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Personal History of Violence in America
Geoffrey Canada
Beacon Press Boston
Beacon Press 25 Beacon Street Boston, Massachusetts 02108-2892
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1995 by Geoffrey Canada All rights reserved
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Canada, Geoffrey. Fist stick knife gun: a personal history of violence in
America / Geoffrey Canada. p.
cm.
ISBN 0-8070-0422-7 (cloth) ISBN 0-8070-0423-5 (paper) 1. Children and violence children— New York (N.Y.) .
— New York (N.Y.) 3.
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2.
Violence in
Children— New York (N.Y.)— Social
conditions.
I.
HQ784.V55C36 305.23'09747'1— dc20
Title.
1995 94-41357
This book
IS
dedicated to
my mother
Mary Canada and to have
other
had to do
women who
it
on their own.
Contents
Preface
Part
I:
Codes
ix
of
Conduct 3
Chapter One Chapter Two
9
Chapter Three
13
Chapter Four
23
Chapter Five
29
Chapter Six
35
Chapter Seven
45
Chapter Eight
51
Chapter Nine
57
Part II:
A
Matter of Time
Chapter Ten
67
Chapte Eleven
77
Contents
Chapter
Preface
It
was
saw
a bad
summer, the summer
a sixteen-year-old
of
1993
New York City.
in
Late August
mother accidently shot by a thirteen-year-old
boy.
He was trying to shoot a sixteen-year-old boy. The young mother was trying to save her baby, who was playing a few yards away. She was climbing a small fence that surrounded the playground. killing
her
instantly, leaving
The
bullet entered her head,
her draped on the fence. Several days later
the police arrested two other boys, both teenagers, killing a thirteen-year-old girl.
The
was raped,
girl
a knife, then as she lay half dead and moaning,
who were accused
of
cut several times with
one boy stomped on her
neck, over and over. She was placed in a large box, carried to an aban-
doned girl's
came
lot,
and hours
later
one boy came back to set the box on
body, burned beyond recognition,
fire.
The
was discovered by firefighters who
to put out the fire.
Then, on August 29,
a ten-year-old
when he broke away and ran They managed to shoot him in his thigh, also managed to shoot
man, their intended victim, for his
life.
boy was shot. Two men had another
in hand,
guns
out,
Preface
The
ten-year-old Luis Rivera in the head.
was
in
very
last
the papers reported, Luis
critical condition.
The summer is the worst time for the children I know. More of them are outside.
Too hot and too boring
teenagers. Life
lived
is
and
lost
to be inside.
There are few jobs
for the
on the streets. By the time they shot
little
Luis in the head in August, sixty other innocent bystanders under sixteen
had been shot that year is
New York
in
many
getting worse. Too
There would be more.
City.
guns, too
much
It
really
crack, too few jobs, so
little
hope.
America has long had a tory,
we
teach
to
it
all
love affair with violence
of our young.
The
and guns.
It's
our his-
Revolution, the "taming of the
West," the Civil War, the world wars, and on and on. Guns, justice, righteousness, freedom, liberty teach about non-violence, King,
Jr., killed
by the
we
the rhetoric what
—
tied to violence.
all
we have
to use the
violent. I'm sorry,
Even when we
America, but once you get past
really learn is that
might does make
people have just never had any might. But they want
want
try to
Reverend Dr. Martin Luther
it.
right.
Poor
Oh, how they
it.
It is
because most people
in this
country don't have to think about their
personal safety every day that our society lence that
is
is still
engulfing our cities and towns.
complacent about the vio-
What
if I
were
to tell
you that
we are approaching one of the most dangerous periods in our history since the Civil War? Rising unemployment, shifting economic priorities, hun-
dreds of thousands of people growing up poor and with no chance of employment, never having held a legal job. useful role in America
A new generation, tions of war.
War
A whole generation who serve no
now and see no hope of a future role for themselves.
the handgun generation. Growing up under the condi-
as a child,
war as an adolescent, war as an
adult.
War
never ending.
Not like Vietnam, where Americans,
war today vive.
is
Day by
home. There day,
is
if
they survived,
came home. The
not even the hope of getting out. You just sur-
hour by hour. Year after year after year.
For the handgun generation there is no post-traumatic stress sjTidrome
because there to people
is
no "post."
who never
We need a new term to describe what happens
get out from under war conditions,
ing traumatic stress syndrome."
I
maybe
"continu-
used to read that the thing that made the
Preface
Vietnamese such decades.
up
I
don't
fierce fighters
was
that they
had been fighting for many
know if this is true or not, but I've watched children grow and now they're young adults. The next generation
fighting with guns,
might be called the Uzi generation because
of their
weapons. These children, armed better than the
penchant for automatic
police, are
growing up as
violent if not more so than the handgun generation. And the gun manufacturers in their greed continue to pump more and more guns into our al-
ready saturated ghettos.
Some may
think that this violence
ways been around, is
that
it's
not. Violence has al-
amongst the poor. The difference
we never had so many guns in our inner cities. The nature of the vio-
lent act has I
new, but
is
usually concentrated
changed from the fist,
remember.
stick,
and knife to the gun. But violence,
Parti
Codes
of
Conduct
One
I
was probably four when
in the
I
first
became aware
Bronx on Cauldwell Avenue.
a small apartment.
early part of
my
My
life
father lived there for
was not
but he
of violence.
a strong
mother and he were already breaking
some
memories well.
of
my
up. His drinking
He was just
not
much
our survival depended on Later the
He was
of a father.
my
Even
father and
but
I
my
life
are cloudy today, and
as a very young child
would have
mother separated sometime
him every now and
then.
He was
in
me
I
knew
at the time.
a profound impact
that year.
lost to alcohol
Harlem.
in-
not a bad man; he treated us
was four and the world seemed
superintendent of a building
My
was becoming
on
fine.
He
boys, no child support, no nothing. For the next fifteen years visit
in
he seemed incapable of
mother. This didn't bother
fragility of our ability to survive
my brothers and me,
My
this part of
father are neutral.
I
small portion of that
presence in our family.
tolerable, his financial support sporadic at best, as
keeping a job. The images from
We were living
My mother, my three brothers, and
left us,
four
we would go
and took on the job of
He later remarried. We barely no-
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When we
ticed his leaving. like after a
visited
we mostly went
to see
what he looked
few years. Whatever pressure and stress his leaving put on my
mother, having to raise four boys alone, she didn't show to us. everything was
fine.
But we were young,
still
We thought
living in a childhood period
of innocence.
Down the
block from us
was
a playground.
have to cross a street to get there. brother, Daniel,
was
six,
It
We were
next came John,
brother Reuben was two. Reuben and
I
was nearby and we close in age.
My
didn't
oldest
who was five, I was four, and my were unable
to
go to the play-
ground by ourselves because we were too young. But from time to time
my two oldest brothers would go there together and play. remember them coming
I
inside
one afternoon having just come back
from the playground. There was great excitement noticed right
My brother John responded, Well,
we
in the air.
My mother
away and asked, "Where's John's jacket?"
all
figured that
"This boy
was the end
.
.
.
this
of that.
boy he took my jacket."
My mother would have to
go and get the jacket back. But the questioning continued. "What do you
mean, he took your jacket?" "I
was playing on the
sliding
board and
the bench, and this boy he tried to take
it.
I
took
And
I
my jacket off and left it on said it was my jacket, and
And he took it. And I tried to take it back, and he pushed me and said he was gonna beat me up." To my mind John's explanation was clear and convincing, this case was closed. I was stunned when my mother turned to my oldest brother, Danhe said he was gonna take
iel,
and
said,
it.
"And what did you do when
this
boy was taking your
brother's jacket?"
Daniel looked shocked.
ognized the edge
in
thing and none of us
Daniel answered, off. I
What did he have to do with this? And we all rec-
my mother's voice.
Daniel was being accused of some-
knew what it was. "I didn't
do nuthin'.
I
told Johnny not to take his jacket
told him."
My mother exploded.
"You let somebody take your brother's jacket and
you did nothing? That's your younger brother. You can't let people just take your things. You know not ever do this again.
I
don't have
Now
money
for another jacket.
You better
you go back there and get your brother's
jacket."
4
Chapter One
My mouth was hanging open. talking about, go back and get
was gonna beat up John,
the boy
wrestled
us
I
it?
all
it. What was my mother Dan and Johnny were the same size. If
couldn't believe
knew how
to fight.
We
were
made no sense
all
equally incompetent
me.
fighting.
So
her eye
would have protested. Even
fair.
I
But
it
also
I
he certainly could beat up Dan.
well,
knew
to
that look in
my
If
mother's eye.
came
it
to
that look in
knew
this wasn't
A look that
signified a
at four years old
My brother Dan was in shock. He felt the "Ma,
can't beat that boy.
I
My mother
I
It's
not
same way
my jacket.
I
He
did.
can't get
I
tried to
it. I
can't."
gave him her ultimatum. "You go out there and get your
brother's jacket or will
when
my mother hadn't had
be crossed.
line not to
protest.
