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Zen Art of Seduction A woman is supposed to ~seduce herself. By: Kyle J.Green

Zen Art of Seduction Copyright Kyle J. Green 2016. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced in any form, stored in or introduced into a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or any means (electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise), without the prior written permission of the copyright owner. First printing 2016.

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Preface Expectations. This should be a book, you read and want some of your buddies to at least peep. If you read through this book and it doesn’t open up your mind about the way you thought about ladies, and if you don’t learn how to control ladies minds and make them fall in for you. Plus, if you don’t start approaching ladies and succeeding at that. Here is what to do. Just bring it back, and we will have you refunded, yes that cannot be our book. What you will learn from here is advanced seduction techniques, that you will just read and if properly understood, then you should just move out and use them on any lady, and I guarantee, you will have to win her. Why have we gone to this extreme? You might ask. Because we trust the knowledge we give you here in, it has been used and tested by many other men, and we are pretty well sure that it will also work for you. This is a book you have never come across; it's not anywhere close to what those pick up artists and so called dating gurus teach you. As you will see, this book is full of advanced mind control techniques, the knowledge you would never sip unless you are here. I know, you will be amazed and stunned by how effective some of the techniques in this book are, you might even laugh at yourself, for how simple and yet complicated seduction can be if you don’t have such skills.

Note to a reader What I'm going to reveal to you in this book are practical skills, which you should read, comprehend then go out and apply. Just like anything in life worth having, it requires dedication to get it, the techniques we teach here will need some persistence for you to master. You should Read them Re-read them, until you comprehend them. Then go out and start using them. Very very important I implore you to take life as a learning experience, the best lessons you can ever get from life are the ones from your own experiences, there is nothing much outside to learn, all is inside. You should also admit that mistakes are nothing but experiences to learn from, draw wisdom from, and help you grow. You can't grow without making mistakes. Hence we should embrace them, and however, if you don't correct your mistakes then it will be a waste of time. Here in we have incorporated hard core mind control techniques, to help you hack right into ladies’ minds, and you get to make them fall in love with you. We want you to know that this is very advanced knowledge we are giving you, it's not plain as you might think it is, some of the techniques we teach you will blow your mind at first sight for they might defy the beliefs you had about ladies. If for the very first time, you read something and don’t get it, don’t worry re-read it for a couple of more times, you will be amazed by how some of these principles will suddenly pop to your eyes.

Dedication This book is dedicated to those bold men who yearn for sexual freedom, those who know that they have a right to date with hot gorgeous women, not the averages, and who haven't just wished for that but have confidently moved out of the crowd to search for the wisdom and skills to help them attain that. To you we write this book, we also extend this work to those heartbroken persistent men whose hearts have been wounded over and over but they have persevered and now want the knowledge to help them control ladies. And for all of those who have been wondering whether a man can ever find a way of controlling a relationship, this book will be a satisfactory answer.

Table of contents. Zen Art of Seduction DISCLAIMER AND TERMS OF USE AGREEMENT. Your Free Gift. Preface Note to a reader Dedication Table of contents. Introduction Mind control techniques. The ugly truth What pushed me to discover this knowledge? The aftermath So whom is this book meant for? CHAPTER ONE: Attraction. Breaking it down. How to grab her attention The 90-second rule. How to kill approach anxiety, The killer approach techniques Why did I succeed? What did I learn from those experiments? How to delude her that everyone likes you Approaching Group of girls Suspense technique. The quickest way to get her number. Asking for a date Advanced Approach techniques. The touch and whisper techniques. The touch technique. The transition stage- Acceptance.

Qualifying. CHAPTER TWO Rapport What the heck is it? Rapport pattern interrupt. Advanced story telling techniques Elements of a good story Conversation hooks CHAPTER THREE. How to seduce women using killer body language. Why you should work on your Body Language. Use of gestures Walking style. Standing posture The eye contact Using the eye as a seductive tool The sitting posture. The handshake. Positive and negative body language. CHAPTER FOUR The middle game- seducing What is seduction? The art of flirtation The boomerang effect. The science of sexual tension. A women is supposed to seduce herself How to initiate touching and why it’s necessary for you as a seducer. Getting closer. First hugs, and kisses. Why you have to disqualify her such that she qualifies herself to you, when and how to do it. Practical solution CHAPTER FIVE Control of relationships by use of advanced psychology. Mind control tactic 1

When should I say sorry? How to break down her defenses using Timeline techniques. Future pacing How to condition her, and make her respond to you like a robot. Pavlov and his dog. Next how to condition her by use of anchoring CHAPTER SIX Getting out of the dredged friend zone and ex back. Reasons, why you get friend zoned, how you can kick your ass from that dredged zone. The deadly mistake Main causes of break ups. The No contact method. Some wisdom. Practical business. An afterword. Selected Bibliography.

