want – I’m just telling you what works, it’s on you to decide whether you’re gonna use it or not.
16 – Mouthfucking Mouthfucking is even more amazing than slapping – it’s not easy to perform for most of you girls that can’t deepthroat, yet (‘cause you’ll learn it later, keep on reading) – but it can be a truly incredible feeling for him.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons You should be on your knees, or you can sit on the couch while he’s standing – a position I forgot to mention, but you’ll figure out a million of them once you start experimenting as much as possible. I’m gonna give you a special tip here… The problem is that most of us guys can go crazy if you let us fuck you in the mouth – the feeling is so nice, that we can completely forget that you might choke on our cock when your gag reflex kicks in. But there is a way to control your man from ramming it in like crazy. First and foremost you have to be open with him and explain to him that he has to be gentle when fucking you in the mouth. Here’s how you do it -‐-‐-‐> 1. Open your mouth as much as possible 2. Put your tongue out, so you will make more space for him and you’ll be able to breathe as well 3. Get on your knees or sit on the couch, as long as he’s above you -‐ it’s cool. 4. Let him hold your head with both hands on the side, or one hand holding the back of your head (he’ll be using this hand to force your head on his cock) 5. Then, before he starts, remember to RELAX as much as you can 6. Let him start slowly and gradually increase the speed 7. Put two fingers (index and thumb) around the base of his shaft. These two fingers are VERY important and I’ll tell you why. When 63
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons he starts pushing it in deep, in and out, you’re going to have to open your mouth completely and let him slide in and out, but he may push it in too far, so what you will do is use those two fingers to control his cock – if he’s controlling himself and not pushing too far, then cool – just rest your fingers there and don’t put any pressure on it, but if he does go too far (which happens most of the time), just grip his cock and push it back a bit… then let him continue as if nothing happened. 8. Look him in the eyes while doing this, you have to be naughty, happy and a bit of a “masochist” when doing this, sometimes it’s good if you gag just a little bit (if you’re doing a certain blow job style – more on styles later). 9. When you’ve had enough, just take it out slowly with some vacuuming and keep on sucking it till he cums like crazy. Mouthfucking is pretty advanced stuff, but you can learn it with practice. It’s not easy to perform, but he’ll love you for it, just as with anything else described in this book – you’ll be one in a hundred. Girls... it’s MORE than worth it. USE this stuff! Yep, men are shallow sometimes, and it’s not even funny how powerful impacts good blow jobs can have on your relationship. One more thing about mouthfucking – it’s probably the most dominant thing in sex (ok there’s S and M and a bunch of other crazy stuff that I’m not really into – but mouthfucking is a whole new league). It can be an 64
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons incredible feeling for your man and it shows ultimate submissiveness from your part, which turns on any dominant guy. If your husband/boyfriend is more of a shy guy it may be possible that he doesn’t want to fuck you in the mouth more aggressively ‘cause he thinks you might get offended or angry or whatever – that’s just the shy guy inside him, in reality – he wants to fuck the living shit out of you. He wants to get you down on the floor, pull your hear, fuck your ass, slap it hard and make you scream for more. He wants you to scream “fuck me!”… When a girls screams “Fuck me Jack, fuck meee, please aaah” I feel like the king of the world. Same thing goes for every other guy (except if he’s gay). And that’s how you should make him feel when you give him head – like the king of the world. Unfortunately, (for some of you girls that don’t really get the sex you deserve), guys are afraid you might think badly of them if they are more aggressive/leading in bed. So if he’s a shy guy that’s afraid of showing his true sexuality, his true emotions – then YOU can take control. Hold his cock tight and tell him to fuck you in the mouth – tell him this aggressively (more on blow job styles and hardcore dirty talking later). Unleash the beast inside him… next time you guys have sex, he’ll be more open and he’ll fuck you the way you really want it. Like a real, dominant, alpha male.
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17– No Hands This is a really special technique that you absolutely have to try out. It’s a bit more complicated, but it feels very nice, and most girls don’t know about it. Actually it’s not complicated, it’s simple – all you have to do is suck his cock without using your hands. You get down on your knees, he’s standing in front of you, you put your hands behind your back and hold one hand with the other hand and you promise yourself that you won’t use them to hold his cock – for at least a few minutes while doing this technique. Sucking his cock without holding it can be a really, really good feeling. Why? Because while you are giving him head, you have to focus on keeping his cock in your mouth – so the pressure you’re putting on it is a bit different (and more pleasurable sometimes) then when you are using your hands to hold his cock. You actually have to focus on his cock and keep it in your mouth, but you can only use your mouth to do this. That’s why it can feel really good, ‘cause it’s a different kind of sucking. Anyway, if it does fall out of your mouth, try capturing it again – without using your hands, practice till you get really good at keeping it there and completely controlling it just with your mouth. This will SKY rocket your skills. You’ll get better a lot faster when practicing this technique, it will add to your stamina. 66
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons I know it’s not easy, but try having fun with it. This, of course, doesn’t mean you should never use your hands. The thing is that the “no hands” technique is just... a different pleasure. But both hands and “no hands” can be great kinds of pleasure – just different.
18 – Going out One more quick technique for you girls that can make a big difference. Simple, yet powerful. The “going out” technique goes like this… you slide his cock deep into your mouth, bite it a bit if you want, then slowly slide it out – all the time look into his eyes with a naughty look, then, as you’re getting near the head of his cock you slowly turn your neck backwards just a bit. If you were on your knees and he was standing tall, your head was 90 degrees first, so you change the angle slowly as you’re getting closer to the end of his cock, you’re moving your head upwards until your head starts pointing towards the ceiling – you’re still looking at him – and then at the end of the movement you leave your tongue out (your mouth is wide open) – and you lick the tip of his cock as you’re getting it out of your mouth completely. When you finish the last lick – you keep your tongue on his cock for a few seconds, your mouth is still wide open so he’s looking down on you, you then smile and moan, or say “aaaah” as if you’re getting some air. 67
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Then just keep on sucking and throw in this “going out” technique a few times during the blow job – this is highly recommended stuff (p.s.: keep one hand between the base of his shaft and his balls while doing this).
19 – Using your delicious lips to caress his cock I’ve noticed that some girls forget to use their lips, which is a shame. You need to get your lips really wet – and then just slide them slowly and passionately around his cock, this is a nice way to tease him while resting and recovering for the “end game”, and it’s also a really nice way to start a blow job and warm him up J
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons ado – I present you with Anallingus – yes, licking your boyfriend’s anus (asshole). I’m not a doctor, but there probably are risks to doing this, all I know is that it feels amazing because there are lot’s and lot’s of nerve endings there. All of you girls that had and enjoyed anal sex probably know what I’m talking about. I myself am pretty homophobic, I don’t like the thought of any guy coming close to me, so you can probably imagine how hard it was for me to accept a girl licking my ass. First of all I thought it’s disgusting, and secondly I was ready to automatically hit someone that tries to come close to my ass – but then, Laura, and old girlfriend of mine “opened my eyes” and convinced me I’ll love it, so, after a few weeks of hesitation, I finally decided to give it a go. The result? I came in less than 20 seconds the first time she did that. Every next time it took a bit longer, but it’s always under a minute, and it feels – incredible. Later on, just a few girls willingly licked my anus, and every single time I had the strongest possible orgasm. I was hooked, and I got girls hooked too – because they loved me licking them – I know this may sound out of your sexual reality, at least for now – but it’s your loss. Of course I wouldn’t do that with some dirty woman, nor would I let myself be dirty for her, and once you start having wild sex you kind of get into a trance, and you can do anything. I guess most of you know what I’m talking about. Anyway, here’s how you do it, step-‐by-‐step. 69
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Step 0 – Before you even start... get him to shave around his balls and ass. (there are a bunch of those creams which he puts on, waits a bit, and then just washes it off) 1. You need to CONVINCE HIM. Don’t even think about going “there” without asking for permission. If you start reaching over there, he’ll reflexively hit you – no joke. You need to be slow, first, when you give him regular head, slowly tickle his balls, then slowly start tickling him in the area behind his balls (between his ass and his balls) – this area is also very, very sensitive – something even greater is if you’re licking his balls, stroking his cock with one hand and tickling the middle section (between balls and anus) – this is an amazing feeling. This will get him ready slowly… Do this at least a few times, don’t even mention licking or touching his ass. 2. After giving him a few blow jobs like the one described in step 1. , you can go to the next step. ASKING. Politely ask him if he’s ready to experiment a little bit – If he says – “What do you mean experiment?”, don’t be afraid to ask him directly but politely and seductively at the same time – say something like “Mmm, well, I’d like to massage your ass a bit, don’t worry I’ll be gentle, you’ll love it” (but don’t let go of his cock, you need to hold his shaft in one hand).
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons 3. He’ll probably say no. Or maybe he won’t. Whichever he says – he needs to shave or use any other method to remove the hair from his ass and around his crotch. If he says “no” – you say, okay – and then a few days later tell him he’s hairy down there and that he should shave “Because I want to give you head more often, but your hair keeps going in my way”. Once you say something like that, he’ll be 10 times more motivated to shave – plus, once he shaves – his skin will be “free” for more pleasure and he’ll enjoy the blow jobs you’re giving him a lot more. Since most guys know nothing about shaving – go buy him Veet – It’s a simple shaving cream I use, you just put it on, wait a few minutes, wash it off and that’s it – no more hair. I guess you know about other creams, whichever – just buy it for him, ‘cause he probably wont do it himself. 4. Make him use the cream all around his crotch (this includes his anus). If he said “yes” earlier or if he said “no” try convincing him again, if he doesn’t agree after asking him the 2-‐3rd time, you can give up, ‘cause he’s probably too strong headed. If he finally agreed – then make him take a shower and clean himself, and then move on to step number five. 5. Start by slowly massaging the rim of his ass – while giving him head, just slowly tickle that area back there, without directly touching his anus, then, once he get’s used to it, move on deeper, you can start by just pushing in a little bit of your middle finger, (no nails allowed!), once 71
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons he’s cool with that, get him into a good position (there are lot’s of them, be creative), and while holding his cock with one hand, slowly open him up and just start circling around the rim of his anus, he’ll probably start jumping around from the sensations, don’t worry, he’ll get used to it, keep on stroking his cock while doing this, you can then experiment by going in deeper, licking up and down, left right – or you can even use some lubricants, but it’s unnecessary. 6. If you do everything right – you’ll see the results pretty fast J And they will certainly be very, very positive.