We
the time and occasionally hit one another in anger, but none of
when you
get back I'm going to give you a beating that
be ten times as bad as what that
little
do to you. And John,
thief could
you go with him. Both of you better bring that jacket back here."
The tears began to flow. Both John and Dan were crying. dered them out. Dan had
this look
on
his face that
I
stern determination showed through the tears. For the
want I
go with
to
My
strolled into the apartment.
mother gathered us
gether. That
had done
in
knew
we
didn't
my surprise, John and Dan triwe had
to stick to-
together and told us
all
we were
afraid.
making Dan go out and get the jacket was I
Dan and John
Dan was scared when he
knew I could never have to
I
in his hand.
couldn't let people think
that in not going with
portant.
time
Dan had John's jacket
she would not tolerate our becoming victims. I
first
A
my brothers to the park.
waited a long ten minutes and then, to
umphantly
My mother or-
had seen before.
left
That what she
know
that
listened unconvinced.
But
I'd
to let us
missed something im-
We were all scared. I How did Dan do it? I wanted
the house.
faced up to that boy.
know everything. "What happened?
How did you do it? Did you have to fight? Did you beat when he went back to the playground wearing John's jaket. He went up to him and
him up?" I asked. Dan explained the boy
was
still
there,
demanded the jacket. The boy to take
it
from fear vailed.
that
said no.
Dan was him. A moment of
Dan grabbed
the jacket and began
crying, but the boy
knew
was not
off the boy.
still
of
resistance, but Dan's determination pre-
The boy grew scared and Dan wrestled
it
the jacket free.
He even
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managed boy
a threatening "You better never bother
Dan's description of the confrontation
was get
trying to understand it
later,
why
didn't fight?
to
of
my brother again" as the
fled.
didn't
why Dan was
he take
What scared him
left
Even
off?
with more questions.
able to get the jacket.
back the
it
me
first
at four
time?
If
he could
How come
years old
I
I
the boy
knew I needed
know these things. I needed some clues on which I could build a theory how to act. Dan's story couldn't help me much. It took many years of
playing and hanging on the streets of the South Bronx before
together the pieces of the theory. jarkpf ppisnrip
The
only real lesson
was if 5;nnipr»np tai^^^c gprngth ing fro m you,
otherwise vou might he
I
began to put
learned from the
I
tell
your mother
d anger of getting your face puncKeJ^ in by some boy o p the streets of New York Cit\^_Thiswas a valuable bit of vo u lost
it.
in
understanding for a four-year-old jjUhe, Bronx.
Thave remembered sional career.
olently
I
this incident often
over the course of
my
heranse their paren ts
similar to those
my mother gave my brother:
fight
back or six
I
will
beat you
and seven would
bring weapons to school, or pick up bottles, bricks, or whatever
When asked about
ents told
The
vi-
told the iTvto. Parents often give instructions
when you get home. Many times children as young as hand.
profes-
have counseled so many children who've said they acted
was
at
their violent behavior they'd often say their par-
them to "get something and bash
his
head
children were telling the truth. In the
in."
more than twenty years
I
have spent counseling, teaching, and running programs for poor, innercity children,
I
have seen a steady stream of parents
The
children these instructions.
who have given their women raising
parents, inevitably single
children in the midst of an urban
war zone, come with
similar stories of
children being victimized again and again. Institutions doing nothing to
protect the child.
The child coming home scared,
for protection that they could not provide.
had no alternative. Accept
it,
scarred, looking to
The parents
feeling as
this is a violent world, so teach
them
if
they
them to cope
by acting more violently than the others. I
tried to help these parents
desperation. ton.
My
was
four.
They
felt like I
daughter, Melina, I
because
had once
was
sbc
I
understood their anger, their
felt. It
and
was 1976, the
in the first grade;
city
my
was Bos-
son, Jerry,
remember the shock and horror of my daughter getting off the
chapter One
bus (Boston was under court order to desegregate
its
schools and most
were bussed) coming home from school crying
children
Another little
in fear
and pain.
on the bus had started bullying her and had ended up rak-
girl
ing her face with her fingernails, leaving a set of four bloody trails
Melina's face.
I
was
livid.
little girl
had long
My daughter knew nothing about fighting.
Her
Her sense of safety destroyed. She reported that
beautiful face disfigured.
the
down
me
and she showed
nails just for fighting,
her
own
short nails as evidence of her defenselessness. I
did
what every good parent would do.
company and demanded the other
girl's
They couldn't do
that;
on the bus; they
called the school
We met and
a meeting.
showed
parents; no one
I
up.
I
talked.
have the money.
I
wanted
I
wanted the
she was only seven herself.
didn't
I
and the bus
girl
to
meet
suspended.
wanted extra security
wanted some assurance
my
daughter would not be attacked again; they would do their best. They did everything except give
me
what
how precious my daughter was sary to protect her. That fear and pain. That
I
I
to
wanted, a clear sense that they knew
me. That
I
would
fight
and die
if
neces-
couldn't look into her eyes again and see such
was a crazy man ready to do something desperate and
I
they needed to take that seriously.
But she wasn't
their daughter,
and most of the people I was talking with
felt
things like that happened every day in the Boston public schools. So
did
what so many parents do across
this violent nation.
I
sat
I
my daughter
down and told her she was never again to let any boy or girl attack her without fighting back. hitting
ter to
I
my children that fighting was wrong, that my mother before me didn't want my daugh-
had taught
was wrong. But
like
I
be a victim. Under different circumstances I might have been able to
put Melina in a safer, private school, but
I
was one year out
of graduate
school, with no money, teaching for a living.
my
Unlike
mother,
I
knew how
to fight.
I
able to be very specific about what to do and fini shed
when
to
do
violence. it.
I
was
My daughter
her school years with no love for violence, b ut she never again he-
carne a victim
When bottle, or ter.
knew about
I
sit
.
:
vr
.
j ci^
now with mothers whose
brought a knife to school,
I
children have hit
someone with
a
remember how I felt about my daughthink, who understand how
There are few people, these parents
scared they are for their children, not just about the incident that has
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brought them to me, but every day, child as a
scratch and bite,
all
the time.
Many
of
them see
their
They know that the cubs will eventually even kill the fawn. They feel their job is to turn
fawn penned
in
amongst
lion cubs.
their child into a lion cub, to help that child learn to scratch and bite back.
My
when John had his jacket made the decision that for her eldest sons the time of innocence had ended. It was time to learn about the laws of the jungle. As for me, I mother looked
at
her four boys that day
taken and
had heard about the
lion
cubs outside, but
and so I had never run into them.
was
quickly running out.
I
didn't
I
was not allowed out by myself
know it,
but my time of innocence
Two
I tell
people that
we were
the poorest welfare cheats that there ever was.
my mother working for slave wages (that's all they paid even the most competent black women in 1958) she could barely keep a roof over our heads. We moved several times when was still I was small. When I was six, we moved further up in the Bronx. kept under my mother's watchful eye most of the time, but occasionally I
A mother and four boys,
and with welfare and
I
was allowed I
to
go to the store.
remember one day asking my mother if I could go over and over again. I was given a dollar and sent one block away to the
Finally she relented and local
A&P
supermarket
for a
who
can of pork and beans. The boy
ap-
me as I paid for my purchase was maybe eight and seemed very interested in being my friend. He was a raggedy little boy with a circle on proached
his
head where no hair grew because of ringworm. He asked
walk back together.
no friends, and now around
me
I
was I
thrilled.
if
Since moving onto this block
couldn't believe
my
we I
good fortune. He put
and said we were going to be best friends.
He
could
had met his
arm
suggested we
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take a shortcut, which
He was my
argue.
quickly recognized as a longer route, but
I
apartment building, and money," was
he
all
There was an
friend. it
said.
was there
was
I
that
The
threat
didn't
my me your
he turned on me. "Give
in shock.
I
back of
alley leading to the
was more implied
than stated.
The money was
in
my
began to take the money.
came
some change
hand,
My new friend was
move.
couldn't
watched him as
I
me. Hit him with the can
to
know what was
in there. If
and hurt to do anything looked at him.
He was
hit
I
for a
of
He
not knowing what to do.
Why did
My
in the receipt.
a movie.
I
The thought
He
pork and beans in the bag.
my
on prying
didn't
I
was so
close to
home.
I
fingers loose; he wasn't even
my mind
screamed. But
couldn't.
I
I
money and just walked away. I watched him, mind was reeling. What had just happened?
me? Why
the boy pick
was
second or two, and
intent
took the
if it
up
He grabbed my hand and
him on the head he would be too shocked
looking at me. "Hit him, hit him!" couldn't hit him.
balled
robbing me.
couldn't
I
bring myself to hit him, to fight
back?
When
I
went back upstairs
cents he took from
me was
wanted
back.
to go get
it
On
retrieve our money.
If
I
didn't
not a I
told
know what amount
trivial
my mother,
the other hand,
I
of
she might
this
me
out with
my
to
brothers to find the boy.