Introduction In the 19th century, there used to be books called Dating Guides They would have sleazy lines like: Don’t tell me, a girl as hot as you are is not having a date tonight. Oh! Girl you so beautiful, you must be an alien from another planet, can I have your number. You the most beautiful girl I have ever laid my eyes on, Gosh! I'm falling in for you already. And they sold millions and millions of copies (I think these are books our fathers used). Thanks to that century! But as advanced and civilized as our era is, I dare you to try the above. If you don’t receive a slap on your face, you will at least manage to scoop yourself a rejecting hand pushing away your nonsense. The fact is… Those lines have been used and abused over and over again by many folks. Therefore, we must equip ourselves with effective ways to seduce women. Thinking of that, I figured out some effective ways of doing it, and this is what I came to.

Mind control techniques. Yes, psychology is the key, not just any psychology but advanced mind control techniques that can only be found in secret places. After spending all your hard earned money on useless yet misleading books, guides, and courses from dating Gurus and Pick Up Artists, and getting nothing but more confusion and more failure. You must be wondering, Is this really gonna work for me, will I be able to get the results I want after reading this book? Is it gonna help me attract the type of women I want?...Hope it’s not another get laid quick scam to punch more holes in my wallet?. First of all, if you have been reaped off big time by the mentioned people, then you aren’t alone, I was also there. Until I got the solution that I'm about to uncover to you right now. And Nope! We aren’t Pick Up Artists and we never even consider ourselves dating Gurus, but the techniques you will get from this book will leave your jaws drooping as you delve deep and deeper into understanding female psychology. To me, there is nothing close, as far as a man is concerned, that I would compare to investing time to acquire such knowledge as this. How I wish some of these things were also taught in schools, we would have less heart breaks, and we would significantly reduce the number of wounds that our hearts face. But that's it about the world; it never tells you the truth. You have to dig it for yourself. I can’t imagine the number of guys who are suffering because of relationships, some have lost their jobs, and their hard earned money, all of their tough cultivated belongings because of women. By the way, this is a serious thing, for your notice especially if you were taking it jokingly, people have committed suicide just because

~she chucked me. I know how we can claim we love her, we kneel down for her, we just agree with whatever she tells us. We keep calling her every day, keep thinking of her all the time. That may not be bad. What is actually itching is the fact that the more we do all those types of powerless things, the more she neglects us. Of course, if we were sane, I mean in our normal minds, we wouldn't continue with such stupid behavior. But why do we keep doing it? Because of this “I AM IN LOVE WITH HER” Yes, I know almost everyone has gone through such stages, we have been controlled by our sweethearts, dragged, ignored, but we kept yearning for them. More madness huh? If you come to think about it, that has to stop. Yes, we should grow up and start playing the game like masters, not slaves of the game. Man should learn to control things around him. You should be having any lady you want to (not just settling). You should be celebrated not tolerated by ladies. Ladies should flock to you not the other way round. You should be a prize to win, not a pursuer.

The ugly truth Every man would love to get laid by hot girls, not the averages and belows that every tom and dick can pick and dump the next minute. The only problem is when you remember the last time you tried out hot girls, they blasted you like a hammer (nail on the head) Then you probably consoled yourself with this motherly advice “The beautiful ones aren’t yet born Sorry, we are now mature I thought that was for kids. But that is about to end. Yes with the deadly love tactics that are packaged in the Zen Art of Seduction, you now gonna be a master of this game. Knowing and understanding the Mind Control Techniques herein will put you on a higher edge over other men, in fact, if you will learn these techniques then go out and practice them, you will start viewing ladies like programmers view software, in code. This is something you can’t find anywhere else I know how hurtful it can be to have just one single girl who doesn’t hate you nor specifically loves you. Well, she may give you some relief of the itching feelings of rejection that are biting away your heart, the only worry is she also doesn’t like you that much. It is every man’s pleasure to have the love he wants, to date the ladies he fancies not just settle for what he doesn’t want. Deep inside, every man would want to be loved glorified, cared for and more than anything get laid and have the sweet funful sex from the hot babes that he truly desires. Yes, we all want that. The question is “Is such a glaring dream possible?

We may be tempted to say no, but when we look around us, we see average guys who don’t even own the material wealth to cater for themselves let alone, maintain ladies. But, these quacky dweebs seem to attract ladies like a magnet they are having fun because they acquired the skills, they can seduce any lady they want. These guys aren’t so unique or different from us, in fact, many of us may be having more qualifications than them, and yet we suck like hell when it comes to the game of seduction.