21 – Cheeks This is another interesting thing you can do. As you’re sucking his cock, move his dick around your mouth. Push it sideways, up and down, around your entire mouth. Especially on your cheeks, once you push it on the side, it will be very appealing, at least visually for him. I love it when girls do it, it’s sexy. Also moan happily while doing this... remember – you love it.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons guy. That’s why I told you so much about having a good attitude and gave you instructions on how you have to act – ‘cause that stuff will make you visually a lot more appealing than being bored and having a stupid mindset. Detail #1 – When you’re giving him head and you’re not using your hands, hold your breasts – push them together in a seductive way so they look bigger and hold them, you can also grab his cock for a moment, and push it against your breasts, then continue giving him head. Holding your breasts – especially if they’re nice – and even if they’re not that big (no problem) is very appealing – the best time to do this is when he’s finishing, if you let him stroke his cock in the end until he orgasms in your mouth or gives you a facial or whatever, while he’s stroking and getting closer to orgasm, hold your breasts, open your mouth, act seductive and naughty – or tell him you want him to cum “here” and hold your breasts so he knows where that “here” is. Just make sure you look up at him, keep eye contact and enjoy it as much as possible. Detail #2 – Pushing it in. As I’ve said above, you need to make a great show, so let’s say he orgasms into your mouth but misses and some of it end’s up on your cheeks or breast – I can’t even describe to you how incredibly attractive it is to see a girl take the “missed” cum and put it into her mouth – this conveys an amazing attitude, especially if you moan while doing this, as if you don’t want to leave anything behind. 73
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Try this – and you’ll see the effects. Combined with the right dirty talking, this can be magical. … OK girls, these techniques are more than you’ll ever need – you just have to learn to combine all of them, you have to learn to mix them up. I’ve already told you what technique is better during foreplay and what’s best during end-‐game; I’ll talk about this more in the “Putting it all together” chapter at the end of the book. Before we end “techniques” there is one BIG thing I didn’t mention yet, something you’ve probably been waiting for – yes, deepthroating. Yes, I did get an enormous amount of blow jobs – and I can teach you exactly how to suck it – but deephroating is different. I can’t teach you how to deepthroat since (thank God – no offence for gay guys reading this, but I’m 100% straight) I’ve never sucked a cock. And deepthroating is a lot more than just giving head – so… … I asked an old friend of mine, Tanya J. to tell you all about deepthroating. Tanya and I met more than 10 years ago through mutual friends when she was still in the porn industry. We started hanging out more and ended up becoming great friends – but then I moved to Europe, and she fell in love with some guy and moved to New York with him, they ended up getting married J… Now she has two little crazy
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Part 6: How to Deepthroat like a Porn Star Hey girls, J I’m Tanya. There’s nothing much I can say about myself, since Jack already introduced me to you girls. He forgot to mention that I live in Chicago now, with my husband Jason and my two sweet sons J I got into porn when I was 18. I was never shy about my sexuality and I really loved sex – so I thought “why not make some money out of it?”, then a friend of mine got me into it, the producers liked me and called me in to shoot my first movie… and the rest is history J It kind of started there, and I had an awesome amount of fun, plus I made a bunch of money which was great ‘cause I could pay my way through college. After college I fell in love with my future husband and I also didn’t need the money anymore so I got out of the whole thing. It was kind of crazy, but interesting, ‘cause I really loved all the sex and the fun, and I was always completely open about it. In those 6-‐7 years I learned pretty much everything about giving blow jobs and sex in general… so I guess I can pass on some “wisdom” to all you girls out there struggling with this. That’s why I offered Jack to help him with writing the book. 76
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Okay, deepthroating… It’s all about the gag reflex. Just as it starts getting in deeper you start gagging and you have to get it out. I know how it is, and I hated it, but once you practice you can get pretty good at it. I can swallow an 8 inch cock now – which is WAY more than I could when I first tried. I’ve seen countless girls learn how to deepthroat so I don’t actually believe in the “I just can’t do it” bullshit. I mean, you know… anyone can do it, even the so called “hopeless” girls. I know it can be tough at the beginning, I remember when I was first mastering it I almost threw up all over my partners cock. You just have to focus on it. I know most girls try to like, fight for air or something, or they just panic that they will throw up and then they can’t do it properly. You just have to relax all the time, and not think about it, actually the only way you can stop your gag reflex is by completely relaxing your throat. So when he’s slowly pushing it in you just let it slide a bit more, keep it there for a few seconds and slowly go out, after you do this a hundred times you’ll get the hang of it and you wont even have a gag reflex anymore, you just have to get used to it that’s all. You’re probably asking “well how do I put in the whole thing in the first place?”, or “I can’t even get half of it in”. Look, size matters when it comes to deepthroating. Obviously it’ll be harder to get a HUGE cock in your mouth, sometimes you just can’t go against Mother Nature – you just don’t have a big enough mouth. But if it’s an average or a 77
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons moderately bigger cock – I’m pretty sure you can get in the whole thing. First of all his cock has to be totally wet, or even put some lube on it, it has to be wet so it can slide in and out easier. Second, you have to practice opening your mouth wide, but you need stronger jaw muscles, just practice them. You need to open your mouth in a big O letter and put your tongue out completely. Because if you put your tongue out you’ll actually be able to breathe through your mouth, not just your nose. When his cock’s deep in your mouth then you just need to move the tip of your tongue as if you were trying to pull more of his shaft in, and when you do this you should be able to get some air. Another cool thing you could do is hold the beginning of his cock, with a few fingers or one hand, and then pull his cock into your mouth as much as you can till you get to your hand. Guys love that. And it’s kind of a substitute for deepthroating – and it’s a great way to prepare you to get it in deeper. Deepthroating is like a muscle, the more you work on it the stronger (better) it gets. As for the position – Kneeling is the best way. Your throat and mouth need to be in the same line. What this basically means is that it’s easier to get in more of his cock if – for example, you are kneeling in front of him and then look more upwards. So your neck is toward the ceiling a bit. 78
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons If you don’t have a boyfriend right now to practice on, maybe you should get a big cucumber, or a dildo. But honestly – it’s best if you just find some random dude to practice on, nothing can change a real cock. Of course there are other positions for deepthroating, but once you get good at it you can do it in any position. I heard some girls learned deepthroating in the shower, because it’s wet, but I’m not really sure how could they breathe. Also, it’s easier to deep throat if he already had one orgasm before. The next time he has an erection (usually), his cock will be softer and easier to move around. A common problem when you try to deepthroat is that guys just lose control of themselves and try to force their cock in your mouth – sometimes they even like seeing you gag a bit, but when they try to push your head on it, just stop them. Forcing it won’t help at all (if you are a beginner), you have to start small and build. So just tell him not to push you, or tie his hands. You have to motivate yourself, so you need to see some progress, try remembering how much of his cock you could get in, then next time try to get more in. If you really can’t get the hang of it here’s a way you could get better. Start small and build your skill. “You have to learn to fly the small planes before you can fly a big ones”, same thing goes with deepthroating. Start with small cocks! The first time they told me to deepthroat they gave me this guy with a HUGE cock, of course I couldn’t handle the 79
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons entire thing, I was shocked and didn’t even want to try anymore, I almost threw up. Big cocks can intimidate you and even screw up your motivation. But instead of viewing it as a “big problem”, view it as a CHALLENGE. I remember the first time I could put an entire cock in my mouth I was so proud of myself, It felt cool – and he loved it. It wasn’t a big cock, but still – I managed to get the whole thing in. Next time I tried on a bigger one, then on an even bigger one, now I could swallow almost any guy – I don’t even have a gag reflex anymore, it became natural. I know it’s an amazing feeling for guys, not just physically but visually, they love looking at your face when you have the entire thing in and you slowly slide out. You can give a great blowjob without deepthroating, but it’s the difference between an 8 and a 10 blow job. Where ten is perfect and 8 is awesome, but not perfect J If you really think that “you just can’t” then don’t. Give up right now and forget about it… don’t even try. “But I tried blah blah” Well, try again. Don’t be so afraid, when you feel like you can’t just try pushing it a little further, next time even further, and once you know it – you’re a pro at deepthroating. You just need to change your negative attitude, don’t say stuff like “I can’t” or “It’s impossible”, yes, sometimes it’s really impossible, I’ve seen 12 inch cocks! Now That’s impossible. But 99% of the time it’s not impossible, it’s just YOU telling yourself it is. Just be more confident, say 80
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons “yes, I can”, “I can do it”, “It IS possible” usually what you believe becomes true, so don’t be so insecure. Anyway, focus on RELAXING your throat, imagine it doesn’t exist. That’s pretty much all you need to know about deepthroating, and anyone that tells you there’s this special technique or that special technique is trying to feed you some crap. It’s not complicated, it’s just important that you a) practice b) be persistent and not give up c) believe you can do it. So, since I finished giving you my “deepthroat wisdom” I think Jack won’t mind if I give you a few more tips, just between us girls. I agree with pretty much everything Jack told you girls, but I think he was a bit too nice when he told you that you need to “love that dick”… Listen, guys love it when you act like a slut. You have to act like a dirty little bitch, it’s not just about loving it, it’s about being his horny little slut that loves to suck cock and eat his cum. That’s what it’s about… Blowjobs are about being his bitch; you’re his little slave that absolutely loves sucking his cock. It’s even more important that you act like a slut than to give him the impression that you love it. So as you’re sucking his cock tell him slutty, dirty things like “Mmm, I’m hungry” or “Cum all over my face”… tell him that you’re his little bitch. As you’re sucking his cock act as if you’re just about to
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Part 7: Top Blowjob Locations Hey, Jack again J Okay, so, I’ve told you what a winner attitude is, I told you how to turn him on, now you even know a bunch of techniques and Tanya gave you some personal tips on giving head and deepthroating. You’re halfway there – we need to discuss a few more details and you’ll be even closer to becoming a professional when it comes to blowjobs. Details – are very important when it comes to giving head. You HAVE to pay attention to details, ‘cause they can make the blow job awesome – and they can destroy everything at the same time. We’ll talk about details more in the next chapter, first we need to find out where you can give your man head – > Why? Does it matter where I give him head? – of course it does. As I said earlier – variety is key. You have to get out of your bedroom sometimes to keep your sex life (and blow jobs) interesting. I’m not telling you to do something different every single time – no, that can be annoying – I’m telling you that from time to time, you have to try something new, exciting and refreshing – just for fun. Too much of the 83
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1. How to Give Head in a Car I’ve got head like 50 times in my car, in a few different cars. Sometimes it was good, sometimes it was shit. It all depends. If you’re smart – it can be awesome. First of all – it’s cool and adventurous. It’s also possible that people see you – so it’s kind of exciting, actually IT IS exciting. The first few times I got head in a car I was so afraid that someone will see us when they stop next to us on the traffic light – and they did a few times J haha, it was funny. But it can be dangerous – so you have to be very careful when giving him head, ‘cause one bad move and he might lose control of the car and both of you could die right there and then. For safety reasons, tell him NOT to look at you at all, just watch how he drives and you do everything else. It’s fucked up if he has a stick shift car, ‘cause it’s more complicated to get to his cock without interrupting him from changing gears. You can enjoy it better if he’s driving an “automatic” (most people in the US have automatic gear shifters), since he doesn’t have to think about changing gears – and he can focus on the pleasure he’s getting from you. 84