I
sixty-one
our family.
come with me
remembered what
from the incident with Dan and John and the coat. send
The
to do.
money
I'd
learned
My mother might just
was
quite convinced that
boy was different from the boy that took John's coat. He would
He would In the
back.
end
told
I
for the
probably beat up I
knew
that
it
all
I
to
fight.
of us.
was too much money
for us not to try to get
it
my mother what had happened. My mother and I went looking
boy with the spot on his head, the ringworm. But he was long gone.
my mother warned me again about strangers. I exboy pretended to be my friend. She explained that he was just "getting my guard down" and that had to keep my guard up all the Later, at
home,
plained that this
little
I
time.
I
trusted
told her that
me
to
I
understood.
was
really
concerned because she had
go to the store, and losing the money might mean
go out by myself anymore. So
me
I
I
another dollar to go back to the store to get some
how much my
I
couldn't
was completely surprised when she gave
self-confidence had
rice.
She could
been shaken by being robbed.
10
No
tell
time
Chapter Two to
"mope around the house" over one
she figured.
when I was
I
was so happy.
a block
All
He became
on the horse,
ringworm
He was summer I looked for the boy with ringworm. In my
mind he became the epitome side.
my building.
away from
nowhere to be seen.
incident, get right back
started looking for the boy with
I
a monster.
I
I
looked
at
every boy.
of danger, of the "bad boys" that
were out-
had fantasies of smashing him with a can of
pork and beans and watching him run home crying.
From time
my mother took us
to time
to visit with her friends.
so few people in this part of the Bronx that
my mother
We knew
worried about us
meeting other children. This one evening we were standing together waiting to be introduced to one of
my mother's girlfriends
row, each sticking out his hand and saying hello
The boy with ally,
the ringworm. Well, the ringworm
but you could
still
— the four
— when
in
of us in a
he marched.
was mostly gone,
actu-
see the spot where the hair hadn't caught up with
the rest of the hair on his head.
I
looked at him, thinking this would be the
moment of truth. His head was down and he seemed as shy as the rest of nothing. He didn't recus. He met Dan, then John. Then my turn, and .
ognize me. Looked
me
The evening was I
pulled
in the eye, said, "Hi,"
a quiet one.
.
.
and that was
it.
My mother was off talking to her friend.
my brothers aside and told them he was the ringworm boy who had
robbed me. The boy seemed really eager to make friends, and he tried to
He was no monster. I felt embarso. He was no bigger than my brothers and seemed nervous around them. After we left I told my mother about the boy. She later told her girlfriend, who ashamedly returned the sixty-one cents. I walked to the store the rest of that summer unafraid. I break through our icy response to him. rassed that
thought
I
I
had ever
let
had worked out
him scare me
all
of the violence and fear issues in
11
my life.
Th ree
In the
summer
were lucky
of
1959 we moved again.
to find the apartment at
apartment building we'd lived block. Children street, sitting
in that
had a
second grade.
lot of
It
was the
We first
children living on the
lives.
to
me. Two bedrooms,
The two bedrooms faced the
street and
windows and see everything
that
what a ghetto was then. Later I would learn thought
in the
were everywhere, playing on the sidewalks, playing in the
The apartment seemed huge third floor
was
on cars. Everyone seemed to be laughing and running and
having the time of their
a kitchen.
I
1165 Union Avenue.
we had just moved
we
could look out of our
was going
that
a living room, and
on.
we lived
I
didn't
know
in "the slums";
I
to paradise.
Paradise didn't last long.
The day
after our arrival
my mother sent my
brother Daniel to the store with ten dollars. Ten dollars was a great deal of
money to us, probably one fifth of what we had to live on for the week. Dan, came back solemn and scared, and announced he'd been One of the older boys, a teenager, had probably seen Dan receive
only nine,
robbed.
Codes of Conduct
him
the change in the store and had followed
into our building
and taken
the money.
We
called the police.
their time
We
couldn't afford to lose ten dollars.
coming and I'm sure were quite amused
They took
at this naive family,
so
serious about catching a petty thief in the South Bronx. This contact with
the police shook
wrong here.
It
my
confidence in the world. Something was terribly
was nothing they did,
take us seriously.
was what they didn't do. They didn't
it
They came because they had
tions not because they thought the
to
come. They asked ques-
answers might help catch the
because they had to do something when we were so
insistent.
I
thief,
but
looked at
the two white officers and realized that while their mouths were saying
one thing, their manner and attitude were saying something else.
made us walk up all these
believe you lars.
stairs for a lousy
robbery of ten
What's the matter with you people, don't you know where you
Don't waste our time with this small-time crap. We'll
have
to,
The
but
we
lesson
don't have to do anything. You're
was straightforward and
clear.
I
would
trapped in the ghettos of this country,
answer when trouble comes
We
never found the boy
out the
seemed
if
who robbed
I
was seven, and
I
We
nothing was wrong.
to care.
police didn't care. This
grew
older. It
again. Like
would be
many others
had learned that police are not the
That afternoon when
us.
I
looked
couldn't believe that everyone
was
had just been robbed and no one
expected that everything would come
I
to a standstill because of our personal loss. all
come because we
to your door.
window onto Union Avenue
playing as
I
I
them
call
dol-
live?
on your own.
The
lesson would be reinforced again and again as
more than twenty years before
to
We can't
I
wanted
to yell out the
window
the people on the block, "Hey, watch out! There's a robber of children
out there.
Someone
Be is
careful,
it's
not safe. Boys and
robbing the children!"
yelled that out the
kept playing;
I
didn't
girls,
know
it
go
tell
your parents.
at the time, but
window some would have paused, looked
at
if I
had
me, and
some would not have even paused. They knew what went on
on Union Avenue.
14
chapter Three
The windows facing Union Avenue became the favorite place for my brothers and me. You could hear the street noise and see the nonstop action perfectly
from this vantage point.
ing out the
was not long before the other boys our age
window shortly after moving on the block when we noticed some
boys looking up at us.
We couldn't wait to make some friends and go downWe both waved. One of the boys, the biggest one,
stairs
and play with them.
balled
up his
fist,
placed
to his eye again.
fist
It
some new boys had moved in. My brother John and I were look-
noticed that
someone else
.
I
I
to his eye, pointed at us, and placed his balled up
it
looked behind me, sure that he must be pointing to
pointed to myself and mouthed the words "Me ?
Me ? " with a
The boy repeated the gestures. The message was clear. The we would receive downstairs would not be a friendly one.
quizzical look.
reception
We quickly huddled, my brothers and I. We needed to figure this thing We tried my mother first. I was always the one who drew these tough
out.
assignments because could, "Hey,
She
Ma,
was so
I
mentioned, as casually as
It'll
be
silly.
be just
You haven't done anything to them. You
fight us."
know what
They took
to do.
We
of
brothers.
"Ma
We were
doesn't think they're
on our own and we
didn't
practiced fighting for a day or two, thinking that
what would happen.
was one
my
stoically.
it
my brother John went outside. We all waited
would help prepare us. Then to see
friendly, they'll
fine."
took the bad news back to
gonna
I
think the boys downstairs are gonna beat us up."
replied, "Don't
play with you.
and
talkative.
be scared to go outside and make new friends. Just be
can't
I
I
I
It
was
natural that John would be the
first.
He
±e greatest natural athletes that I have ever seen. He was tall
thin, already taller than
our older brother, Dan, and he loved sports.
—
—
He lived to play ball. Any kind of ball stickball, basketball, football you name it, he played it better than anyone else. He found staying inside torture. He went out to take his licks. He had to fight Paul Henry. The older boys arranged the match. There were
rules.
you had to
You had to be the same age, approximately the same
fight.
15
size,
and
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On Union Avenue,
would mean that you would be set upon
failure to fight
over and over again. Sometimes for years. Later
would see what the
I
older boys did to Butchie.
Butchie was a "manchild," very big for his age. At thirteen he was the size of a fully
grown man. Butchie was a gentle
the younger boys and
he would not
particularly athletic. Butchie had
rules to punch in the face unless I
don't
know what
The
older boys
Everyone had of
was
it
set the older boys
or
why they picked
that Butchie
felt
that Butchie
was giving the block
was not the rough and tumble
we
play
that
tween the parked
One
a
bad reputation.
cowards. Suddenly two
something was wrong, that
we sometimes engaged off after
cars, trying desperately to
the safety of his apartment.
that Satur-
had to be taught a lesson.
didn't tolerate
broke away. Six of the older boys took
By
off,
was decided
to be taught that
in the
was against the
a "fair fight.")
it
them grabbed Butchie. Knowing
yelling,
(It
flaw:
(fifteen
on him. He was forever being punched
really hard
midsection and chest by the older boys for no reason.
day morning, but
one
Everyone picked on him. The older teenagers
fight.
and sixteen) were
was not
He loved to play with
giant.
in,
this
Butchie
him. Butchie zigzagged be-
make
of the boys cut
it
him
to his building
off and,
and
kicking and
Butchie was snagged.
the time the other five boys caught up, Butchie
his mother.
was screaming
for
We knew that his mother often drank heavily on the weekends
and were not surprised when her window did not open and no one came to his aid. for
One
of the rules of the block
was
that you
were not allowed
your mother. Whatever happened you had to "take
cious punch to the stomach and a snarled
it
like a
command, "Shut
to cry
man."