What pushed me to discover this knowledge? I just got tired of playing the game I didn’t know how to play, I was moving from break-up-up to break up and success to rejection. Unless people who were completely green about seduction and relationships, I was one of those who would make the right move in the morning and follow t up with the wrong one in the evening, am quite sure many girls would just get so disappointed with me because I didn’t know what I were doing. And before I reveal to you the complete story, there is this one thing I want you to take not only in seduction but your entire life, NEVER DO SOMETHING YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO EVEN IF YOU DOING IT RIGHT yes its that simple and yet understanding and applying it will revolutionize your life. Why am I bringing up that? You see I used to be that guy who would be free with girls I would open up well with them, excite them give them the fun and excitement and like I said since I had no idea about what I were doing, would follow up such a good thing with, “you know Brenda, I just like you so much you are so beautiful” and guess what? Just after saying such bullshit, a lady would just shift from hot mood to the cold one, this kept bubbling me, I would be so puzzled because I had been indoctrinated by movies and society around me that, “If you like a girl, let her know it-I mean you must be a man enough to confess your feelings to her” That’s what we see in movies all day long, isn’t it and we think it’s the right thing isn’t it? Watch me closely here, actually that’s very wrong. You will know why. Here is another thing that would tail spin me, like I said I used to be that guy who would open up a woman so well that she gets interested in me but my ignorance of what I were doing would again

compel me to make a wrong move, somehow somewhere I would screw up things before I even get the girl to bed. It was like a trauma, it’s not easy to admit but I one time thought that I might have been cursed not to enjoy women or something of the sort, I couldn’t figure out why I girl who was head of heels into me slip away from my hands like that. Am now going to share with you what I would say is the turning experience of my love life. I had a girl that I had met, she was so beautiful (at least as far as I thought then), her hair was rave black and she had this sexy Mediterranean brown skin, her lips were full and subtle and perfect, her legs were long. Everything about her just seemed beautiful, hands were just so beautiful and smooth like wool, she had intoxicating eyes. Now I wont say I approached this girl because much as I was a good guy at interacting with girls who were friends I didn’t have the balls then to cold approach a girl and win her over. In fact, she was just introduced to me by one of my elder cousins, now I would say she came into my life at the wrong time, because during those days, I had completely given up on girls and relationships, I wanted to have some momentarily relief from relationships, I was so exhausted heart broken, and like a loser i said, no more with love things. Now that I understand seduction, the reason why this girl seemed so interested is now clear, you get it? It’s because of my break off from relationships, this is the only thing which made me not to show much interest in her despite having been introduced to her. As a matter of fact, I didn’t even ask for her number, my cousin gave it to her, and of course she was the one who called first, I just weren’t interested in these things, so she would often try to reach me out and I intentionally ignore her calls. That made her to like me even more, until I decided to come back to the game.

Now an armature that I was at that time, I still couldn’t know what had been doing to her and why she had been chasing me, so when I got into the game, I started doing my usual chase, pleasing her all the time, sending her jokes. Things were moving on nice for about like 2 months but then something strange happened I started developing what people call love feeling for her, I had this thing telling me, “let her know, you gotta let her know how much you care” I said, I have to let her know. So I invited her on some date, where we interacted then I announced it to her This is what I said, “You know Jane, I really feel great about you, am falling in for you, I cant get you off my mind” You cannot believe what happened next, you know by saying such I expected her to reply, “I also feel the same about you” But it wasn’t the case, she just got uncomfortable got cold that even after our date, she wasn’t replying to my texts nor picking up my calls. Now there was nothing much I had screwed up there, much as I had made slight mistake of announcing my feelings so early in the game, that wasn’t so fatal an error. But here was the biggest mistake. When she wasn’t texting back and ignoring my calls, I got desperate and anxious I thought I had done something wrong (little did I know that I was just doing it then) so I constantly texted her all kind of silly and embarrassing texts, the sort of; why aren’t you replying to my texts, did I do anything wrong, please am sorry if I wronged you, I really like you so much, forgive me and we move on. She continued to ignore me, I would call her over 10 times a day and she wouldn’t pick up a single call.

Since the calls, and texts weren’t working, I got the worst stupid idea ever, I knew where she works from. I decided to go to her workplace and seek for her apology I mean that’s being a man (how silly I thought). This made her even more disgusted in fact all along she hadn’t at least chucked me, but right there she got so pissed with my stupidity that when I asked her a silly, “Jane do you still love me” question, she just coughed, “I don’t love you” . I was so stupid that, I was then acting on my impulses I wasn’t thinking. But then I managed to get through that traumatic experience with the help of friends, and I swore to myself that I was going to do whatever it takes to understand seduction, and learn how to seduce and make any woman fall in love with me, so I enrolled to countless dating guides and pick up books but I wasn’t getting any good until I stumbled on this advanced knowledge that am about to reveal to you now, and I will have to admit it has revolutionized my love life, I now have hot young gorgeous girls to have sex with on demand, flirting seducing and picking up any girl is like eating chocolate to me, it’s something am good at and enjoy doing so much.