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So, here’s how it goes. You can do it while he’s driving, or you can find some place to stop, park and then do it. Both are good, of course – stopping somewhere is safer. If he’s driving, slowly unzip his pants – make sure you don’t interfere with his driving. If he has a belt – take it off, belts can be a pain in the ass, ‘cause they take up space and they can press over his stomach which can hurt, so take his belt of, and slowly take out his cock. The lower you can be the better. Make him spread his legs as much as he can so you can have more space to get to his cock. If you’re with him longer – and you were planning on giving him head in the car, tell him to put on boxers that can STRETCH – this is very important. These are tight boxers; they’re made from elastan or polyamide. Or anything else that can stretch. If they can’t stretch then you can’t pull them away and create more space, he needs space between his balls. Of course, first just tease him a bit and stroke his cock, massage it with your hands, squeeze it, stronger, softer, until it’s hard. When you created enough space, start sucking his cock, since you probably won’t have enough space to use your hands, concentrate on moaning a lot. The problem with sitting in the car is space, when there’s not enough space for his balls and it’s possible that he will have a 85
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons weaker erection – which means that you should use your teeth from time to time – and ONLY when his cock is at least halfway in your mouth, you just put a few teeth around his cock and firmly bite it – as I said, this will trigger a little adrenalin rush in him and give him a stronger erection. Just watch out you don’t scratch his head, ‘cause he might lose control of the wheel. It’s not easy to get him to orgasm while driving just by using your mouth – since it’s really hard to get both your hand and mouth on his cock at the same time, and for the finish – he needs a stronger grip, more pressure – which your mouth alone can’t always create – so, as you’re getting closer to the finish, start stroking him HARD and keep your mouth a bit higher (just try not disturbing his driving too much), lick the tip of his cock as you’re stroking it until he cums. When you’re giving head in a car – you kind of have to swallow, there is no other way. Or, you don’t have to swallow, but he has to cum in your nice, warm mouth – which of course is something you love (never forget the winner attitude), you can spit it out later if you don’t want to swallow. Then, slowly put everything back to its place and zip him up. I forgot to tell you about the seatbelt – well, he can leave it on, but just as the belt, the seatbelt can also be a pain in the ass. You can get it off, but safety comes first people, I know it can be great, but you don’t want to die in a car accident. About other people – if you don’t want them to 86
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons see you – then don’t get up once you go down. Usually people driving behind you can see both of you in the front seat, so just forget about getting up from time to time, once you get down, forget about getting back up until he cums. Put on some music, whatever you guys like – but don’t turn the volume too high, ‘cause you’re already taking away his focus from driving while you’re giving him head. You don’t want him to lose even more of his focus, unless you want to die of course J Also, when the music is on a lower volume, he can hear the attractive “sucking” sounds you are creating. Which is great. Everything is easier if he’s not driving, then you can relax and enjoy the entire thing. Park somewhere in the open, at night – If you don’t want to be seen, find an abandoned parking lot, or a dark corner where there are no pedestrians. It may happen that some guys will tell you “no” when you offer to give them head in a car – and respect their decision. Some guys just can’t focus on more than one thing at a time. On the other hand, you can prepare him, so he gets so turned on that he can’t refuse your offer. First just start rubbing his cock with one hand as he’s driving until his cock is rock hard – tell him stuff like “when are you going to fuck me?”, or “Mm, I’m so fucking horny, I can’t wait to suck your cock” tease him a bit as he’s driving, his cock will get rock hard. Once he’s really horny, if you start unzipping his jeans he won’t tell you anything. 87
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Another great way to get to his cock is if he has an opening on his boxers, like a hole, ‘cause then you can just unzip him and get his cock out without taking of his jeans, this can be really comfortable and easy to do, it just depends on what kind of boxers he has on. Everything else is pretty much the same as regular blowjobs.
2. The Kitchen I LOVE getting head in the kitchen. Look girls, you have to think out of the box sometimes. Someone’s going to tell you – what difference does it make to give him head in the kitchen, or car, or whatever? It DOES make a difference, since it’s different. Blow jobs are not just about attitude and technique, everything counts, there can be a bunch of details involved, everything depends on the situation. One thing is for sure – you have to combine pleasure with pleasure and more pleasure. People see the world through their senses – you can see, hear, feel when someone touches you, pain and pleasure, you can taste, you can smell, you can feel heat or cold – light or dark – comfortable or uncomfortable – all that is important. So, for example, you guys can be home alone, maybe he’s cooking dinner and you come to “give him a hand” and you end up having crazy sex on the kitchen table – why not? Okay, maybe you don’t have a big enough kitchen table or whatever. All I know is that I got a few awesome blow jobs in the kitchen – incredible 88
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons blow jobs. I slept at her place – I woke up in the morning, alone in the bed, I heard some music, the sun was shining outside… I got up and got to the kitchen and there she was, nice – hot – with a big naughty smile on her face, she was making breakfast – but just for me. “why aren’t you eating?” she looked at me with this serious, but somewhat naughty look in her eyes and said “Mm, well, I don’t have what I need in the fridge…”, “What do you need?” I asked her, but I still didn’t understand what she wanted. She smiled, got down on her knees, touched my crotch and said “I think it’s here, I really like the juice that comes out of it… J”… damn! I was hard like a rock. Some girls just know their shit… So as she was giving me some amazing head, I finished making some eggs with bacons. And it was beautiful, I was hungry, so I felt great about the smell of food, and the sun shining at us, there was this big window, so I could completely see her – I loved every second of it. I felt like I was falling in love with HER. And she loved it too. She smiled all the way, as if I gave her the tastiest thing on Earth for breakfast – my cock… Damn. I loved that woman. Too bad she ended up in jail for stealing a bunch of money from the bank she worked in. I never heard of her since… It’s insane what some women are capable to do just to get a few more pairs of shoes... crazy shopaholics. It’s a disease I’m telling you! All that advertising and crap is washing out our brains.
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3. How to Give Head in a Cinema Giving him a blow job in the cinema can be really exciting. It’s a bit risky, but that’s the point. It won’t be easy to relax here, so it’s best if you try to give him a “quickie”. First of all, choose a movie that’s been playing for some time already – the longer it’s been playing the less people are going to watch it. Sit somewhere in the back corner, it’s best if there’s no one behind you. You have to watch out for the staff that usually comes in at the beginning and the end of the movie, but sometimes they even come in during the movie. Start by slowly rubbing his cock through his pants while you’re watching the movie, he probably won’t be able to see you that much since it’s dark, so you’re gonna have to use more pressure. You can either sit next to him by raising that thing where you hold your hand or you can kneel between his legs. Both are fine; just make everything smooth so someone doesn’t see you. This can be really exciting, I know I was so turned on and excited ‘cause I was worried that someone could see us, thank god no one did. It was awesome. It’s just important that you don’t have too much stuff with you (drinks, popcorn, jackets etc.) just make a lot of space around you and just as with giving head in a car, make sure he has pants and boxers that are easy to get off or open up. 90
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Don’t wait till the end of the movie – you don’t want the lights turned on in the middle of giving him head. Start about 20 minutes after the movie started, then you can even finish watching the movie if he cums faster. You should definitely try this out. If someone sees you, just act cool and keep on going, he probably won’t report you or say anything. Especially if your boyfriend is a big guy. If the movie’s interesting people are usually completely focused on the movie so they’ll forget about everything else. Don’t make too much noise. I think it’s better if you’re kneeling between his legs – ‘cause then he can at least see some of your face in the dark, and if you’re sitting next to him all he will see is a bunch oh hair J So keep your hair out of the way.
4. Outdoor/Public I got head so many times in alleys, dark corners, or out in the wild – in a forest actually. The thought that someone may see you is just so exciting for me. Probably because I did get caught more than once – luckily everything ended up OK, but still… it was crazy. This feeling of a hot girl being under me, kneeling, sucking and loving my cock is so amazing. Believe me girls, every guy loves it when he feels like a king. And you should be his queen, giving him awesome pleasure. I know from experience that I could really fall in love with girls that knew how 91
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons to give great blow jobs, and girls that knew how to turn me on completely. I was on fire and in love with girls like that. And I still am. But I have to teach you girls… Since really, as I said earlier “a good blowjob is hard to find”. Once you learn this shit I am talking about, you’ll be the bomb when it comes to giving head. Better sex equals a better relationship. That’s a fact. Women will envy you, they wont understand how come these guys are chasing you, even if they maybe look better than you. Once you adopt a more seductive attitude and figure out how men operate, it will be EASY. Anyway, back to giving head in public. Well… what does giving head in public actually mean? Does it mean somewhere where someone could see you, or when someone is watching you – so, let’s say you’re giving him head in front of other people – in public? I guess it can be both. I’m not saying you should give him head in front of other people – you can of course, it happened to me in front of other people in college and I didn’t like it, that’s kind of disrespecting. The only time it’s cool to give head in front of other people is if other people are having sex too, not just watching, or if it’s a threesome J Let’s say you want to give him a blow job somewhere outside. Just be creative, find a place where probably no one will pass by. I love having sex in the nature, you should just drive far away from the city, somewhere calm, like a place for couples where you can have sex in 92
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons public, or just give him a nice blow job on a park bench late in the night. You just have to experiment, but don’t overdo it. I had a few girls that were probably afraid that I will get bored – so they wanted to do something else every single time! And all I wanted to do is stick to the stuff I liked most. But then again… there has to be some balance.
5. Public Toilet Now a public toilet is different from regular outdoor blow jobs – there’s an advantage that people can’t actually see you (if you can lock the door), so you can relax more, but it’s still a public toilet of a café, bar, nightclub, restaurant, cinema or college, or… whatever. You get the picture. Try finding some place that has more than one bathroom, ‘cause if there’s only one toilet and 50 people in the café – you’re fucked. Someone will be waiting in line and once a guy and a girl come out at the same time… well, it’s pretty obvious J So, look for a place that’s not so crowded and has more than one toilet. If you’re there with friends, sneak in to the men’s room when no one’s watching and push him into the stall. He’ll be fucking excited. Go to the men’s room – the ladies room is much more crowded, since as far as I know girls go to check themselves out every second J and they’ll probably figure you out faster than guys would. If the toilet is clean, you should close it and sit on top, so he can stand and block your toes (so 93
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons people won’t be able to see it – usually there’s some space between the floor and the door), and it looks as if he’s peeing. Everything else is pretty much the same. Oh yeah, if the toilet’s not clean then you’re going to have to bow down if you want to give him head. But my honest advice is that you guys just have some fast sex – standing doggy style is my favorite for public toilets.