A vi-
the fuck up,"
and Butchie became quiet and stopped struggling. The boys marched him up the block, away from behind his back, looked
his apartment. Butchie,
like a
There were about twelve
head bowed, hands held
captured prisoner.
of us
younger boys out that morning playing
When the action started we stopped playing and preour individual apartment buildings. We didn't know if
football in the street.
pared to escape to
— they were sometimes — and we nervously kept one eye on them and one on
the older boys were after us, too able
escape.
unpredict-
a clear
As they marched Butchie down the block
16
it
avenue of
became apparent
that
Chapter Three
we were meant
to learn
from what was going to happen to Butchie, that
they were really doing this for us.
The
older boys took Butchie and "stretched" him. This
was accom-
plished by four boys grabbing Butchie, one on each arm, one on each leg.
Then they were
large)
all
him on the trunk
placed
and pulled with
out over the back of the car.
all
of a car (in the early 1960s the cars
was stretched
their might until Butchie
When Butchie was
completely, helplessly ex-
posed, two of the boys began to punch him in his stomach and chest.
The
beating
was savage. Butchie 's cries for help seemed only to infuriate them
more.
couldn't believe that a
I
ishment.
When
human body
could take that amount of pun-
they finished with him, Butchie just collapsed in the
The
position and cried.
older boys walked
away
talking, as
if
fetal
nothing had
happened.
To those
of us
who watched,
No matter who you fought, ter to fight even
ing a coward. others, but
if
We
we
all
the lesson
was
brutal and unmistakable.
he could never beat you that bad. So
it
was
you couldn't win than to end up being "stretched" all
fought,
some with more
skill
bet-
for be-
and determination than
fought.
The day my brother John went out to play on the block and had to fight Paul Henry there was plenty
of wild swinging
they did no real damage.
When no one got the
or seven minutes, the fight
made
to
and a couple of blows landed, but
was broken
better of the other after six
up. John and Paul
Henry were
shake hands and became best of friends in no time.
John was
He
could go outside without fear.
I
was
needed help figuring out what would happen when
I
went outside. John
free.
was not much help
to
still
stuck in the house.
something about going downstairs and having
me and John laughed at me,
accepted the rules structions to
trapped.
I
me about how the block worked. He was proud that
he could go out and play while we were
over
still
called
to
watch he had
to fight your battles. His only in-
to fight back, don't let the
17
mentioned
me a baby. He had changed,
— no getting mothers
me were
I
Ma come down
boys your age
hit
you
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week I decided
without hitting back. Within a
I
just couldn't take
it,
and
I
went downstairs.
The moment I went block and thing
I
its
in a different
on the block; ^-^
jJO
category than
Af fhp tnp
r>
f
\\\f^
pprl-infT nrHf:^r
fiiphteen
,
."t;Vil^'i?A ,
began to learn about the structure of the
me more. The first
I
was. John's peers had some status
my peers were considered too young to have any.
W
it
i^^^
on the edge of the bathtub, the
had slowed, so
I
73
it
The problem with
with discarded toilet-paper bandages.
hadn't stopped, but
pressure
usually couldn't afford
of a wound.)
couldn't stop the bleeding.
my
until the
paper absorbed the blood, and when
in place, protecting the cut.
After about an hour of
bowl was
toilet
we
The blood
toilet
flow
could at least take the bandage off
A and examine the
finger.
I
My solution was
Matter of Time
figured
I
had cut a tendon that held the finger
two popsicle
sticks and use them as The more complicated problem was how to keep all this from my mother. Coming home from work and seeing her child with a finger in a homemade splint made from popsicle sticks straight.
simple, find
a splint to keep the finger straight.
would certainly raise some questions.
my mother that my finger had gotten jammed from trying to catch a basketball pass and it hurt me to move it, so I'd immobilized it. A fairly plausible story, since I played basketball almost every day. I just I
decided to
tell
had to make sure that 'i'2>'^pWl"wouldn't give
me
I
kept a clean bandage on the finger, so the bleeding
away.
My mother, like all mothers around this country today, had no reason to
\
suspect that her child was armed.
\j
never talked about violence in the
I
nf\
^ house, never shared with her my concerns about my personal
u\3
other kids. ^Y' .^bout being robbed by
^y^^
adolescence, ball story.
I
filled
with sports,
girls,
and school. She believed the basket-
changed the bandages on the finger three times a
The
the second day the bleeding had stopped. finger
was healing
straight.
',
vf''^
'^
was
it
It
was on my
I
took
seemed
off the splint.
fine.
took
I
my
knew immediately
looked at the finger
that it
I
night, but the next
off the pass,
ball
bounce
morning it was tell
still
I
I
took a
damned
off
I
tested
it
was
looking for the
my index finger. I it
tried to resplint the finger that
crooked.
My choice now was to live
my mother about it and go to the hospital. The
easy. Better to live with a crooked finger and a knife, in the
South Bronx, than a straight finger and no knife. It
that
was crooked again and the cut had reopened, but
with a crooked finger or
was
—
my shooting hand; and with a tied game my team
had reopened the wound. Sure enough, when
wasn't bleeding nearly as badly as before.
decision
hadn't decided to play
My finger when
eye
most direct path to the basket, and felt the I
if I
right hand,
had already caused me to miss two layups,
but
j-
story
game. There was only one problem
kept getting in the way.
little stiff
and by
I
was depending on me. a
day,
was working and the
my friends two weeks later. was having a great time and
really into the
splint
splint /
\^q^
,
And that would have been the end of the basketball with
safety or
As far as she knew I was having a normal
lot of
I
kept
my mouth shut.
energy to hide the crooked finger from my mother, which
did for five years afterwards.
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I
had to be very conscious of how
I
held
my
Chapter Ten
hands and which hand faced
was how
that they
I
pointed with. But one of the challenges
many of us
to incorporate daily survival techniques into our lives so
became
was simply another such
habits. Hiding the finger
challenge.
There are children all over this country who are hiding weapons in their closets, in sneaker
boxes under their beds, under their sweaters
in their
dresser drawers. They are certain that they need their guns or knives for their
ons.
own
safety,
sure that their very lives depend on having those weap-
We will never convince them to give up their weapons with fancy telemarches alone. What these children need
vision jingles or with
of safety, a certainty of surviving as they
Whenever
I
think that I've
dealing with violence
remind myself that
come up with fiar
war and
a cease-fire
I
come upon some
among young
is
a sense
go to school or to the store.
people,
I
quick and easy solution to
look
down
never really considered giving up
at
my
finger
my knife. We must
solutions that take into account that our children are
that they will not put
down their weapons
and
until
armed
we can declare
and bring an end to that war,
Otof^
Ca^c,
Ci
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73
^c\&uic^ .>-..c^
^^^)o^s
Eleven
That
this
country has
paralleled dimensions sults,
so
struction
and
far, ,
finally realized that is
violence
important to me. But
it is
of this realizatje^jbillions of dollars
more
lots of talk
is
a national crisis of un-
painful to
watch the re-
poured into prison con-
police anc^ejfybut ineffective programFlike boot ,
about our "war on crime."
thought out large-scale initiatives
is
camps
The problem with these poorly
that they
sometimes have unexpected
consequences that exacerbate problems instead of helping to solve them.
Case
in point,
one of our
While each large in the seventies,
lustrative of
I
'""
New
"wars," the war on drugs.
America had its own version of the war on drugs
think that what happened in
New York is particularly il-
our American tendency toward quick-fix solutions to very
j-> complicated problems, ,^j~-^
last large-scale social
city in
v,
,
York had a very popular governor
who served
four terms, from
1958 through 1974, Nelson A. Rockefeller. In response to the hysteria about drugs that permeated society and was highlighted by the media in
^ i"-'
''
f
A
Matter of Time
the early seventies, Governor Rockefeller pushed through legislation that
came
to be referred to as the Rockefeller
On
made
the surface these laws
drug laws.
a lot of sense. Drugs, in particular
heroin but increasingly cocaine as well, were a national scourge. There
seemed
came
be a revolving door
to
in
our criminal justice system when
the paperwork before the dealers were back on the street.
seemed powerless
to
stem the
tidal
wave
it
were barely done with
to drug^ealers. Copsfl amentej} that they
The
state
drugs coming intqJSIew York.
of
would createrfhinimunfTT^r>
So Governor Rockefeller proposed laws
that
datory sentences (fifteen years to
for possession of retetively^all
amounts
of narcotics. This law
fender" law that meant that
if
life)
was coupled with
a "second felony of-
you had one felony and were convicted of an-
other within a ten year period you would receive an even longer mandatory 1^"l
prison term. ^\'-\^
The
idea
\^
>
laws Tia^l^everaT unanticipated results.
j-xreation of a
.;
^
y)
($'
i-
^
t
was simple enough: get tough on drug dealers and drive them
nized even by
9
^
out of business, or at least out of New jfork Stale^But the Rockefeller drug
^>5v.
i
1
-ivv4^^
,
the phone, and
most pressing concern was that
called.
have bad news. They just shot Joe. The ambulance has taken him
emergency room.
to the I
I
first of
my martial arts
—"
wasn't for one of the children in
^lass but for one of our sta ff.