The aftermath I have had some good days after getting this knowledge, below is an example of how I use it. I remember those days when one of my friends was becoming tough to convert; I had pampered her with all the care you could ever imagine, calling and texting her all the time, buying for her stuff, and even jacking her jaws up with funny jokes, plus of course listening to all her worries. After all that, I thought it was right for me to take the next step and make things go *romantic, I wanted us to go……kisses and romance, exciting stuff~ if that’s what you think. So like anyone else I pulled out some bold moves, showing her my intentions that I was now interested in a romantic thing with her not just friends. You wouldn’t believe what happened next, me too (like punch in the b#lls) She just showed me a straight red card, rejected me in a way I could never believe, As though we had never been friends! If I recall well, these were her exact words. Kyle! You and I are just friends, nothing more. So don't act like you are my lover cause you aren't. Stop your silly texts you are sending me. If it were you, what would you do, after such? I guess you would start feeling depressed right away, rejected and guilt would start biting away your heart immediately. Oh gosh! Why did I even do that, you would lament. But that wasn’t me, at that time. In fact, I reversed the game, right away and beat her using her own energy; this is a technique I will reveal to you in chapter six and how I used it against that friend of mine until I #checkmated her.

One of my clients came with a very puzzling question; he told me that he had inquired from many people, but they weren't able to give him an answer that would logically satisfy the type of problem that was bubbling up his mind. He said: I don’t know what happened to my girl, at first she was the one who even seduced me.She was the one who was making all these moves. She was so into me those days, and yet I wasn't giving her any attention, but when I yielded to her and started showering her with all the love and care, she is losing interest in me, what wrong have I done, I thought she wanted love and care? As you can see, that question is very tricky; most people would look on its surface and think they get it, and yet it's so deep that it takes a master to unlock it. Before we discuss it, here is some of the advice, counselors and so called love doctors gave him. # Talk to her about that weird behavior and find out why she is behaving like that. On this, she even, felt higher and so sweet on the poor guy, as if she had shifted from taking in O2 to N2 (Just exaggerating). I will tell you why in chapter four. # Give her more attention and care, it seems you don’t give her enough time. This was the worst one, she just started ignoring him, not even picking up her calls. WTF! Nope! Don't laugh; it wasn't funny at all. We will tell you the cause of all such kind of puzzling behavior in chapter four.

So whom is this book meant for? First of all if you are a guy who is in a joyful relationship with your ideal hot girlfriend, everything is going very well, you have an endless number of girls chasing after you and begging for you to sleep over, and if you are an above average guy when it comes to seducing, flirting, arousing and making women fall in for you. Then this book isn’t for you. Yes! I will have to be blunt and fair, am not here to make the rich richer and the poor poorer, Nope! I want to empower those powerless dudes out there who happen to have any issue falling in the list below. You have been wondering why seducing that cool, sexy, fun girl so Hard? Even though some guys make it look so simple. You have that one girl that you want to bed, you don’t know what to say or do. You are a shy guy, you fear approaching girls because you don’t want to be rejected. You always left out on parties because you just tend to repel girls, everything you do just tends to push girls away from you. You have enrolled to countless pickup books and so called dating guides, but you still can’t attract women let alone maintain them for even a month. You feel that you so unattractive and women don’t like you because of your looks. You deeply feel that you deserve hot gorgeous girls to be loving you, craving for you but you think that they are out of you league. You don’t know how to sustain a conversation with a woman you are interested in, you so boring for sleep.

You tired of getting the “let’s just be friends speech” from girls you like. You tired of spending your hard earned money on dates with women who don’t show any interests in you. You tired of buying drinks for girls in bars only to be blushed off with, “I gotta go, thanks for your drink anyway”. You feel it inside that you deserve class 10 girls, but you stuck with being able to attract low class girls. You feel jealous and can’t figure out why the girl you like and care for most always leave you for some jerks. You tired of chasing after girls and want them to chase after you. You call and text her every day and you keep wondering why she doesn’t pick up or text back. You don’t know how to flirt with girls and you feel rejected whenever some guys easily excite and turn on women and make them yearn to have it within no time. You give your girl everything but she just doesn’t seem to be interested in you. You so charming, exciting and charismatic and yet you wonder why you never bed any girl however funny you seem to her. You buy gifts and flowers for women but you wonder why they never seem to think about you. Do you have an ex that you would wish to get back? You frustrated with girls and about to give up on them, the more you show interest the less they consider you. You tired of the motherly bluff “Just be yourself” and want to become more confident around hot girls. You keep wondering why the girls you consider girlfriend material usually dump you for other guys.