6. Bathroom Blowjobs and How to Motivate Your Man You just woke up, you’re slowly walking to the bathroom to pee, and as you’re peeing your man is getting into the bathroom to wash his teeth – you look at him and realize his cock is bit bigger than usual – that’s the morning erection more than 50% of guys have – whenever they had a nice night of sleep, when they wake up – tadaa – erection. And there’s no better way to start a day than getting head – and giving head (remember the winning attitude – you’re lovin’ it). Just use the sit and suck position as described earlier, don’t tease him too much and give him hard strokes – since he slept for about 8 hours he’ll be really horny – growth hormone – testosterone, works during the night, so most guys are the horniest when they wake up and at around 8 pm when they 94
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons have most energy (biologically that is, but not if he was working all day). He will cum faster in the morning and you will show him how much you love him that you please him just as he got up – you know how they say, a day that starts good – finishes good. Once he orgasms – he will be happier, more relaxed and ready to talk without being nervous or frustrated over his job. I don’t know how so many of you girls don’t understand this – whenever you have problems – arguing about stupid stuff etc. – just have great sex. Immediately. Just in the middle of the argument jump at him and have wild sex. Most couples argue over complete bullshit – why would you let bullshit ruin your relationship? You need to have the “make love, not war” kind of mindset. A study showed that 95% of problems in a relationship have a deeper core – it’s bad sex, or not good enough sex, or not regular enough sex, or one partner giving more than receiving – it’s all about sex, believe it or not. Girls, if you want a man to love you – never, ever threaten him with “if you don’t do X then no sex for Y amount of time”. Never, ever do that. You have to be smarter… learn how to motivate your man the real way – the way that works. Remember how most parents say to their children “If you don’t do your homework then you can’t go to that party tonight!” – That never works, or even if it does once – it doesn’t work in the long run. All the parent will get with this is a child that hates school. You don’t want to use negative-‐motivation, ‘cause it’s completely ineffective and stupid. 95
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons The “right” way to motivate him is by giving him positive thoughts. For example – when he does something good (helps with the dishes, makes you a nice dinner, takes you out somewhere fancy) – you reward him with a great blow job, but you NEVER tell him “this is your reward”, you don’t want him to feel like a dog. Remember, he is your king – and that’s how you should make him feel. Once you use this motivation method of rewarding – and positive motivation, he’ll not only love you more, but he’ll always be ready to cooperate with you on anything you’re doing. Let’s continue with a few more blowjob locations…
7. Elevator Now, this is some really advanced stuff. I got head in the elevator about 5 or 6 times, and it can be pretty hilarious. Actually, most of the time it was quick sex, and a few times just a blow job. You’re both going to need some guts for this one. You get in the elevator and then click the Stop button midway. It’s important that you choose an elevator in a building that a) doesn’t have cameras and b) isn’t used much. It’s easy to find an elevator without cameras, but one that isn’t used often? Well. Do it later in the night, 96
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons around 10-‐11pm when you’re coming home from dinner or whatever. The problem is that you don’t have a lot of time – probably less than 2-‐ 3 minutes, until someone contacts the receptionist and tells him that the elevator is not working. That’s why it’s exciting. Since you have to make him orgasm real fast – I suggest you give him faster, and stronger strokes (don’t be afraid to hold that cock tight, I hate it when girls are too soft with it – no pressure on the shaft means no orgasm, so hold it stronger and don’t be afraid to stroke it like there’s no tomorrow). Remember, you want his load more than anything. As I said – you’re on a time limit, so be fast, stroke him harder, combine it with some licks, then put your tongue out, stroke it strong and tell him you want his load in your mouth – “right now!” (you have to be a bit aggressive sometimes). Another very important thing is that you don’t have sex with him for at least a day or two – the hornier he is the faster he’ll orgasm. So keep the sex low for a day or two if you’re planning this elevator thing. Believe me it can be an incredible experience, he’ll probably never forget it – and every time he enters an elevator – he’ll have a little flash back of you giving him awesome head. Now isn’t that beautiful – every single elevator he gets in will remind him of you. I also remember a really cool line a girl once told me while giving me head in an elevator. (She initiated it, I was too chicken for it), anyway, I asked her “hey but what if someone comes in” she replied (while 97
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons sucking my cock) “Don’t worry, I’ll hide your cock... with my mouth, like this” we both started laughing and enjoying it. I was a lot of fun. Thank God no-‐one called the elevator... But, what if you do get caught? Well, you can’t get caught if the door is closed and you stopped in the middle of two floors, but what can happen is that the lift boy or receptionist (if there is one) will notice that the elevators not coming/”working” so he’ll try to get it going or contact you somehow – that’s why you should finish fast. Anyway in case this happens, say you don’t know how you got stuck, it just stopped – or say you pressed the stop bottom by accident and didn’t know how to start the elevator again. And stand in front of your husband/boyfriend so the receptionist doesn’t see his erection through his pants – ‘cause he’ll obviously figure out what happened. Good luck and try this out if you have the guts J
8. On the Beach Just a few tips for giving head on the beach. Watch out the sand doesn’t get near your mouth, or his cock, or his pants – ‘cause it will kind of ruin the experience. Watch out for guards – if you’re doing it at night. If you want to do it during the day, make sure you do it on some little deserted place, away from the regular hotel beach. 98
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons It would be best if you found one of those plastic beds to lie on. If it’s during the night, and no one’s on the beach except the two of you then you’ll have a great time for sure. You can lie together later, watch the stars and all that romantic stuff J Try to position yourself so that the Moon lights your face, it’s very important that he can see you. Bring some drinks or water with you so you’ll have something to drink after giving him head, or something with alcohol so you can sit around and relax while watching the stars together -‐ Definitely an experience he will remember.
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Part 8: Atmosphere Remember what I said earlier – 80% of an amazing blow job is having a great attitude, 10% is having great technique – and 10% is everything else (the details). That’s what I’ll be writing about now, these are details – but not just any details, ‘cause they’re the difference between a “good” and an “amazing” blow job. One of these details is setting up a great atmosphere that will turn up his senses and therefore make the blow job an even more pleasurable experience for him. You’ve got 5 senses (that transform into feelings or emotions). Visual (he sees you giving him head), sounds (music, the voice of you popping his cock out of your mouth, what you say to him – mostly dirty talking), touch (stroking his cock, licking it, the comfort of the chair he’s sitting in etc.), smell (your perfume, the clarity of the air, smell of food or candles with a scent) and taste (if you drink wine, or the taste of your tongue). First let’s talk about music – it’s not necessary to put on some music while giving him head – but it can make a significant difference. You already know that it’s important how your man feels, and that blow jobs are more mental than physical – so why not put on some nice music in the background that can make him feel even more relaxed? 100
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons I’d recommend Enigma and other Lounge music that can put him in a relaxed state. You can also have great sex with soul and r ’n’ b music – I love music made by black folks, they really have a sense for music and they know how to make really good grooves for sex. I like listening to bar/lounge music and Too $hort while having sex. Too Short is a rapper from California, that usually sings hardcore songs with sexual content – if you want to surprise him with a really submissive song then play him “Nothing Feels Better” by Too Short from his 2006 album. The music also depends on the style of your blow job (more on blow job styles later). A great thing you can do is to adjust the tempo you’re giving him head at with the rhythm of the music, or you can “hum” him a song. So, if the music is faster, you suck on him faster, if the music is cool and slow then you enjoy yourself slowly, lick by lick, suck by suck – enjoying every second of it as if you’re eating your favorite ice cream. Setting up a good atmosphere is not easy – since you have to plan it, and then the blow job is not so spontaneous. But you can do it really fast too, so don’t worry about it. You just have to be relaxed about it. Let me tell you a few things about -‐ the lights – do NOT turn them off… I know a lot of you girls are a bit shy, and you don’t want him too look at you, just forget about that. There’s nothing more annoying than when a 101
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons girl wants to turn the lights off and ruin everything. I’ll talk with you about overcoming shyness later, but come on, don’t worry about it. Giving head is normal and natural, if you’re already doing it then jump right at it. Turning off the lights, or giving him head in the dark is a mood killer. As I said more than 10 times, guys are visual – so we need to see you to get turned on, it’s not enough to feel you sucking, we want to see you. Why do we want to see you? Well, I guess it’s obvious, but one of the major reasons is to see whether you’re enjoying it or not. We want to see you loving it, sucking it and acting like a little slut with our cock. So forget about giving head in complete dark or a half-‐dark-‐depressive atmosphere style. Let there be light! But what kind of light you ask? Hm… depends. The optimal light is the light of the Sun when it’s going down, reddish. Candles are perfect. They’re not only romantic, but they make this erotic, sexual atmosphere – especially if they smell nice. When you position yourself for giving him head, if you’re kneeling for example, make sure that the light is in front of you, or at your side. Most of you girls don’t think about this, but if you already lit some nice candles, why would you turn your back on the lights? Because then the light can’t get to your face – and that’s what I want, I want to see your beautiful tongue and lips wrapped around my cock, I want to see you smiling, stroking and moaning. But if there is no light – I can’t see all that, why would you deprive your man from all these pleasures? 102
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons So – make sure the light is on you. Think about this even when giving him head at the beach, let the moonlight shine on your face. By the way, If you’re lucky enough to have a fireplace at home don’t forget giving him head there… oh, I loove fireplaces. Mmm, some of the best blow jobs I got were next to a fireplace… Next -‐ drink something. You already know that you need to be well hydrated before giving head otherwise you’ll get sore, or his cock won’t be wet enough. And you know the rule – the wetter the better. Red wine may make you thirsty later – so go for some nice, white wine (you can find really nice wine for little money), pour him a glass (as a King), then pour yourself one, make toast. Wait until he’s relaxed, then take another sip of wine… look into his eyes, the slowly and seductively lick your upper lips and say something like “Mmm, this wine tastes great, but I think there’s something here that tastes even better” and then make a naughty smile and look at his cock so he gets the message. Believe me, he’ll love you for saying him stuff like that. And be feminine… you have to be a real woman, not some feminist. I don’t know how a lot of you girls got the impression that guys love tough, dominant chicks – no, we don’t. And the guys that tell you that only tell you so you’ll think they’re nice. These guys make me throw up.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons on if something smells funny in the kitchen. You want smells that will turn him on, so as I said, candles that smell nice can be great, or if you’ve got those little sticks that can be lit and then as they burn they let out a great scent. Anyway, as long as nothing smells like shit it’s cool. Another really important thing is the temperature. I don’t know about you, but I can’t stand the heat, when it’s too hot and I start sweating – I just lose my focus and can’t completely enjoy the blow job. Or when the humidity is high as hell. When giving him head – cold is better than hot. ‘Cause even when it’s cold, it’s beautiful to know that at least my cock is warm and wet in your hot ‘n’ sexy mouth. Guys can easily lose their focus, and details like this can make or break an awesome blow job. Of course – don’t worry about them too much, these are just details, but sometimes they can interfere -‐sometimes not, just try putting everything together, but don’t stress about it too much. If you start thinking too much “did I do this good, did I do that good, bla bla bla” then YOU will lose your focus and fuck up. So just relax and get out of your head, remember – you’re loving it and that is the most important thing. Okay, so… music’s playing, wine’s in your system, romantic candles are all over the place, it’s not too hot, not too cold, you smell like sex, you look so seductive and naughty, you’re smiling, he’s smiling, maybe 105
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons you’re even eating something exotic, you’re both relaxed and ready to get down to business J That’s how you create a great atmosphere if you are at home – it’s easy and you can set it up in under a minute.
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Part 9: Blow Job Styles I’ve been talking about blow job styles throughout the book, so I guess you’ve already got an idea what’s it about. Depending on the situation, location, the mood you’re in and the amount of time you’ve got to give him head, you can choose different blow job styles. You have to mix these “styles” up from time to time if you want to keep the blow jobs interesting.