"Geoff,
woul^
t^'f^pt^^n^ rail lRte_at night that
fi
rig ht.
for Joe.
The
ku
kj.
I
knew we had
I
was
bullet
I'll
call
you back when
k^m'^"^ Vf^W
several problems.
Our
relieved to find out fairly quickly
had struck him
in the
backside and
wouldn't cause any permanent damage; he would be in the hospital for a
home convalescing. But Joe was loved by the adolescents who came tq Center bA At six-foot^fivejodi^vertwohund^^ Joe seemed an imposing figure only until you got to know him. He loved his kids and they loved him back. His shoqtjng-wQiild not gour Many of the center's members congiHered Jo e fami ly, and if someone jhot?ts s omeon e-mTg urlamily you mjjgr^ngethat dishopor. I knew Oialjoe^^hooting would have a powerfuTeffect on the neighborhood. There would be anger, outrage, and fear. The first job we had to do while and then at
.
was counter the rumors which began to circulate around the neighborhood
more was
quickly than
that Joe
young killed
We
we
men looking on
could keep track of them.
had been
sight.
killed.
We knew
for the shooter,
began to
collect the facts.
and he had been
they could socialize
dred kids;
serious
was already
a
rumor
group of
and that they had stated he would be
sJ^n^'QjCNj
There 'd been a neighborhood party
Center 54 that night. Joe knew that outlets,
The most
that there
we had
for
in the habit of
safely.
at
our children there were few social throwing dances for them so that
1^ dances could easily draw two or three hun-
tight security
and they were alwaysji.
Ill
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The Best Way We Know
How
community. This night an argument had ensued^between-two teenagef» andOTi e haH'Beerraskgd to l eavelRe^danee7Tlecame badrjsath^asmjooking for the boy he'd had the argument with. While standing outside, Joe
heard the teenagers
herd the boys and
yelling, "He's got a
girls
gun! He's got a gun!" and began to
back inside the school's doors. There was one boy
who was a little slow to go inside, and as Joe lunged to push this last boy in, the assailant opened Joe's heroism
fire.
made
Joe had taken the bullet aimed at that boy.
the neighborhood adolescents even
seeking revenge. They knew he had risked his theirs. It
more
intent
on
one of
to try to save
was decided that the shooter would have to pay, and the word was
out on the street that he was a dead man.
borhood boy who
We figured that Ramon,
a neigh-
was one of the most respected adolescents in the com-
was the crucial link in trying to stop the
munity,
life
brother had been the target of the shooter,
cycle of violence.
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-^
Ramon's
\^
(
Ramon and I later became good friends (and remain so today), but I hardly knew him when I was given the assignment of trying to talk him out of the revenge killing that we heard he was vowing. He was typical of so many of the young men who grow up hard in New York City the oldest boy, the "man of the house," responsible for the protection of his family. He was what we called "nojoke," as in "You kjQOw^a mon, he[s no joke," which
—
meant he was an honestjaw^ahidingkidwho lived by;.th e codes of c onduct on the
street:
fighter
and
if
Leave
me alone and
I'll
was
a fierce
his family
he was
leave you alone. But he
anyone tried to take advantage
— v(6]d\^
/hj^
The fact of the matter se ems quite simple to me. Either we address the murSefandmayhem in our country or we simply won't be able to continue to have the kind of democratic society that we as Americans cherish. Rheedlen
is
doing what
it
can; our
Beacon school, Peacemakers program,
and safety plans are but a few examples of what communities can do. We know that we are making a difference in Harlem, but it's not enough. As I have traveled around this country it has become clear to me that most communities don't offer even the inadequate range of services that we do. This
must change. Violence ties in this country.
differently
if
we
is
This
not a problem of the inner cities or of the minoria national crisis and the nation
is
ar e to solve
KfrorwHaTwe must^olTchange Tryi ng to catch and
must mobilize
it.
the
waywe^think about
violence.
~
puiiisli
violent act p eopIe after they have committed a
won't deter violence in the least. In
life
on the
street,
it's
than be killed, better to act quickly and decisively even tainty of being caught.
better to go to jail
if
you risk the cer-
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For those
who
think the death penalty
sider the thousands of American children
Children's Defense available),
Fund
is
How
the answer
who
I
ask you to con-
are killed each year.
The
(most recent data
reports that "In 1991 alone
5,356 children and youths died from gunshot injuries" (CDF,
The State ofAmerica's Children Yearbook 1994). So you see there already is
a death penalty
on the streets of our
cities
and towns. The threat of the
government catching you and killing you will never carry the deterrent
power in our cities' war zones ing under siege stantly alive,
— no
knows
trial,
some people ascribe to it. Any child livboy down the block will kill him or her in-
that
that the
no defense attorney, no copping a
the next second dead.
plea, just
one second
The government can never compete with
that reality.
But there are things that government could and should do right away to begin to end the violence on our streets. They include the following:
^Y\t^t^ Create a Peace Officer Cot Peace
officers could bring a
whole new approach
to violence prevention in
high-incidence communities. Their mandate would be to coordinate strat-
egies in the community to prevent violence from occurring, or when it has
occurred to make sure
The Peace
Officer
it
doesn't escalate.
Corps should be a federal program and could be
funded in part by savings resulting from the planned reduction of the nation's military
cal colleges
and federal work forces. Training should be based out of lo-
and universities, and the curriculum should include the best
practices from
community policing, the Peace Corps, youth programs and
youth development, and community organizing.
Peace
officers
would not be
police; they
would not carry guns and would
not be charged with making arrests. Instead they would be local
and for
women
hired to work in their very
knowing the children
in the
own neighborhoods,
neighborhood
—
men
responsible
their schools, their play-
grounds, their afterschool programs. They would make a real effort to
connect with parents and other adults.
The peace young adults
officers in the
would relate to and work with
all
of the children
and
neighborhood. They would try to settle "beefs" and
mediate disputes. They would target children in elementary school, junior
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high school, and high school, as well as kids just hanging on the corner.
They would not be the eyes and ears
of the regular police force, although
they would probably know which young people were involved with
drugs or other criminal
selling
Their job would be to try to get these
activities.
young people jobs, to get them back into school, and, most importantly, to keep them from
killing
one another.
The primary mission
of the
peace
would be to support a new
officers
sense of justice and safety among the general youth population
—
to ferret
out conflicts, to negotiate peace, to be at the emergency rooms and funerals
where young people come together
ally,
peace
officers
lar basis to
Not will
all
to grieve and to plot revenge. Ide-
from contiguous neighborhoods would meet on a regu-
share information and concerns.
young people
have a most
respect the peace officers, and clearly they
will
difficult job.
The police
will still
be responsible
for law en-
forcement; the, creation of a peace officer corps does not suggest that there does not need to be a solid, honest, hardworking police force in
these communities. But
we must
identify adults both
are already respected and involved with young people
young and old who
in the
neighborhood
and recruit those adults to work with them in ways the police cannot.
Reduce the Demand Drug education must
start early in a child's
catchy slogan, does not bring with structive impact of drugs that a all
for
it
Drugs
life.
"JustSay No," while a
the kind of understanding of the de-
message from those whose lives have been
but destroyed by drugs can bring. There are dynamic and powerful
speakers from organizations
used to bring dren. At the
this
same time
ing drugs, they others.
Anonymous who should be
even our youngest elementary school
chil-
that children are learning about the dangers of usof selling
drugs to
deglamorize the image of the drug dealer so that those
who might become
to see selling drugs as an sive
to
Narcotics
must be learning about the immorality
We must
children
message
like
the teenage drug dealers of tomorrow begin
immoral
act.
A well thought out and comprehen-
drug education program must become part of the standard education
of every child in this country.
Of course any
real effort at diverting the next
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wave
of youthful
drug
The Best Way We Know
How
dealers from selling drugs must include plans to find employment for most of these children
when
become teenagers. While
they
significant expenditure of public funds, the savings ization
that will require a
from reduced hospital-
and reduced incarceration will more than offset the costs of employ-
ment. According to "Americans Behind Bars," a press booklet issued by
Edna McConnell Clark Foundation
the
expansion in
in prison population the
new prison construction in
other 19.7
billion for state
1990.
and
(April 1993), to handle the
United States spent 6.7
And the new Crime
Bill
huge
billion dollars
authorizes an-
local prison expenditure. All this,
and we
are seeing anything but a downturn in youth crime.
And work
don't be fooled by those
for five dollars
week.
have found
I
who
say that these teenagers will never
an hour when they can make thousands of dollars in a little
evidence of this in
my
years of working with
young people. Most of them, given the opportunity to make even the mini-
mum wage, will do so gladly. The problem for many young people has been that they have looked for
In
work year
after year without ever finding a job.
some cities more than forty percent of minority youth who want to work employment. For example, according to the
can't find
New York
City Of-
of the Comptroller {Economic Notes, April 1994), "The jobless rates
fice
for Black
and Latino youngsters rose to 43.6 percent and 42. 1 percent, re-
spectively."