You feel so lonely in your life, you don’t have girls to spice you up. You have some unattractive girl who doesn’t love you but you can’t even afford to lose her. Are you the cold guy that women always despise in the circle of your friends? You tired of your friends nicknaming you “GAY” because they never see you with girls. Maybe you still subscribe to the motherly advice, “THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARENT YET BORN”. Are you the type of guy who keeps spinning from breakup to breakup, and want to have some lasting joyful relationship. If you happen to have three, two or even one issue in the above list, then this book will definitely have an impact on you. Here is what you are going to discover in just a moment… In chapter one you will find out the first thing to do when you get in touch with any woman, you will be given the exact type of statements that should come out of your mouth few seconds in your interaction, these are statements aimed at gluing a woman’s attention to you. You will discover the 90 second rule and why you shouldn’t try to violate it during your interaction with women, the killer approach techniques and the Zen Advanced Approach techniques. Amongst these you will find the Tease technique, the most powerful technique on picking up women and arousing such thick sexual tension in just a few minutes. You will also learn how to make a woman chase after you by qualifying her. Chapter two will solely concentrate on building rapport with a woman, you will learn about fast and effective ways of building rapport with any woman you meet.

You will learn about the Rapport Pattern Interrupt, this will help you make women so free with you by creating a useful emotional bond that binds the two of you naturally together. You will also get to learn, advanced story telling techniques, elements of a good story, conversation hooks and transitioners, these will be able to make women addicted to your conversations and want to know more about you. Chapter three will strictly cover Body Language, how to seduce women using killer body language. Every aspect of it will be covered; dominant and submissive body language, negative and positive body language how to use them. Everything from Walking style, sitting style and standing posture, eye contact-secrets of the eyes and how to use them to seduce women. Palm gestures, handshake-all these are discussed in detail in this chapter. Chapter four is the middle game, it’s where the seduction truly starts from and from here you will learn The Zen Art of Flirtation, how to use the boomerang effect, create intense sexual tension in women. You will finally get to understand the science of sexual tension and why you should make a woman seduce herself. How to initiate touch, how to get closer to her, how to initiate kissing on your first date by creating kissing tension and making her want to come for it. Then you will learn the Zen attitude of pulling by pushing away, you will understand what to do in order to intensify the attraction a woman has for you. You wouldn’t just want to learn how to approach women seduce them, that’s why in chapter five I will give you ways of controlling relationships by use of advanced psychology and mind control techniques.

In these you will find; how to prevent your relationship from losing steam, how to use timeline distortion techniques to break down her defenses and finally, how you can condition her to respond to you like a robot. Let’s face it life is never a smooth journey, there are times when a relationship will hit a bump, you may break up, maybe you were locked behind the friend zone and you want to get out. I will give you reasons why you get friend zoned, how to kick your ass form there, the main causes of breakups and how you can use The No Contact Method to get her back.

CHAPTER ONE:

Attraction. Breaking it down. This is the first stage of an interaction with anyone you meet, it is where people gain or lose interest in what you saying. Just like the word attraction, you want to hook someone's attention and make them curious and interested in you; during this stage of interaction, you usually want to make a woman interested in you. She must feel attracted to you. And here is one thing to note; Attraction is nothing but curiosity, and yearningness to know more about something. This is what you have to do, make a woman curious about you. She must be asking these kinds of questions. *Who the hell is this guy? *Is he like other guys who have hit on me? (If you are then she will have to check on you) *This guy sounds charming, I think I should get to know him better. * Is this the type of guy that I have been looking for? Now seduction is a process, there those who want to rush it, make it happen so fast, they want to skip stages. Stay warned, trying to skip the vital stage of attraction will throw you into the friend zone if you have been friend zoned this is one of the main reasons. In fact, in just a few minutes of your interaction, a woman will have determined where you fit into her world, whether you supposed to be a lover, a friend or a no body. The unfortunate bit of it is that all this happens subconsciously. It is never even her choice to make you just a friend; it just depends on the way you approached her.

A typical way of skipping attraction and trying to make things happen fast is the one below. Guy: Hello, how you? Her: Hi, doing great? Guy: Am Adams, and you? Her: Lydia (This is even wrong for the fact that you trying to interrogate a woman) Guy: Do you, come here often? (This is the biggest mistake) And many people make this typical mistake, this is known as the normal way of approaching women, and 9 out of 10 guys will approach ladies that casually. I mean, “Just get to know more about her, she will like you”-sorry that’s damn wrong! Here is the drill, first of all, like I said the entire system is a step by step you start with attraction, go to rapport then seduce later. The problem with such a guy is, he is trying to build rapport with a woman minus having established attraction; this is a sure ticket to the friend zone. If you have been wondering why it's always hard to take things to a sexual level with girls you properly interacted with, that's the main reason. We are now going to review attraction in detail.

How to grab her attention

The very first step of attraction is getting a woman's attention. And if you fail on that. Then guess what, ~you can’t continue! This is a very crucial step, because if you can manage to get a woman’s attention, then you can do just anything else with her. But you see, how most of those pickup artists overlook it. They go straight to nailing her, how to kiss, how to romance her. I know, all that is good, but if you fail to make an indelible first impression on a lady, then chances of kissing let alone bedding her are so slim. Yes this happens the moment you register her on your radar, you must be intriguing, and you should make her mind hooked to you. Have you ever opened up a woman, started having a conversation then, Boom! All of the sudden, she just loses interest in you? These things happen, this is mainly due to forcing a bond with a lady without having got her attention first. Such that she just finds herself losing interest, and she finds some sort of excuse to escape her ass from you.