Aggressive Blow Jobs Let’s start with the most interesting. Aggressive blow jobs are – well, a bit more aggressive than regular blow jobs. When I say aggressive, I don’t mean violent. Aggressive is when you put more pressure on the shaft, aggressive is when you’re doing everything a bit faster than average, when you’re giving him hard strokes and deeper sucks. It’s more than that actually. When a girl gives me aggressive head it looks like this -‐-‐> She doesn’t tease me at all; she just jumps right at my cock as if she has to get that cum out of my balls as soon as possible. She’s really enjoying it and she can’t wait for my load, she wants it bad and she wants it right 107
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons now. She’s stroking and sucking hard, she’s holding my balls and tickling them a bit, she’s moaning hard and talking real dirty – she’s putting a lot of pressure on me, she slaps herself with my cock, she goes deep in and then bites my cock slowly and she laughs with this naughty look in her eyes… she spits on my cock, and then she starts stroking me real hard, she put’s her tongue out and says “cum in my mouth!” she says this more than once, she keeps on licking my cock and strokes me until I shoot my entire load down her throat – then I look at her, she’s down on her knees, her mouth is full – and she looks happier than ever, smiling, naughty, seductive. She shows me what I gave her, and then she swallows all of it. Then she gives me a few more sucks, to squeeze every last drop of sperm out of my cock. So, when should you give your man aggressive style blow jobs? … always J Just joking. Every blow job style is good, you just have to figure out which environment is best for which blow job style. When you’re short on time – go aggressive. When you’re anywhere where you can’t completely relax for some reason, go aggressive (‘cause that will turn him on the fastest).
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons soft. Don’t be too soft; don’t be afraid to hold his cock a bit harder. Too soft is not good. No pressure – no pleasure. Taking it easy can be really nice if you just want to relax and have a nice experience. It’s also a good way to get ready for sex – so you just start slow to warm him up for sex, and after a few minutes of giving him nice head, you move on to sex.
Mixing it up A typical (and probably best) blow job is mixed up. You start slow, and then you gradually increase the speed after a few minutes, then during the end you completely switch to aggressive style until he orgasms. Most mixed up blow jobs can last 5-‐10 minutes, or less, depending on how fast you switch to a more aggressive style. A lot of girls asked me “how long should a blow job last?” – it completely depends on you. If you want him to cum faster, just be more aggressive and act naughty as hell.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons every single day of the week. But if you want him to enjoy it more, then 2-‐3 times a week are great, if you live together, every other day is fine. Don’t overdo it, don’t under-‐do it. Back to the topic. Is there anything more beautiful than waking up in the morning to the sound of you’re girlfriend/wife moaning and giving you head? No, there isn’t. When you finish, say something like “Hey baby, I just wanted to wish you a good morning, I hope you liked it, I know I did” (naughty smile) “Would you like some coffee?” He’ll love you for it.
Good Night Blow Jobs A lot of you girls don’t know what happens after a man orgasms. I won’t give you some medical explanations, but here’s what I know for sure. When sperm comes out of his balls, there’s a chemical in his body that makes him impotent – not really impotent, it just makes his erection go down (that’s why most of us can’t have sex right away again), this same chemical makes guys sleepy. I have no idea why, but did you notice that after sex at night guys can fall asleep in a minute, while most girls stay up longer. All this happens in our body after we orgasm – so, if you give him a blow job when you go to bed, he’ll not only fall asleep in a minute, but he’ll also sleep like a baby.
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Surprise Blow Jobs I absolutely love when my girl gives me surprise blow jobs. When I least expect it… For example, you’re watching football, chilling, then your girlfriend goes by and instead of saying “Oh, baby, do you always have to watch football blah blah rant, blah blah football is more important to you than I am, blah shit blah football” (which is incredibly annoying and a lot of girls do it) – can you even imagine how beautiful it is to hear “Hey sexy, can you call me when it’s half time, I’d love to suck your cock for a few minutes and then go back to doing whatever I was doing” – actually, a few girls said this exact sentence to me. What do you think, did I love them or did I love them? Yeah, you got it right sweetie J, I L-‐O-‐V-‐E-‐D them. And I still do, ‘cause I respect those girls, they knew what I loved and I returned them all the love they gave me. If only more girls were like this… Spread the word girls. That’s why I wrote this book. It’s not an egoist’s dream of more blow jobs, it’s a way to open up your horizons and understand that YOU will benefit from giving your man better blow jobs, it’s not only about him getting pleasure, it’s about you. And you’ll only see that once you start giving him head the way I’m telling you to.
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Part 10: How to Talk Dirty during Blow Jobs Okay girls, we’re getting closer to the end, but before we get there, let’s cover something MAJOR – talking dirty. Here’s a list of things you should tell your man before/while/after giving him head.
What you should say before giving him head? -‐ Look at his cock until he notices that you’re looking at it, then look into his eyes, give him a naughty, slutty smile and say something like “Mmm, I’m really hungry for some of your cum” then get down on your knees and say “Can I please suck your cock?” then take it out, smile, open your mouth as wide as possible, look up at him, put his cock into your mouth but don’t touch it with your lips/tongue or anything else, then breath onto his cock and smile naughtily with an open mouth. Then start sucking on him and moan, ‘cause you just got something you love more than anything (remember the winning attitude). Okay – I know this may be too much for some of you girls, too “dirty” or too “slutty” to say – or even worse, you think he’ll disrespect you if you 112
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons say something like this. I already told you that’s bullshit. He will LOVE you for it more than anything, saying stuff like this will make him incredibly horny and it will also make your sex life ten times better – do you think a guy would cheat on you if your sex was awesome? Nope, most guys wouldn’t. If you can fulfill his sexual needs, he won’t need other women, ‘cause he’ll know you’re the best. Don’t be afraid to open up and act like a hardcore slut, of course, not always, but from time to time it can be amazing. Sometimes guys just want to cuddle, be sweet etc. -‐ Another thing you can say before giving him head is “I have a surprise for you honey” and then make that slutty, sexy smile so he knows what you’re thinking about, “just after dinner”. Or if you want to motivate him to do something, for example go throw out the garbage. “Honey, could you go throw out the garbage please… “ then when he looks at you, say “I’ve got something really special for you when you come back, so hurry up” and then lick your lips while saying this, make a sexy smile so he knows what you’re thinking of. The purpose of talking dirty before giving him head is to turn him on and get him ready. Talking dirty in general can convey even better the winner attitude you have – just saying “I love to suck your cock” during the blow job can make him cum and feel much better. 113
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What you should say while giving him head and right before he cums? -‐ So, you’re already sucking and licking his cock. There are literally hundreds of things you can say, the point is that you say that you enjoy it in a dirty way, such as “I love sucking your cock” or “Mmm, it tastes so nice” or even better -‐ compliment him , if his cock is bigger, say “Your cock is soo big, I want it all in my mouth” and then try to go deep on him. -‐ Another thing you can do is instead of giving statements, ask questions. For example, as you pop his cock out of your mouth after a longer suck, you say “aaah” then smile, open your mouth, start stroking him hard, put your tongue out and say “Do you like it when I suck your cock?” or “Do you like it when I lick it right here (then lick it there), mmmm?” smile and look into his eyes. -‐ Of course, that’s just a soft version of talking dirty. You can say stuff like “Mmmm, your cock tastes so good. I’m your little slut honey” or “I can’t wait to get fucked, are you gonna fuck me like a little bitch after I blow your cock?” or even better, beg. Say “Please, will you fuck me hard later?, I want to get fucked hard, I want you to cum here (then show him your tongue)”. Saying stuff like this will make him go insane. 114
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons -‐ Let’s say you’re already sucking him for a while and you’re getting ready for the grand finale (I’ll talk about end game in the next chapter). Depending on where he cums you can say different things. I absolutely love it when a girl tells me “Cum in my mouth, cum here (and then she shows me where)” or “Give it to me!” (aggressively), “Please, give it to me” (as if she’s almost crying for it, as if she can’t wait anymore). You can also just hold his cock in your mouth and moan “mmmm” and as you’re taking it out slowly say “Aaaah” then smile, bite your lower lips and say “I deserve to get fucked like a little slut that I am”. -‐ If you want to be even more submissive use the word “I am your” (as if he owns you). So say stuff like “I’m your little slut” or “this mouth (then lick his cock to illustrate which mouth you’re thinking of) is only yours” or even better, call him “daddy” (if he’s a more dominant guy by nature) – of course, this all depends on you, you have to think with your own head, some things can be great in one situation and not so great in the next situation. Try thinking critically and don’t be afraid to experiment. As long as you believe in what you’re saying he’ll love it. So don’t say “I love to suck your cock” in a robotic, monotone way – say it with passion and emotion. Body language can say a lot more than words – you girls probably know this much better than guys.
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What you should say after you gave him a blow job? -‐ When you’re finished, say stuff like “Mmm, this was so great, I can’t wait to suck your big cock again” or ask him “Did you like how I sucked your cock? Mmm” and then look at him with a naughty smile, he’ll say “Yeah” then you say something like “Mmm, I love sucking your cock” and give him a few more licks. “I’m your little personal cock-‐sucker” then laugh naughtily. -‐ Okay girls – I’m about to tell you something GOLDEN that you probably never heard before. I understand that some of you girls out there would “never” do this – but if you really want to give him the best head he EVER got – then you need to listen to me and do what I’m suggesting. The stuff I’m talking about here is real, and it works like a charm. All you need to do is use it and see for yourself. What I’m about to tell you is one of the most powerful and effective blow job technique you ever heard about – are you ready? It’s saying – “thank you” after he cums in your mouth. There is nothing more powerful you can do than saying these two words once he orgasms into your mouth – you open your mouth, smile, show his load – you give him a naughty/slutty look and you swallow all of it – then you say “Mmm, thank you baby” – as I’ve said earlier, this is just part of the “winning attitude” – saying thank you once you swallow his sperm are the 116
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons sweetest words a girl can tell me, there is nothing sexier on this planet than a girl that loves to swallow my sperm – and only 4 or 5 girls ever said thank you to me after finishing in their mouths – it was a mind-‐blowing blow job. So this is the stuff you can say before, during and after giving him head – but that’s just the talking part, you’ll find the “action” part in the next chapter which focuses on how to end the blow job – that’s why the next chapter is called “end game”.