The
comptroller's report goes on to point out that these
fig-
ures understate the extent of the problem because "discouraged workers" (those who've given up looking for a job) are not counted as unemployed.
And
this steady
decrease
in
opportunity for inner-city youth has been the
case for more than a decade.
This
is
a national disgrace. For
nity to earn any money, and for
if
if
these children are denied the opportu-
they see a pattern of denial of employment
them, their families, and their friends, then
why
they might conclude that the only
become
involved in
illicit
way
it is
they can
easy to understand
make any money is
to
activities.
Reduce the Prevalence of Domestic Violence and Chira Abus eand Neglect '
Too many children learn
to act violently by watching violence in the
or by experiencing violence in their homes.
162
media
Our society has turned a blind
Chapter Twenty -Three
eye to domestic violence for so long that the smacking, punching, or beating of women has
become almost routine. And in many of the same homes
where women are being beaten, the children are being beaten response as a society has been to wait that the
woman
until the violence
also.
Our
has gotten so bad
has to go to a battered women's shelter (often losing the
live), or we have to take the abused child from the we end up breaking up a family, and common sense tells us this ends up costing us more money than it would have if we had in-
only place she has to family. In
both cases
tervened early and kept the family together. This failure to invest in prevention
is
costing our country
more than we
can afford to invest. For example, according to the George Washington University Center for Health Policy Research, there are
mately 442,000 children placed
in foster care in the
now
United States, at a
cost to taxpayers of 2.6 billion dollars ("Children in Foster Care: able Population in Health
Care Reform," 1994).
approxi-
We know
these children could have remained with their families
if
A Vulner-
that
many
of
the right type of
support had been available.
The best mode of early intervention for really troubled families is family preservation services
teach families as
much time
—
intensive, short-term interventions designed to
new coping
skills.
The
family preservation worker spends
as needed with a family to ensure that the family gets the
type of support and
skills that
rather than a destructive one.
it
needs to function as a supportive unit
These services cost a fraction
of what plac-
ing a child in foster care would cost, and they have been proven to be effective.
Reduce the Amount of Violence on Television
we are bombarded with images of violence Do you remember the Mighty Mouse cartoons? In how many ways was the message delivered in that one cartoon series that when you have been unjustly wronged vioStarting from the earliest ages, that
lence
seep deep into our subconscious minds.
is
an acceptable response? There
ered in his
is
no difference between the mes-
Mouse delivered and the one that Charles Bronson deliv"Death Wish" movies: when faced with relentless injustice you
sage that Mighty
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must Clint
act
more
How
violently than your opponent. In the
movie Dirty Harry,
Eastwood killed without remorse as we in the audience, manipulated
by the
plot to believe
he had just cause to
kill,
cheered his conscienceless
violence.
Today violence
in the
media
is
for acting violently is implanted
With the advent of cable all
night.
ever more graphic and the justification
more deeply
television, a child
into
young people's minds.
can watch violence
all
day and
The movie industry has caught on to the fact that children will pay
to see violence acted out on the big screen, and that the "action" the
more
tickets will
be
more graphic the And the movie industry, like the gun norm of their heroes carrying large au-
sold.
manufacturers, has promoted the
tomatic weapons, reinforcing the message that power
is
determined not
merely by carrying a gun, but by carrying a big gun that is an automatic and has a big
clip
containing
many bullets.
What about rap music, and
especially "gangsta rap"?
much
that people have concentrated too
media violence. Many rap songs are tive
nor negative
singers
—
who have
^just
It is
my
opinion
attention on this one source of
positive,
and some are neither posi-
kids telling their stories. But there are
decided that their niche in the music industry
some rap
will
be the
most violent and vile; they talk of killing, refer to women as bitches, and in general bring a message of death and self-hatred.
record industry show
some
fame and fortune. But rap music of violence Clearly,
lent
we see around
I
would love to see the
restraint in limiting these rappers' access to itself is
not responsible for the explosion
us today.
by singling out one part of the entertainment industry as vio-
and ignoring others which are equally
if
not
more
violent
(how many
people have been killed in movies starring Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, and Clint Eastwood?) violence in this country. all
we
will
have no impact on reducing
The television, movie, and record industries must
reduce the amount of violence they
sell to
Americans.
Reduce and Regulate the Possession of Handguns This anti-violence public strategy
will
probably be the most
seem to agree that a car is a machine and demonstrate a
real
that people
difficult.
We
who use one need to
understanding of its operation and of the laws govern-
164
chapter Twenty -Three ing
use. You
its
must take
a written examination before
you are even
al-
lowed behind the wheel, then you must pass a driving examination with a trained observer sitting right next to you. But even having passed those
two
you
tests,
own
cannot
still
There
a car until you have insurance.
basic assumption that even good,
competent drivers
will
is
have accidents
a
in
which property will be destroyed and people will get hurt or killed. And yet you can buy handguns, which history are killing
competency ance I
in
to use a
weapon
case someone
believe
some places for the first time
is
safely,
own weapons
is
American
and without having any type of insur-
hurt with the
that the
in
any test of your
cars, without passing
weapon you bought.
handgun sales should be banned
all
ment made by some cans could
in
more people than
The
in this country.
argu-
Second Amendment was passed so Ameri-
The Second Amendment
a specious one.
reads, "A well regulated militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to
fringed."
The
militia,
Amendment. We killed
by other
keep and bear arms,
not individual citizens,
is
not be in-
the subject of the Second
as citizens in this country should have a right not to be
citizens
who own handguns.
Recognizing, however, that other Americans cept a complete ban on handguns at this time, things
shall
I
may
not be ready to ac-
believe there are
still
some
we must do.
Licensing. Every person
who wants
pass both a written test and a cost for these
field test
new procedures
to
buy a handgun should have
to
before being allowed to do so.
The
who make,
sell,
should be paid for by those
and buy handguns. Insurance. ister
Gun manufacturers and
to trace guns that
wind up being used
turers should be held liable for ture.
dealers should be required to reg-
every handgun they manufacture. This registration would be used
This
liability
for crimes,
and the manufac-
damages caused by any gun they manufac-
should be shared with gun dealers, so there would be
tremendous pressure
for
gun manufacturers
reputable dealers, and for dealers to
sell their
to sell their
guns only
guns only to reputable
to
citi-
zens. Individual citizens would be required to carry insurance policies for liability
and theft on their handguns. This would increase the pres-
sure on citizens to It
make sure
would also reinforce the
that their
fact that a
165
guns were safely locked away.
gun
is
more
of a liability to a fam-
The Best Way We Know than
ily
it is
a protector, and
How
would encourage people to get
rid of their
handguns.
Ammunition Identification. While we are beginning to bring some sane we must also begin to make the kill-
regulations to the handgun industry,
ing of Americans with handguns less to
do
this is to
make
anonymous than
handgun ammunition
all
it is
One way Gun owners
today.
identifiable.
should have to sign for specially coded ammunition, their purchase of
which would then be logged
into a computer.
The codes should be etched
into the shell casing as well as the bullet itself,
and the codes should be de-
when a bullet breaks into fragments it can still be idenShooting another human being should leave evidence as strong as a
signed so that even tified.
bloody fingerprint at the scene of the crime. The police should be able to quickly and accurately
tell
who purchased
should be treated the same as the gun liability for its
,
.
itself
when it comes
federal
have over two hundred million guns last for
we reduce
We know
until
that
to get the
tion permanently.
giving
them
if
this is a
is
our country.
This might take
who
in the five
of
We now A gun if
no way we can deal with
number of guns
long-term problem.
guns currently
sure that the children their guns, even
the
citizens.
currently in circula-
young people won't give up their guns
have to keep in mind that
now
in circulation in
decades. There
properlycared for can
handgun violence
plan
to the owner's
government needs tojnvest _b illions
doUarsover th e next ten years buying guns back from
tion.
Ammunition
use.
Gun Buy-Backs. The ^plj"^
the ammunition.
readily, but
we
We have to begin to
hands of children out of circula-
or ten years. But
are fifteen years old
now do
we must make
eventually turn in
they wait until they are twenty-five to do
to other fifteen-year-olds to extend the
life
it,
rather than
cycle of these
weapons.
While people may blanch at the thought of spending billions of dollars to
buy back guns, we should bill
in this country,
realize that
one with a
we have just passed
a major crime
thirty-two-billion-dollar price tag, in order
to deal with the violence and fear guns cause. While
I
doubt that this huge
it's now earmarked will make Americans safer, I do believe we used even half of that money to buy back the guns from our streets while requiring all new guns to be registered, insured, and their owners trained, we definitely would have a safer country.
expenditure as that
if
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*
The truth of the matter is that reducing the escalating violence in our country will be a complicated and costly endeavor. If we were fighting an outside enemy that was killing our children at a rate of more than five thousand a year that
we would
spare no expense in mounting the effort to subdue
enemy. What happens when the enemy
is
us?