How to get her attention. You do this by using some provocative lines. You want to make sure that you are as ambiguous as unclear to ~understand, such that

you leave her mind dissatisfied with the information you give to her, this way you provoke her to seek for more clarity (opening her up) Pitfalls to avoid Most guys fail at picking up ladies because, just after meeting with her, they bombard her with a series of closed ended questions which require closed answers. For example What’s your name? Where are you going? What is your occupation? Where do you work? As you can see, these type of questions tend just to push someone; it appears as though you are a Lawyer trying to interrogate her (this isn’t sexy), that way you come off as a desperate chap trying to Force your way into her. Also as closed as they are, they just tend to close her up as opposed to opening her up. You can’t do that and expect to win a woman, most often than not she will feel bored or even down right disgusted. Here are some of the provocative conversation openers #1. I don't think; I should tell you this… (Do you see how provoking such a line is?) #2. I might regret telling you about this… (What is that?) She will wonder. #3. I think you are too innocent to know this… (Here you using reverse psychology, very advanced stuff), she will have to defend herself like…who is innocent, am mature. Just as you like it. #4. I was going to tell you this but…ummmmh (Revealing and hiding), women like it when you hesitate at that time you are about to

say something compelling, she will be dying to know what! #5.Sometimes it confuses me… (What confuses you?) You see it. #6. It keeps beating my understanding, has it ever occurred to you? (Here you intriguing a woman, she will want to respond like…..what do you mean?) #7. Indeed life is an interesting journey, can you believe….this and this? #8.I don’t know how this happened...what is it? #9. Is this accidental or planned, do you believe in destiny?-These make women get so curious about you. Sometimes you can pull off provocative line after line (creating more confusion and intrigue in her mind) For example #1.Sometimes it confuses me. #2. It keeps beating my understanding, has it ever occurred to you? #3. I don’t know how this happened. While doing this, you don’t have to be so logical in whatever you say, for as long as you holding her attention. The less she understands what you say, the better for you. Seduction law: The longer you keep a woman, intrigued, moved, mesmerized and confused by your words, the more she will want to know more about you (and this is every seducer’s dream).

CAUTION: Don’t go beyond three lines, this will confuse her mind to exhaustion.

The 90-second rule. This is a rule you don’t want to break. It is scientifically researched that whenever you meet with another person, you only have about 90 seconds to make the first impression. If it goes beyond that, then it's done. And if you fail to make it, then… Leave that girl alone, go do some other things, maybe you can approach another one. You have to admit that if you fail to impress her within those seconds, then continuing with her will be like trying to milk a bull. Best types of questions to ask. These are kind of questions a Zen seducer would ask **According to me, women cheat more than guys, in fact, guys are more trustworthy than women. If you ask such questions (I call them, emotional triggers), they will trigger all her past experience with guys, and she will tell you how unfaithful they are, how they can’t settle with one girl. If you can open a woman up like this, you could as well be good to open up her legs too. And as she is explaining, add more salt by defending guys more. ENGAGE HER MIND! That’s right. Another type of question. **I think, ladies get turned on so fast, she just sees a guy, and start getting wild? (Of course, this isn't true) but you just want to provoke her, huh?. On this one, she will bring all the evidence, how guys even rape women. Then you can sprinkle more salt still by saying.

…….But women do that a lot, last time on Tv, I watched horny ladies raping an innocent man, ladies are just too horny these days, I think you watch a lot of porn. When you are just starting on this, you can use the above questions, although I recommend you just acquire the *knack, such that you start crafting your original questions. The key again is to ensure that the questions are so engaging and very provocative that she can’t help but have something to say. Conversation transistors. When switching from one conversation or set of story to another, you need to do it smoothly. This is done for some reasons. *The mind has a tendency of getting in equilibrium with something at hand when you abruptly shift to another, it has a natural tendency to oppose that(this is what physicists call inertia) ** You don’t want to appear as a guy who is just pouring words, loosely. Forcing a conversation with her. We are going to give you interesting ways to transition from one completely different story to another, without any resistance from her. #1. That reminds of another… (And you start a new story) #2. A similar thing happened… (And you start a fresh) #3. That also triggers this… (And you start off) #4. There is also, another thing… (And you go on) #5.Aha…here is another thing… (And you go on)

How to kill approach anxiety, The killer approach techniques

This is a technique I have practiced myself over and over again; I didn't read this from anywhere it's out of my experience. You see it’s somehow frightening to approach a lady especially if you are just starting in this game. Every time you see a hot girl, your heart starts pumping so fast, you sweat, as your voice goes timid and you lose control of your entire body. By the time you confront her, you just set for a *rejection. But it doesn’t have to happen that way. Everything goes with practice. The method am going to reveal to you now isn’t just theoretical, you won’t just read it and get it that way, you will have to go out there and put it into practice and test this theory for yourself. I call it the sample of ten. What I would do was, assign myself to approach a random sample of 10 girls in a day and record my results. This was the case The first two or three girls would give me zero score, but as I went on, to 4, 5 6, 7,8,9 and 10. I just kept increasing my success rate. At first, I would score around 6/10, sometimes 5/10.