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Part 11: End Game aka “The Grand Finale” Soo… finally J everything you’ve done so far comes down to this last part. This chapter is where the big questions like “Should I spit or swallow?” are. The answer to that question by the way is “swallow, of course” – but don’t worry, you don’t have to. I’ll just tell you what guys like best, and how to do it, it’s your decision what you’ll do with that information. By the way, you know how they say “Bad girls spit, good girls swallow” J They should change it to “Girls you get to love swallow, all the other girls – you don’t even remember”… just joking, well... kind of joking. Let’s start from the beginning, you got him ready and horny, you put some nice music on, you got into a great positions, you’re already giving him some great head – and if you’ve done everything right – the time will come when he wants to “erupt”, or shoot out his entire load. There are a number of different things you can do at this point – just don’t forget your attitude; never, ever forget the winner attitude. a) You love to suck his cock b) because you love when he cums -‐-‐> which should 118
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons also mean that you love every single drop of sperm that comes out of him. I know a lot of you girls have a problem with swallowing? But what’s the worst that can happen? If you already went this far, why not go all the way to the end and really give him a freakishly strong orgasm? We’ll get back to that in a second… First let’s cover some basics of the “end-‐ game”. Once you see that he’s really enjoying it, you’ll feel that he’s coming closer to the edge, he’ll make small, sudden moves with his legs, he’ll flex his legs a bit, his balls will become a bit harder and tilted upwards – as if they’re ready to release the load. Once this happens, you’ll know he’s ready, and what you need to do is increase – everything. So, if you were talking dirty then start talking even dirtier. Tell him to cum in your mouth, smile and tell him you can’t wait for his load and that you want it really bad. Then start stroking his shaft faster and stronger than before – and do not slow down (except if you want to stack – more on stacking later), do not slow down at all, till the end. So pump his cock harder, faster and with more pressure than before, suck it and lick it harder, talk dirtier and love it even more. The most important thing is that you increase the stroking and don’t slow down until the end. The only time you can slow down is if you wish to stack -‐ stacking means that you build up his orgasms and then just before he’s 119
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons supposed to shoot his load, you slow down – and therefore stop the process, then you continue sucking on his cock normally, with minimal pressure. Then you stroke him hard again, almost to the end – and then you stop just before the finish, again. This may be dangerous, ‘cause it’s really frustrating, and your man may hate you for doing this, but he’ll love you for it in the end, because once you start stroking him hard the last time and go all the way to the end without stopping – he’ll have an orgasm so strong that he’ll feel like fainting. The problem with stacking is that you really need to be a bit more experienced, and ready, ‘cause you’ll need a bunch of energy for it. So you build it up, then just before the top, you go down a little, then back up again, then down again, don’t do this more than 2-‐3 times ‘cause he’ll lose his nerve and you’ll get too tired. … so, about 5 seconds before he starts shooting his load you have to decide where will it end, how will it end there and how will you react. Most girls do EVERYTHING great – and then they fuck the whole thing up at the end. This frustrated me for years, a girl starts giving me head, and it’s perfect! Everything goes great, and then just before I start to orgasm she makes this strange scared face, the head of my cock is in her mouth – and she suddenly decides that she doesn’t want it to end in her mouth after all (which Is OK with me) – but she makes this decision too late! So she pulls my cock out of her mouth exactly when I started shooting, and it went all over her face by accident – then she made this horrible, disgusted face as if someone just puked all over her. 120
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons First I felt sorry, but then again, this scene she made screwed up the entire thing. I felt awkward, as if I’ve just done something bad – and that’s not how a man should feel at the end of a blow job. He needs to feel like the king of the world – and you should be his queen that gave him this incredible orgasm, not someone who is disgusted after faking that she loves it the whole time. It was so disappointing. After that I knew that she never really enjoyed it, that she faked the whole thing. And I was okay with that, there’s nothing wrong if a girl doesn’t want to get a facial or swallow – but it does kind of lower the quality of the blow job. A bunch of guys out there dream of a nice girl giving them awesome head and swallowing their load – but too many girls don’t want to swallow, because it’s “yukee”, “grouse” or “under my level” – or even worse “If I swallow his load he’ll think I’m a slut and he’ll disrespect me” – I already told you, this mindset is pure bullshit and it will lead you nowhere. All you’ll have is a man that a) has sexual fantasies that you don’t give him b) which will lead him to look for love/sex elsewhere c) or a guy that will stay with you, but will be sexually unsatisfied or just partly satisfied (which is obviously crap). Okay, time go get down to business… He’s about to orgasm, what will you do? Here are your options -‐-‐> 121
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons The first question is – will he cum in your mouth or somewhere else? Let’s say he cums in your mouth.
Option 1 – Spitting (bad girl) So, you’re slowly increasing the tempo of the stroking and you talk dirty to him. At this moment his balls are harder and tilted upwards – which means they are even more sensitive, so it’s a great feeling if you push his shaft upwards and give his balls a few long licks, then continue stroking harder until he starts to orgasm. Once he starts you can either let him “shoot” his load into your mouth (but keep his cock close, ‘cause he might miss your mouth and finish on your face) or you can keep his cock in your warm, wet mouth and let him finish everything there (more on “shooting” later). Since you decided to spit, then keep a glass of water or a napkin nearby, so you can spit out his load. Try to do this discretely – but don’t go away from his cock. Most girls make this “mistake” at the end, it’s not so much of a mistake, but it’s kind of weird to get all that attention and then just stop it like BAM. He cums, and you leave his cock completely… I wouldn’t recommend that, you should do it gradually. So, once he cums in your mouth, put one hand on his shaft – or hold his balls softly in one hand, and while you’re doing this spit out his load from your mouth into a glass or a napkin. 122
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Don’t make nasty faces as if you just ate some rotten apples. If you’re not comfortable with the taste of his sperm (more on that later), then just go through it. You should have a glass of water nearby, and some napkins. Spit the sperm on the napkin, and drink some water, orange juice or whatever to destroy the “awful” taste of sperm out of your mouth. Then – instead of getting up and leaving, hold his cock for a little while, look at it as if you just saw an adorable baby – smile at it, then look at him, ask him did he like it then stroke his cock a few more times, give it one more suck or give it a kiss. That’s when you’re finished…
Option 2 – Swallowing (good girl) As for swallowing, everything’s the same as above – the only difference is, well. Obviously, you don’t spit out his load. There are a bunch of ways you can tease him with this – make sure he can see you, don’t forget that guys are visual, the sexier the stuff you’re doing the better. Some girls just swallow it right away and go trough “end game” as fast as possible to get over the swallowing part – what do you think this conveys to your boyfriend? That you love it? Not really.
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Slow (very good girl) Slow is the way to go… There’s nothing more beautiful in the world than to watch a hot girl enjoy every single drop of your sperm. Do you know when they say that some people don’t know how to eat, because they don’t really enjoy the food, they just stuff it into their mouth to destroy the hunger – that’s the “fast” option, and it’s exactly how it may look sometimes. On the other hand, the “slow” style finish is like French people – they enjoy every second of what they eat, every sip of wine – and every bite of food. If that’s the way you should think of his load – he’ll be more than satisfied. If you don’t have a problem with having sperm in your mouth – then emphasize it, show him that you like having sperm in your mouth more than anything else. He should get the impression that he just gave you the tastiest food on the planet, so laugh once he gives you all that sperm that you love so, so much, smile at him – remember, you are happy, because you just got something you love. Then show it to him, open your mouth and show him what he gave you, leave it on your tongue so he can see it, then close your mouth and swallow all of it (by the way, keep on holding his cock), then, open your mouth again and show him that there’s nothing left. Tell him it tastes good. After that you can drink some water to wash it away so it doesn’t get stuck in your throat. 124
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On your tongue As I said earlier, when ending, his cock can be in your mouth, or outside (shooting) – or, you can place the head of his cock on your tongue. Put your tongue out as far as you can, place the head of his cock on it and then let him shoot everything there – this can be great, it doesn’t feel as nice as when he’s cumming in your mouth – but it’s more appealing visually. Just as before, show him what he gave you, swallow it and act naughty. Moan hard as he’s cumming on your tongue – say “aaaah” “yes, yeesss” and smile.
“Shooting” – In your mouth, when YOU’re holding his cock Some guys can’t shoot, or they think they can’t. Here’s how you do it… Let’s say you want him to shoot his load into your mouth, if he’s not so good at it then hold his cock closer to your mouth and put your tongue out as much as possible. It’s very important that your mouth is open, completely. Open it, and moan, like you want his sperm so bad – believe me, this turns guys on like crazy. When we see that you are hungry for our entire load we go crazy. It’s probably some form of a mating ritual. Anyway, as he starts to cum – pull his cock backwards. Pull the skin of his head back, as if you are stroking him towards his balls – and then hold it there. This way the “tube” in his cock, trough 125
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“Shooting” – In your mouth, when HE is holding his cock This is probably the most dominant way to orgasm. A lot of girls don’t really understand why some guys like to take their cock in their own hands when it comes to the end. The thing is that they have more control over their orgasm in that moment, ‘cause they know how to “squeeze” it out better – since they’ve been masturbating all their life. What’s important is that after he cums in your mouth you take back control and grab his cock to give him a few more licks. One more very important thing – even if you followed all my advice, most guys need to use their own hand to orgasm in the end. So don’t make this make you feel like you didn’t do a good job. How you position yourself can make a big difference here. You can be on your knees, he can stand up, and you should face him directly. The 126
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons important part is how high your head is – the lower, the better. The lower you are, the more dominant he feels. I’m not saying you should be on the floor, I’m just saying that your mouth should be just a bit under his cock and your neck should be tilted backwards (pointing to the ceiling) – this way you are looking up at him and it’s much easier for him to hold your head with one hand (or your hair) and shoot his load into your mouth. Once he does – you can either swallow it or spit it out. Whichever you do, smile and tell him you loved it, then give him a few longer sucks. It’s very important that at the end, you try to squeeze out every single drop of sperm left in his cock, do this with stroking and sucking. Just don’t overdo it, since it can start hurting him. Keep on looking at him with a naughty smile, as if you want more sperm and you didn’t get enough. If you did swallow, then tell something like “Mmmm, I love it when you come in my mouth” and then show him your tongue and lick the head of his cock a few more times.
Facials Facials are – well, something different. You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to, and it’s not as good as cuming in your warm, wet mouth – but visually it can be really nice from time to time. You have to mix it up, sometimes he can end on your face, sometimes in your mouth,
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons By the way, sperm is healthy, it has low calories, it’s full of proteins. Nothing bad in general can happen to you from swallowing his sperm. I don’t know why some girls think they can get pregnant from swallowing sperm – no, you can’t.
Somewhere else on your body If you’ve got bigger breasts then it can also be attractive for him to finish on them. Just push them together, moan and say “Mmmm” as he’s cumming on them. Moaning is really attractive – since it gives him the impression that you love it – and that is what he needs to feel. So use the power of your voice to make him horny as hell.