What happens when Do we still have the
those American children are mostly black and brown? will to invest the
must be
time and resources
in
saving their lives?
The answer
yes, because the impact and fear of violence has overrun the
boundaries of our ghettos and has both
its
hands firmly around the neck of
may not yet have been visited by the new national cancer, just give it time.
our whole country. And while you spectre of death and fear of this
Sooner or
later,
unless
we
act,
you
will.
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We all will.
Twenty-Four
I
got the
call at
the worst time
goo d, or one time
is
— not
)
any time
that
bet ter than a nother. But this time the
call
came
is
right
middle of the Knicks and Chicago basketball championship series in
ifithe
the spring of 1994.
1
am a
serious Knicks fan and
was
game
able to teach
my martial arts class that night.
that evening.
teaching a class, but these days
evenings and
Not
students,
some
that they aren't of
seemed
I
more than
I
to
had been
In the past I'd never
missed
was working more and more
capable, but
I'd
my black belt my
been missing
family.
of these
I
young men and
couldn't help but marvel at the grace and
women as
was harsher than usual on them as they most minor misalignment students
was looking forward
whom I have been with for more than ten years and are
Class had gone well and
power
it
in a
often had to leave the teaching of the class to
I
students.
second
I
I
good mood because
catching the
like a
for this kind of call
know
that
I
of an
arm or
love them. For
they went through their
drills.
I
practiced, correcting even the
foot. I'm a
many
of
tough teacher, but
them
I
am
the only
my
man
in
The Best Way We Know their
life
and
I
How
know that I must assume the role of the stern, loving, powAnd if you knew me you would know that this suits me
erful father figure.
just fine, for I
hope
Whpn
\
it is
through this role that
keep these young people
will
prrivpH hnrriA
|
thr?^'^
I
teach the values and discipline that
alive.
TIY hR(T
f^aininp my martial arts gear in
the co rner, kissed Yvonne said hello to Joanne, pushed the play button on ,
the answering machine, and turned on the television. things^withinjifteen sernnds, as the
a'HdJoan ne
knew
andTwasho me
this
in
was
timp
game
a big evenj ngjor
to.sae
I
did
all
of these
had-already started.
Yvonne me. That the Knicks were on
thenvwas almost a miracle, so my family
%
-~
Yvonne and things
I have lived together for seven ytd^ and one of the many we have in common is having survived growing up poor in New York
City Yvonne grew up in Harlem as one of four children. She and her sister are the only ones
left.
Both of her brothers died before they were thirty
My family fared somewhat better, with three out of four of us still alive. My brother John died at the age of twenty-two. Joanne is Yvonne's niece; she came to
live
with us after her grandmother could no longer provide
for her. I
It
paid no attention to the phone
when
was something in her voice as she
it
rang, and Yvonne answered
said, "All right,
I'll
it.
be right there," that
made me glance away from the television and pay closer attention. There was little emotion in her voice as she said, "They shot Alex." I just looked at her, the
words not quite sinking
pecting this
call for
in.
She sounded as
if
she had been ex-
years.
"They shot Alex." And she began to get dressed to go to the emergency room, nothmgmore, nothing ing happened in the
crowd on the ment.
I
less. Right at that moment something excitgame and I found my eyes drawn to the cheering of the
television.
There was something quite surreal about the mo-
looked at her again. She was proceeding mechanically, putting on
one shoe, then the other, the fans were cheering some great move,
athletic
my brain was still trying to comprehend.
Alex was Yvonne's nephew. At twenty-eight he was the oldest male
so
I
rel-
who was still alive. His wife and Yvonne were best friends, had come to know Alex and his wife and son well. We only visited two
ative she
had
or three times a year, but he was the closest thing
7
70
I
had to family
in
Har-
chapter Twenty-Four lem. Alex's favorite hangout
was on Eighth Avenue and 121st
Street,
where he and Yvonne had grown up. Yvonne's mother and grandmother still
lived in a
tenement building
in that
neighborhood and so
that area with her to visit with her family.
Yvonne
I
was often in
said that Alex had
been
shot on the corner of Seventh Avenue and 121st Street and that they had
taken him to Saint Luke's Hospital in Harlem. I
quickly began to prepare to drive over to pick up Yvonne's mother,
on going with us to the emergency room.
insisted
jacket and
tie,
thinking
faster in that outfit as
I
don't let
comment
opposed to the jogging
as
we
him be dead." The
short one, but
it
right away, so
left
suit
I
It
was
in
I
was wearing. But
our apartment was basic: "God, please
drive to Saint Luke's from
was
that Alex
my apartment is
said,
bursting into tears,
never forget the look on Yvonne's face when her mother said
a look of such heart-wrenching pain that
analytical.
I
a
was dead.
felt
that in this case
that.
was all I could do to keep
it
driving the car and not pull over to console her.
be
a
seemed like one of the longest drives of my life. We picked
word on the street
will
on
made do with what I had
I
up Yvonne's mother on Eighth Avenue, and she that the
to put
might get answers from the nurses and doctors
Yvonne was insistent on leaving on. Yvonne's
wanted
I
who
I
in
my usual way tried to
we had reason to be optimistic; rumors
Harlem are incessant and there was no reason I could see to believe that
anyone
been
really
told,
knew
Alex's status.
I
began to recount the
reminding everybody ±at even
wrong. "Alex was shot one time, he was
facts that
we'd
this information could
hit in the
be
body and not the head.
The human body is remarkably strong and you can survive a single gunshot wound if it doesn't do severe damage to a major organ and if help arrives quickly.
we
Alex
is in
great shape. He's a big, healthy man. There's no reason
should jump to any conclusion that he's dead. Let's
all
calm down and
The odds are in our favor." feeling of impending doom in the car.
wait to get to the emergency room. did
little
to relieve the
My words
When we arrived at the emergency room we were met on the Alex's wife.
She was distraught and
in tears.
I
immediately examined the
—
men who were with her there I would find the no matter how grim. Young men in Harlem know death. Most have
look of the two young truth,
street by
had death's shadow
fall
many times. And I saw
over their lives and the lives of their loved ones that death
was
171
in their
slow walk, in the
way their
The Best Way We Know feet sort of kicked at an imaginary paper
How
bag on the street. In the way their
heads hung down, out of respect for the dead; the way their faces and
whole bodies "took
it
like a
man." Death.
As we got out of the car the women began to embrace one another and sob. The two men walked slowly over to me and I saw the look in the eye, the half-frown, the almost imperceptible shake of the head say,
Let the
sion concerning the suddenness and finality of death.
"HfLS^one," was I
all
that
tor to
to
We have no hope of
onejjf them saidto me, q uie tly and off to one the sad news. Then and there began
ma ny_who knew
bc>ohc?o
forever /e
if
wen Ho Yvonne and gave her
'The'sad fiood oftear s from so last
no. All as
We die every day and every night.
stalling death.
side.
—
women have a few more minutes of hope, we men have no illu-
Algjc^^one that seemed to '"^
'
spent the next two hours in the emergency room waiting for a doc-
come and break
the
news
chance to see the body before we
to Alex's wife. Later left
him
to others.
we waited
Those hours
for a in the
emergency room are a blur of crying women, men on beds in the hallways, their bodies in various states of needing repair
blood, and confusion.
think about as
even
in death,
I
was asked
— bandages,
to identify Alex's
body and
cursing,
all I
could
saw how perfect Alex looked, handsome and powerful
was
ers, in hallways,
I
that
all
over America young men were lying on stretch-
on street corners,
in
homes, dead. Perfect in every other
way, but dead.
Over the course
of the next couple of days
basic facts. Alex had
been eating dinner
we were able to pin down the
in a local restaurant
and went out
On his way he met another young man he knew from He stopped to talk. A car pulled up. A man got out with a gun. He motioned for Alex to get away and began to shoot the man Alex had just been talking to. He shot him over and over again, mostly in the head. That young man died instantly. One bullet missed its target and found Alex. He was shot through the lungs. The bullet tore a major artery, to use a pay phone.
the neighborhood.
Alex's lungs filled with blood, and, unable to breathe, he died on the street in
Harlem. Another innocent bystander
killed.
The next few days were most difficult for me. ing that death
is
always too close
in
had passed many a day and night.
I
couldn't shake the feel-
Harlem. Alex had been
killed
where
I
My staff worked in that area and they 172
chapter Twenty-Four
walked the same streets
all
the time.
have no martjT complex, and while life
for the right cause
lieve
we might
killed just first
time
thought about leaving Harlem.
1
would love to think
— those noble causes
all
—
I
would give
in a long
time
I
was
afraid.
way
How ironic
would love to beI
don't
they robbed
same
was so
be
way
to
elusive to
place thirty years later.
I
had the same urge
I'd
had when
my brother Daniel when we first moved onto Union Avenue.
to yell to the children,
"Get
off the street!
safe here? People are being killed every day.
Don't you
Go
come
flying in.