But with more trial, I tremendously reached to 7/10, 8/10, 9/10 and even 10/10. It was an amazing experience; I killed all the approach anxiety I had. It was becoming fun, I enjoyed it, I started being fancy with it by varying on the type of ladies I approached, being selective I moved from random girls to beautiful ones, and the results followed the same trend. After satisfying myself with one category of ladies I would move on to the next, and the process was always the same. I would start with failure and converted it to success until I mastered that level. This is one of the most exciting experiments I have ever done in my life I learnt a lot from it, much as it was very challenging at the start, it later became something to amuse myself with.

Why did I succeed? *Because I took it as an experiment, not a serious thing, as many do **Because I had a sample of 10, so when the first 2, 3 or 4 refused I just moved on since I had assigned my mind to go for 10 anyway. *** I had given my mind a particular direction to follow, and so it did, I got this from NLP. In that field, they emphasize that the mind just needs a particular direction, it’s called giving the mind a specific outcome, and mine was approaching 10 girls. What was even more interesting is that, when I repeated this pattern, the mind got more used to it, I got conditioned to it, just like anyone does something familiar. NB. I will have to emphasize that NLP concept, you see your brain just needs certain out come and it will work towards it. Yes, it's the reasons why people who set specific goals tend to be more successful in life than those who don’t. It is very crucial to learn how to set goals or have specific things you want to achieve in your mind; it doesn't matter whether you are going for a date, or just gonna have awesome sex. Take it as the norm to first think of how well you want to do something, one way of doing this is by vividly imagining. Here is how, for example, you might be going for a date, list 3 exciting things you would want to happen on your date. Just be free and let your imagination run wild, maybe you want sweet kisses, perhaps you want to romance her really well, maybe you want to be so delighted, it doesn’t matter just make a list. After the list, just take a few seconds or minutes and vividly imagine how each of those goals will be achieved, if it's kissing her and she

gets hot, imagine doing it, be specific even where you will touch her when you are kissing. What this does is it, programs your mind to achieve that outcome, when you keep practicing that, you will be amazed by how exciting some of your dates or sex can be. The mind is the most powerful sexual organ learn to use it. Even if you just want to last longer in bed, just imagine it before the act, vividly see yourself satisfying your partner, your subconscious mind will record this data, you will be like a coder punching lines of code in your computer (brain) therefore the brain will have to execute these commands depending on how well you did the process.

What did I learn from those experiments? I learnt the art of perseverance; you see it is easy to move from success to success. The hardest thing to do in life is to move from failure to success. And so I attained a rare mental muscle which enabled me to move from rejection to a win (pretty powerful skill) As a matter of fact, every time I would get a no, (especially at the start) I would super charge and say to myself, Kyle! You have to move on, I did this for many times, it became conditioned that every rejection would just boost my confidence and accelerate me. I would feel stronger after being rejected and this just set me for the next successes. More than anything, I attained a success mindset that I apply even elsewhere because I don't fear rejection (the greatest enemy of man). Have you ever heard of the law of averages? (I just practiced it right there)

How to delude her that everyone likes you Social proof. If you feel that it’s hard to connect with people especially ladies on gatherings, am gonna give you a killer rapport building and women attracting technique here in, that will leave women going….That guy! As they stare at you with lustful eyes. You might have been led to believe that attracting women is a hard deal and that you need things like cars, money, or if it's gatherings then you have to be the MC to make ladies flock to you on parties, but all that isn't necessary. We are actually gonna show you one of the simplest yet so effective techniques of making the people around you like you instantly and start to view you as a valuable social being whom they would want to socialize and associate with. It’s called the social proof method. You see by nature; people tend to like individuals who are liked by others, so you can exploit this *flaw and make others (especially women) think that you are liked by others and therefore should like you. All you need to do is this… When you hit at the bar or party, try as much as you can to greet everybody around you, just socialize normally whether men or women, give simple hi, hello even waving at some who are distant from you, this subconsciously shows others that you are a social being sure to interact with, but more than that. It will kill all your approach anxiety such that by the time you start approaching the ladies you want, you will be more relaxed and comfortable. It will serve to put you in equilibrium with the crowd around you. In fact, whenever you see a lady that captures your attention, First practice by speaking to the one next to you, then go for the other later.

You will be amazed by how every girl can’t keep her eyes off you, women might be forced to even approach you if you don’t do it first and you will be the superstar on the party.