The Taste of Sperm What he eats is what you will get. Junk food definitely makes his sperm taste bad. The healthier he eats, the better it will taste. Food is strongly connected to the amount of sperm he will have, the strength of his erection and the taste of his sperm – so if you want him to have a REALLY powerful orgasm then make him eat a lot of proteins. Proteins are important for the amount of sperm – if he goes to the gym, he probably has protein shakes, make him drink one about half an hour before you give him a blow job -‐ you’ll see the difference. 129
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Also if he didn’t eat enough that day, you’ll see that he’ll have less energy and less sperm coming out of him – which also means -‐-‐> a weaker orgasm. As for the taste – he should drink a lot of water and eat a lot of fruit. Fruit will make his sperm a bit sweater. The best things are definitely pineapples. But they don’t work for every guy. I eat a bunch of pineapples and girls love swallowing my load, they say it tastes sweet or it doesn’t have a taste at all. But I eat a lot of fruit, and I eat healthily in general. That’s all you girls need to know about “end-‐game”… So if you start by loving it, then finish by loving it. How it ends is your choice, but his satisfaction. Don’t be afraid to experiment till you figure out what he likes…
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Part 12: Problems that may come along, and how to solve them Okay, shit happens. You have to be prepared for that. Not everything can be perfect. If you currently suck at giving head – you’ll have to practice. The more you practice, the better you will get. But don’t be disappointed when you fuck up, or when he’s just not in the “right moment” to relax and enjoy getting head. Sometimes it’s just not your fault – but don’t blame him, or yourself. Blaming won’t bring you anywhere. You just have to except that it can not be perfect every time. So, what kind of things am I talking about? Let’s see…
Erection Problems It may happen that you start sucking his cock, but it just doesn’t want to get up. The worst thing you can do is put pressure on him – I’m talking about mental pressure here. This happens to every guy from time to time, the key is that you get him out of his head, and get him to relax. When guys can’t get their dick up they start thinking about how they can’t get their dick up – and once they start thinking, instead of getting 131
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons out of their head and relaxing – everything goes wrong. What happens then is that a) he feels bad because he thinks he’s not man enough and b) you feel bad, because you think you’re not attractive enough to turn him on. … Both are bullshit. I’m completely sure that a) he’s man enough and b) you’re hot enough. You have to believe in your beauty. Don’t be insecure, that will lead you nowhere. When this happens, you have to get your shit together. First of all, make sure he’s comfortable, get him on a couch, take off all the unnecessary clothes of off him, and give him something to drink, destroy all distractions. Don’t put any pressure on him. ZERO PRESSURE. If it’s cold, turn the heat on, if it’s too hot, open the windows. The point is that you guys can relax. Comfort is key. Destroy all distractions – which also means that you absolutely have to TURN OFF YOUR CELLPHONE. There’s nothing more annoying than a cell phone ringing while you’re having sex, or giving him head. It happened to me a million times, ‘cause I just forget. Well girls… don’t forget it. Turn that damn thing off. Okay, back to his erection. Before you even start sucking on his cock – make sure his cock is hard. A lot of you girls do this: a) get his cock out
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I’m tired, now what? Well, rest. Let’s say you start sucking on his cock hard, and you do everything just as I told you so far, but after 10 minutes, he still didn’t orgasm. Your jaw is tired and you just can’t keep up the tempo anymore… you can start stroking him for a while with one hand, then switch to the other hand until your jaw rests a little bit. It may happen that guys just can’t orgasm because they didn’t eat well, or they’re just not horny enough – or you’re still not that good at giving head (practice makes perfect) – so what will you do? 133
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons … have sex. You can use blow jobs just as a kind of foreplay for good sex, start with a blow jobs, switch to sex after 5 minutes, have some hardcore sex, and then once you see he’s close to orgasm, turn back to giving him a blow job until he cums in your mouth. That’s my personal favorite. The more you give him head, the better you will get, and the longer you’ll be able to blow his cock. If you get tired, just relax and don’t worry about it, he’ll understand. It’s not the end of the world, you’re not gonna die if he doesn’t orgasm. All I can say is that if you do everything I told you so far – there is very little chance that he won’t orgasm. Slim to none. If it does happen, don’t worry about it. Maybe it was the wrong moment… It’s very important that you keep on thinking positive. Don’t give up the moment you get tired, push through it. You have to be persistent. Often times just as you get tired – you give up. Don’t give up, most of the time, just when you’re about to quit – all you need is one more minute or less and he will orgasm. If you get really tired and just can do it anymore, then tell him to hold his cock and masturbate until he cums in your mouth. Then all you have to do is open your mouth and wait for his load – this may last another 134
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons minute or two and it really isn’t hard for you since you don’t have to suck on his cock anymore. Keep on talking dirty and acting horny until the end. And you should be proud of yourself for giving the best you could. Always give the best you could… he’ll love you for it. But of course – there is an advanced way to solve his “I can’t cum” problem – and I’ll tell you exactly how and why it happens – here’s an email I got from a girl that had this “problem” with her boyfriend – she said the her boyfriend can’t orgasm just from getting head – here’s my answer: “If you really want him to cum just from oral sex alone, then you need to intensify everything you're doing. I guess when you're on your period then the only thing you can do is give him bj's -‐ so that's all he's getting. I suggest you increase the teasing, so don't give him head right then, just massage him through his pants, strip for him, and then slowly start sucking on him -‐ you have to be on your knees and he should stand up, that's the best way in my opinion... then just make sure you stroke him really, really hard as you're sucking him and holding his balls at the same time. Talk as dirty/slutty to him as possible and moan a lot. Now an important thing is that you don't mess up where most girls mess up here -‐ after a few minutes of giving him head, you start thinking shit like "why didn't he came yet?" or "why is it taking him that long?" -‐ and maybe you don't realize this, but guys can FEEL it when this thought crosses your mind -‐ and it's crap, because what happens then is he starts feeling something like "Oh, why didn't I cum yet? this is probably making her feel shit, she's probably getting bored or tired, it's too hard 135
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons for her, I don't want her to suffer" -‐ or some shit like that, they don't think these words -‐ they just have that kind of a feeling. Once this feeling get's into his mind -‐ HE CAN'T relax, and he probably won't even cum. So that's crap. All I can say is -‐ DON'T think about anything else when you’re give him head -‐ except how you love it and how you REALLY enjoy it and can't wait to taste his cum. You'll see that it may take only a minute or two longer if you don't think about this. Another thing you can do if you get tired is just tell him to jack off himself, just give him his dick, and you just open your mouth wide, talk dirty and beg him to cum in your mouth, smile and just let him masturbate and cum in your mouth -‐ this is probably the best way he can finish, 'cause he knows his cock best, he knows exactly how to stroke it. Smile a lot and once he put's his load in your mouth, open it, show him what you've got, smile, swallow it and if you really love it you can even say -‐ "thank you mmm it taste so good" -‐ yes, thank him for giving you his sperm, this is something almost NO GIRL DOES -‐ but once you do something like this, you can't imagine how crazy he'll go for your. Blow jobs are a lot more mental than physical.”
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons Just say you’re sorry and keep on sucking on his cock gently. The wetter his cock the smaller the chance is that you’ll accidentally bite him. If it does happen, don’t stress about it too much. If you’re completely new to giving head try focusing on stroking and licking his head… later when you get good at that go on to sucking and going deeper. Just be gentle in the beginning.
Wow! Go take a shower. Me? I am very clean when it comes to my cock. But some guys are just brutally dirty. They wear the same boxers for a weak and they don’t even think of taking a shower. Well… Just be honest with him. Once you get to his cock, and it smells like rotten potatoes – of course you won’t like the smell of it, just tell him that you love sucking CLEAN cocks. Tell him to go and wash it in the sink, or take a shower and that you’ll wait for him. If you are straightforward and honest with him when it comes to blow jobs, he’ll respect you, and next time he’ll take a shower before you come to his place. Guys are just like that; sometimes we don’t think about stuff like that, we forget that you might not like the smell of it. So just be honest. Honesty is key in having a good relationship – at least in my opinion.
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Part 13: Additional Advice
Feedback Always look for feedback. Maintaining eye contact is not just for looking hot… you have to watch his reactions to everything you’re doing. Guys rarely fake enjoying something, so you’ll see on his face when he really likes something. Every guy is a bit different, so you should adjust your technique to suit what he likes better.
Experiment I already told you – don’t be afraid to experiment. Try out new stuff from time to time, even when you already figured out what he loves. Did you ever try putting a cube of ice in your mouth while giving him head? I love that. Or even better – strawberries. You get some nice, tasty strawberries and put it on the head of his cock, and then you open your mouth wide and eat it. Then you give him a few sucks, and after that put another sweet strawberry on the head of his cock. This can be great for both you and him, first of all it tastes good – and second it’s fun. 138
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons If you really want to get into this guy’s head – you need to be the best. And you need to be unique. I don’t know what you think of threesomes, but I had a few of them, and there’s nothing more attractive for a guys than two girls fighting over his cock and sucking it like there’s no tomorrow – especially if they cumswap. I won’t be getting into talking about threesomes a lot; you just have to combine your skills. While one of you girls is licking his balls, the other one should be sucking on the head of his cock. You have to combine everything in a smart way, and work together. Team work is key. If you both agree that your mission is to give him the best head ever, you can do it. Just a few months ago my new girlfriend prepared a birthday present for me – a blowjob, from her and her best friend. I doubt there’s a better birthday present than that. But I guess most of you girls don’t want to share, which is perfectly okay. These are just some additional ideas I have for you.
Working out I’m lean; I’ve got a six pack, big arms, big chest, strong legs. To be honest, most girls consider me to be good looking. The thing they don’t know is that I’ve worked on my body really hard to look like this. I’ve been going to the gym for years, I eat healthily and I take care of my body. In return – my sex life is much better, I have more energy, stronger and longer erections and I feel much, much better in my own 139
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons body – which is incredibly important for good sex. When you work out, you can feel your body – you are more in tune with your senses – which means that when you are getting head, it can feel much better. And this is not a joke… that’s why I’m telling you that you should get your man into the gym, or at least make him exercise at home, and eat more healthily. I guarantee you will both enjoy sex and blow jobs a lot more. About your looks… I’ll be honest with you. How you look is important, pretty important for guys. So if you want to get ahead of the competition – work out. I’m not telling you that you should go crazy… it’s not THAT important, but it counts. So if you’ve got some extra junk in your trunk – go to the gym, eat healthy food and you will feel much better about yourself. It’s interesting that women can gain weight a lot easier, but you’ll be fascinated by the results you can achieve from exercising just 2 times a week. You can gain faster, but you can also lose faster and shape your body much faster. You probably heard the old Latin proverb “In a healthy body lies a healthy soul”. Oh, and forget about quick fixes – there are no magic pills. People will try to sell you all kinds of bullshit. “lose 50lbs in a week with 5 minutes of work a day” or “eat as much as you want, just drink this pill and in just a few weeks look like a top model” – forget all about that. There is no magic pill. Looking good is hard work – you have to eat 140
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Part 14: Sexually Transmitted Diseases It’s really hard to get STD’s from giving someone a blow job. I literally got more than a thousand blow jobs, from hundreds of different girls – and I never ever got anything from it. Maybe I was lucky, but who knows. There is ALWAYS a risk. You can choose to protect yourself and use condoms for giving a blow job – but to be honest, that doesn’t feel near as good as the real thing. I tried it a few times, and I didn’t like it. Theoretically speaking it is possible to get some STD’s if your partner has cuts on his penis. So before you start sucking his cock see if he has some scratches on it – only if he is cut somewhere there is some chance that you might get something – if he is infected. But the chances are almost slim to none. Of course there is always a small risk. The only thing I can tell you is: a) Know who you’re dealing with b) Make sure he’s clean, or make him to go test himself on STD’s c) And don’t swallow his load if you’re not sure that he’s clean Here are a few good resources on STD’s you should check out. -‐ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease 142
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15: Powerful Bonus Tips This chapter is kind of a special bonus with some very powerful tips. This stuff wasn’t in the first version of the book, but came as a collection of smaller ideas later on. These tips are not in any particular section or order, so now that you are armed with this knowledge – it will be easy for you to find a suitable place for the following tips.