I
know it's not
inside and lock your
doors, stay away from your windows because you never know
when a stray
Run and hide! Run and hide!"
end I decided to stay a little longer. The children have nowhere to
go. Their families have
no money to move, they have no place else to
and
anyway
it's
to
the streets of Harlem over the next couple of days and
saw the children playing and laughing
In the
want
to have figured a
to find the peace that
a child, only to be right back at the
bullet will
I
my
because I walked up the wrong block at the wrong time. For the
And as I walked
wanted
we
that
die for: freedom, equality, civil rights
get out of the South Bronx, a
me as
I
not their
fault,
—
it's
play,
ours. We're going to have to change
things so that they can play in peace and not worry about dying on the street.
173
Twenty -Five
It's
a
Wednesday night in Qctebei^nd
I
.
/^
.
can't believe I've gotten
my martial arts class.
away from
October and Feb-
Rheedlen
in
ruary
new students into my classes and this class is full of them. I walk
I
let
time to be early for
into the brightly
lit
pose, quickly and
In
gym and all eyes turn toward me. I'm walking with purA ittle boy begins t o run over to me and an older
silently.
student grabs his arm.
l
see him
I
whispering in the younger boy's ear.
sure he's telling him, "You can't talk t o him before c lass. talk to
no one when
I
first
quickly and runs away.
march
now
I
come
nod
in to teach.
And
I'm
he's right.
I
One boy runs over and bows
my head in acknowledgment and continue my my dressing room. I know that by
to the tiny office that serves as
the word
is
out to
all
of the students that I'm teaching the class
tonight.
room I begin to change into my uniform and to quiet my mind. It's harder than usual. The city is cutting youth ser-
In the quiet of my dressing I
try
vices again. Rheedlen will be affected. This very night center will be
closed unless
I
can raise the money privately to keep
it
open. That means
The Best Way We Know
more running around, more bother me, but
causes
it
late nights,
me
to miss
How
more lost weekends. That doesn't
my classes.
For eleven years
taught martial arts in this school. For ten of those years
missed
a class.
I
have
hardly ever
I
Now I'm lucky if I can make it one night a week. My three
black belt students are good teachers, but they're young and
still
need
my guidance. I
dress, leave the room, and go back into the gym.
you might think I'm stern, even me^anrNe-smilel^on
room looking
any sign that
for
my
to. 7^'s
playing around, that they have fooled me. silently
clap
is
empty
playing a
I
them
turn
my
tension and
game
The
line.
older students have
to go, the
younger students
place in line. For a few
moments
it
of musical chairs.
stand in front of them, looking unhappy and displeased. Everyone
wonders who act. Finally
to bring
is
out of place or not standing up straight. This
begin the class and then I'm
I
magic into the
amazement.
They are
I
can
finally
lives of
feel the
mine.
I
it all
part of
my
these kids. To bring a sense of wonder and
The
all
to myself.
away by force
I
have crowded
all
the bad
who won't come stove when they get home.
test they failed, the father
by to see them, the dinner that won't be on the pushed
is
lost in the teaching. I'm trying
students losing themselves and focusing on me.
have them
things out of their minds.
I've
haven't seen
drills, lettirig'the
been waiting for this moment and know where dart around trying to find an
I
pretend they have.
my hands two times and fifty children are
dashing every which way trying to get in
I
me now scan the
my gaze travels around the
They hope I
go through my own
drama build. And suddenly I
looks like everyone
I
playing tag and laughing and joking, and pretend that
they're stretching or practicing their kicks.
back on them and
you saw
students are fooling around and not
warming up the way they are supposed
room students stop
If
my face.
of will
and magic.
my time and I know all the tricks. I yell, I scream, I fly through the air with the greatest of ease. I take my black belt students and I slam This
is
them on the can't stay
floor
down.
they land and
I
roll
and they pop up
like
those weighted weeble dolls that
throw them through the
air as
if
they were feathers, and
and are back up unhurt and unafraid. The new students
can't believe their eyes.
And they begin to believe
in
magic again.
And by the time the class is ending their eyes are wide with amazement and respect, and they look at me differently. And I line them up and I talk 176
Chapter Twenty-Five to
them.
them about
talk to
I
values, about violence, about hope.
one a reservoir
build within each
of strength that they
try to
I
can draw from as
they face the countless tribulations small and large that poor children face
And I try to convince each one that I know their true value, their gift that God gave to them. And I
every day.
worth as human beings, their special
hope they
me
voir for
make
will
to
to the next class with
it
add to week by week.
draw the strength
It is
something
left in
from that reservoir that they
come up
together
I
to shake hands
them,
to being Geoff to
their friend.
As
and we bow
scan the street for signs of danger. This, after
call
I
comes
one
of the
down to "The jacket
stoop
zip is
year/Thezipper
it
will
seem
shorter
show him how neck.
—
am back
I
all, is
a neighbor-
by guns
He
this
year
only five and
is
see that his jacket
is
open and
j>robably belonged
believes
I
can
fix
way
all
to
if I fix
to use
do
it
to his brother last
His face
is
filledwith ah-
and the long blocks he has to walk
his jacket.
I
try to
one hand to hold
that
meets with
of the attention to detail
nose
is
fix
the zipper.
I
in the cold
can't. Instead,
his jacket closed close
my
approval. This
is
is
a
also part of the
running and take out the package of tissues that
He
I
around his
keeps him from feeling ashamed.
pocket for just this purpose and wipe his nose. five-year-olds.
I
Why nbt.'' Aft er waTcn-
it.
readjust his hand several times so he understands that there
I
certain
his
He
broken.
ticipation. It's cold outside
act
I
me in class he believes that I can do anything.
ing
speak to every-
up.
old and beat-up, is
killed
youngest students over to me.
to class with his older brother.
I
in greeting.
a group of us walk up 108th Street
hood where more than ten adolescents have been alone.
will
to resist the drugs, the guns, the violence.
When class ends I dress, and now things are different. one. Students
that reser-
I
I
notice
keep
in
my
He doesn't object like most
loves the care and concern.
As
I
watch him cross the
street with his brothers and friends, holding his jacket closed with his
hand, the spell in
broken for me.
is
No more
magic. Just
raggedy jackets that won't close, trying to stay
scribble a note to myself to
Winter
My until
I
sure
I
is
remember
to find a
little
five-year-olds
warm on a
way
to get
cold night.
I
some jackets.
coming.
two black belts usually walk with catch a cab.
get
home
I
all
tell
me
after class
and stay with
them it's not necessary, but they are there
right.
What
a world.
777
So dangerous
to
me
make
that children feel
The Best Way We Know that a third-degree black belt
thing
is,
with
needs an escort
How to get
home
safely.
the guns and drugs in this community, they
all
The sad
know
I'm no
safer than anyone else.
This community,
many across
like
and they usually walk home
whenT wa lk be.
Willi Lliem aflei
They have no
is
not safe for children
and apprehension. But
'
ddss
lliey ai e Ctiiefieerlike
They believe
fear.
this country,
at night filled with fear
that
if
children ought to
anything happens
they'll
be safe
my magic karate dispatch whatever evil threatens them. When these children see me standing because I'm there.
I'll
fiy
through the air and with
I'll
on the corner watching them walk into their buildings they believe what children used to b elieve, that there are adults
who can protect them. And
me as larger than life, like Superman or BatAnd I let them believe this even if my older black belts and I know dif-
because of that belief they see
man.
ferent.
roes.
Because
in a
world that
Heroes give hope, and
no future. And so
I
if
so cold and so harsh, children need he-
is
these children have no hope they
play the role of hero for
them even if I have
will
have
to resort to
cheap tricks and theatrics.
And
could geTthmTayors, and the governors, and the president to
if I
look into the eyes of the five-year-olds of this nation, dressed in old rag-
gedy
clothes,
whose
zippers-^e broken but whose dreams are
know what
they would
I
know
—
them. To stand with them on the most dangerous streets, hallways, in their darkest hours.
still alive,
need people to
that children
fight for
in the dirtiest
We as a country have been too willing to
when times get hard. People who allow this
take from our weakest
to hap-
pen must be educated, must be'challenged, must be turned around. If
we
we must become people now more than ever because
are to save our children then
look up to. Children need heroes
they will the poor
children of this nation live with monsters every day. Monsters deprive
them
of heat in the winter, they don't fix their sinks
garbage
pile
up
in their hallwaysTtheylcick
beat them, shoot them, stab them
them out
— sometimes
and
toilets, th ey let
of their
to death
homes, they
— they rape
their
bodies and their minds. Sometimes they lurk under the stairs. They scuttle
around
in the dark;
casionally biting a
We have
failed
you hear them
little
in the walls
gnawing, squeaking, oc-
finger.
our children. They
7
live in a
78
world where danger lurks
all
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around them and their playgrounds are vials,
and sudden death. And the
children
is
the
common
and claiming children
in
with broken glass, crack
our nightmares when we were
reality for children today.
record numbers.
visible heroes, fighting for crisis that
filled
stuff of
our children.
our children face and
I
And so we must I
want people
want people
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stick, in
of his
of
the rituals of
consequences
fist,
set
1960s by New York Governor Rockefeller's drug laws, the
Istteets changed: The stakes got higher.
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Manchild
in the
powerful memoir of growing up
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