Doggy Style End-Game Position We’ve been talking about different positions you can get into while giving head, of course, it can be interesting if you mix up a few of them during one blow job, but what we didn’t talk about is the position you take up as you’re expecting his load. It’s basically a field of completely new possibilities. Most of the time, when women get into a position just before I orgasm, it’s usually me standing up, and they kneeling in front of me – which is nice of course, but it may become “typical” over time. So, recently a new girlfriend of mine, did this thing that brutally turned me one. She started by giving me some sweet head, then we had very nice, tense sex for some time, we both really enjoyed it – and then, once I got closer to orgasm, she just got off me, and positioned herself on the floor in this really sexy position I’ve never experienced before during “end game”. She basically got into a typical “doggy style” position, on her knees, hands in the front, she pushed her ass back a bit, and curled her back a bit – so her back was in like a half-‐circle curve, her head straight up, looking at me with a smile, waiting for my load. She just let me jack off in front of her, but it was so sexy to watch her waiting happily and excited in that position, since I could see her entire 144
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Additional Dirty Talking Tips I don’t know if I’ve mentioned these lines before, but I recently heard them and figured “Hey, hearing her say this made me go crazy” – so why not share them. It’s really interesting how some guys respond to these “trigger” words. Of course, watch it with the dirty talk, it may be annoying sometimes if you don’t know how to play it of to be genuine, and so it goes with your personality – AND his mood at the moment. For example, if the guy is really aroused and in a more dominant mind frame (you can usually see when he chooses more dominant positions in sex, doggy style etc. wherever he has more control and he is “fucking you”/actively in the moment). Once he’s in that frame of mind – he doesn’t want to hear you say “fuck me harder” in an aggressive/dominant tone. That will only annoy him, on the other hand, if you said something more submissive in these moments like, for example “Mmm, I love it when you fuck me that hard, baby, I’m yours, I’m all yours, do whatever you want with me... destroy my pussyyy” (actually heard that exact sentence), that’s going to blow him away even further. So as a general guideline – when having sex, look for feedback and adjust your dirty talking to the current moment/vibe. On the other hand, while giving head, you basically have more freedom. A thing I really liked is when I heard a girl say in a naughty voice, just as we started making out, she just grabbed my cock through my jeans and said “Mm, give me my dick”. Demanding – but definitely seductive. Try it.
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Slow Motion Technique I forgot to put an emphasis on this technique earlier in the techniques chapter. This one really popped into my head a few days ago – slow motion. You know, sometimes you may just get into this flow of just pumping through it, sucking, stroking, doing it faster, more aggressively, with a stronger grip – that’s great. But sometimes the vibe just isn’t set up for that. There are situations when guys truly enjoy the slow and sensual blow jobs a lot more – it’s usually best after a glass (or two) of red wine, later in the night. After a nice evening together, put on the lights, play some nice jazz in the background (or whatever you listen to) and give him a slow, passionate blow job. This is better if you’re in a longer relationship with the guy, and you’re already more “in love”. Then it’s more genuine, you can then basically make sweet love to his cock with passion, enjoying every second of it and taking your time. It’s also nice if you can just combine a slower and a faster pace. It is kind of about hitting the right timing – so, since you are creating a show, you need to capture all his senses, an interesting thing to do is, for example, to give him a faster blow job, and then use this slow motion technique to a) rest a little bit before the grand finale and b) to create a better show. It’s like a visual effect – you are SLOWLY licking his shaft from bottom to the top, looking at him without braking eye contact, smiling, slowly, going up – right to the top (this takes like 5-‐6 seconds of slow motion) and then bam!, back on track full speed ahead. Try it out – you’ll see it works like a charm, it’s a nice visual effect.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons view this as something bad, or your inability to satisfy him till the end – it’s just like that with most guys and there are situations when even if you apply everything I told you here – he’ll still need to finish it off himself (by jerking off a bit). So, instead of just kneeling there, waiting for his load (of course, don’t just wait there, talk dirty, look at him, be naughty, smile etc.) – so another thing you can add is to get a bit lower. How? Well, lets say you are kneeling in front of him and he is standing (my favorite way to orgasm), now go down a bit lower to his balls, and just gently put two fingers on the base of his shaft, and then gently start licking his balls... as he is jerking off fast and faster, speed up your tongue, lick in circles, up and down, moan loud – or even shout at him “Give it to me!” (this can sometimes be a major turn on), you can even suck on his balls (just don’t take in the whole thing, ‘cause one wrong move can mess up all your previous effort). That’s basically it. You’ll see this will work like a charm. Now, it may look like it’s most convenient if he cums on your face or body, but actually it can be intoxicating to orgasm into your warm mouth after a minute (or less) of jerking off – and being “shelterless”. You just need to get the timing right. So, as you are licking/sucking his balls – you need to feel when he’s exactly one second away from exploding – jump right up and take it into your mouth – moan just as hard as he dose and look deep into his eyes. (MOANING LOAD as he is cuming in your mouth is GOLDEN because of these little vibrations your voice creates.) You’ll see. It works like magic.
The Best for Last – Welcome Home Baby I really wanted to keep the most powerful stuff for the end. Throughout the entire book I’ve been telling you girls how important attitude is, and I believe it really got into your head until you got to these last few 147
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons naughty way. I’m already getting hard, but I still have this feeling of “what’s she doing, I just got in the house”. This is all happening very fast by the way, like 30 seconds after I unlocked the door. I’m standing in the middle of the living room, she pushes me down on the couch – and next to the couch? Yep, my favorite drink. She fixed a cocktail for me (Caribu Lu – I’m not sure if that’s how it’s written). She literally tears my pants off and jumps at my cock – sucking at full speed. She is LOVING every second of it – as if it was a matter of life and death, she wanted every single drop of cum in my balls. And after such a long day, I’m looking at her beautiful face, drinking my favorite cocktail, smelling her adoring perfume, the candles, the nice music in the background, such a nice and warm feeling (something I never knew how to create when I lived alone). I was close to orgasm. She was sucking, and sucking and sucking with such passion and love, when she sensed I was close she told me to stand up. I got up. She became more aggressive, sucking it like there is no tomorrow, with all the love and passion in her eyes, looking right at me. “Give it all to me, here” (when I saw that tongue – I just started shooting, and shooting, and shooting). It was a blowjob masterpiece. Better than ever before, right when I needed it. And here comes the most golden thing – ever! I got everything out of myself, and then there is this moment of silence – a kind of disbelief how powerful it was. She swallows everything – never breaking eye contact, and then she said, with a beautiful smile on her face: “Welcome Home Baby”. There’s no place like home :). Can you imagine what happens in situations like this one? The word “Home” becomes like an anchor for “INCREDIBLE PLEASURE”. Of course, she doesn’t have to give it to me 149
Jack’s Blowjob Lessons when she doesn’t want to, nor was I ever forcing her. But from that moment on, whenever someone said “home” – I just had this unconscious flash in my head. I’m telling you girls – all you girls that are married or live together with a guy – this is “the shit”. It’s just brutally powerful. So right as he’s coming in, you blow him away – (but don’t SAY anything in between, just do it without a word – no “how was your day?” etc.). He comes in, you blow his mind – and then the punch line “Welcome Home Baby”. I got hard writing this, just remembering this got me rock hard. Try this girls, you have to try this. It’s insane.
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Part 16: Putting it all together Now that you’ve got so much information on giving head, the question is what to do with it. You won’t be able to use everything I told you right away. So try it all out over time, see what you and your man like and don’t be afraid to mess up a few times. The more you practice, the better you will get. If you never gave head before, just relax and practice. You need to blow him 5-‐10 times to be okay – but giving amazing head can take pretty long to master. Some girls have more talent and will naturally do it better, that’s because they’re more in tune with their body and they can feel their partner. That’s why it’s important that you communicate with him, and try to “feel” him on a deeper level. I’ll give you the top 10 most important things you should always remember when giving head -‐-‐> 1. Love it, love it and love it. Always give the best you can, like there’s no tomorrow. 2. Set up a good atmosphere, and make sure he can relax. 3. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different techniques and positions, and be confident – so hold his cock tighter.
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons 4. Act like a slut, and talk dirty to him. That’s the best way to turn him on. 5. Look for feedback and see how he reacts, that’s why it’s important to maintain eye-‐contact. 6. Make sure you drink some water before giving him head, the wetter the better. 7. Work out, and tell him to go to the gym, the better you guys feel in your own body, the more you’ll enjoy sex. 8. Be honest with him. 9. Swallow, and after you swallow, don’t just get up and leave, give him a few more sucks and try to squeeze out every last drop out of him. 10.
Don’t forget that a winner attitude is THE MOST important part of giving amazing head.
If you really master giving blow jobs, all doors will be open for you. I can’t even explain to you how many girls suck at giving head – just by being better than them, you are in a major advantage. Sex is important, and sex without blow jobs is like driving a car that has really small space for gas. It gets boring to go to the gas station every five minutes – so sooner or later, that guy will want to buy a new car – a car that has A LOT of gas space. Funny example, but that’s how it is. I never cheated on girls that gave amazing head – because all my needs were satisfied – so I didn’t even think about cheating. I broke up with them for different
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Jack’s Blowjob Lessons reasons, and it was always hard for me to leave those girls – because a good blow job is hard to find. Once you apply the stuff I’ve talked about in the book, I’m pretty sure you’ll have more success with men, a better and more fulfilling sex life, and relationship. Women will envy you, men will adore you. You’ll be “the one”. This stuff is so powerful it can get him to purpose to you! :) Seriously. Blow jobs are the best tool for manipulation you can have. So have fun with it. I hope you learned a lot from my book, feel free to contact me at [email protected] or [email protected] if you have any questions, ideas, feedback or anything else. I don’t know if I can answer all of them immediately, but I’ll give my best to answer you as soon as possible. Make sure you read the FAQ, ‘cause maybe I’ve already answered a question just like yours. The FAQ is really full of a lot of more useful information so make sure you check it out. Thanks for reading and have fun girls J… the more of you out there that know how give amazing head – the happier I will be :) I wish you all the best and don’t forget to -‐> Suck with passion. Scroll down to the next page.
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THIS IS NOT THE END. IT IS JUST A NEW BEGINNING. Got more questions? Feel free to send me an email at [email protected] -‐ this is a VIP readers only email address -‐ so don’t share it with your girlfriends. If you liked the book and FAQ -‐ tell me about it. I’m writing a new book about sex, anal, talking dirty and other kinky shit. What do you want to learn about? Spread the word about my book and let’s make the World a better place together ;) You are all beautiful and I love you all. Your men are LUCKY to be with you. I know that. Because you are giving your best to become better. And that’s THE BEST kind of woman in the World. Every day is a new opportunity to create a better life for yourself. Focus on the good, fight the bad and look your fears into the eye. And even tough I was writing about sex all the time here -‐ there are MORE important things. Personality. If you have that AND you can blow like a Pro, you’ve got it all ;P Gotta go. Your blowjob instructor, Jack 154