Approaching Group of girls

I will show you, how you can approach a group of girls and succeed at picking the one of your choice….mob psychology is the key As you are advancing in your seduction skills, there are times where you would want to encounter a group of girls and pick up one of your choice. Approaching a group of females might be disturbing, and many folks will readily admit that they would prefer to go to the moon than try it but don't worry, I will show you a way of doing just that.

You will actually realize that it may be even easier. You see, contrary to hitting on a single lady, who can quickly decide whether you are fit for her or not, when dealing with a group of three or more girls, decision making becomes a bit slow, they can’t all decide at once whether they like you or not (lack of consensus), so you can easily beat them as they are still in between the lines. However, you should go right about it; most guys screw it up because they approach a group and try to select out one lady whom they think is right for them(before seeking approval from her friends), well this is a sure way to fail. You need to first talk to an entire group, get their attention and approval then you select out one girl of your choice, and if you do that first then getting one girl from that group should be as easy as turning your palm. This works for another reason, if you first show the entire group that you are desirable and worth, then by singling

out one of them, you will be trying to make her shine. This will be a good thing for her especially in front of her friends, it will be indirectly showing that she is better than them, you will make her friends feel jealous and even want to have you more.

Suspense technique. Let’s say she is in a group of her friends seated together, you might not go straight to them. Instead, you sit just somewhere they are visible to you and start looking straight at her. This will ignite some ROMANTIC feelings in her. Every time, you get an opportunity, just *look straight in her eyes. The attraction will intensify as you do it again, by the time you approach her, she will already have known what. Whenever you look at a girl with romantic eyes, you put her under the flashlight; she keeps guessing what you want from her. And this is exactly what you want to do, to make her imagination go wild. I have an easier way of approaching such a woman after doing that; you just match right to her since the two of you have been exchanging eye contact then just say this, “I saw you looking at me with your lustful eyes what are up to, are you trying to hit on me?”-Do this and I assure you she will be yours. There is this saying in chess.

A threat is often more powerful than execution. When someone slaps, you. It's done, the slap could be slight or huge, but most importantly they have done it, and you have felt it. On the other hand, if someone just threatens to do it, it scares you. Your mind can even imagine all sorts of things that couldn’t necessarily happen to you. Always do this in romance, SEXUAL TENSION is very important.

Always hold on before you release the tension, by doing this, you will make a woman *explode under her own imagination

The quickest way to get her number. How can I quickly get her number? To do this, you shouldn't ask or request, command for it. But before getting there though, you should first have gained enough rapport for her to think you deserve it, that first impression is very crucial and without it, I don’t think her number can be useful to you, because it will be hard to convert her, if she didn’t feel you on the first encounter. Let’s assume you approached her very well opened her up bonded with her well and everything is going on well, then just confidently pull out your phone and you are like….you know we can connect, so what’s that number, which is more reliable, I don’t want your business number, to bother you, that one I will get it another time!…..you start dialing..0389………. You might not use the exact words, however notice this technique, in NLP it’s called presupposing. By saying you want a private number, not a business one, you smartly deceive her mind that she already agreed that she would give you her number, what you don’t want though is her business number. Use that, and I guarantee you that 90% of the time she will give you that number. Remember as a man; you are supposed to lead her into what you want, not suggest. Be confident in whatever you do; women rarely know what they actually want. A woman’s NO is never meant, she just chooses it for no good reason that’s why you should boldly and confidently lead her mind to whatever you want.

Asking for a date The key again here is to bring this out in a confident way. Don’t ask, command. Tell her today you have something special going on, she must join not to miss out. You that

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You know what, I feel like spoiling someone tonight, come let's go, I want to punish you with fun, by the time we were done, I know you won't be liking me. You can be as creative as you want to be but the important point is to ensure that you are as unclear as hard to know and more than anything, you don’t want to be seen as a guy trying to kneel down for a date proposal. That shouldn’t be you. What surprised me? If you probably thought that she turns down your offer because she doesn’t like it then you aren’t alone, I used to think so until I figure out something. When it comes to ladies, it’s rarely you or what you want her to do but how you go about it. One guy can give a lady an offer, and she turns it down, and another one comes with the very offer, and she takes it. Not because she liked the latter but because he brought it out in a more compelling confident way. That's what you should understand. Just be sharp! Biggest mistake. You see lots of guys make things so casual, and very official, and if you didn’t know, this bores women off. Never ask for a date, in fact, bring it in such a way that she is just going to join you for something, never make these things so official. I know that's what movies show you, but asking for a date is giving a woman too much power to turn you down, instead, what you do is

tell her something of this sort. You know what, Jane……am going to be at such and such a place at this time, you can join me, and we have some fun.

Advanced Approach techniques. The tease technique This technique works like gangbusters; it's so effective that I somewhat feel guilty giving it away this cheaply. This is a technique I usually reveal to one of my secret one on one students; this is my first time giving it out to a mass and am quite sure the potential danger to women that am making here. For those of you who don't know, the tease technique is like using nuclear weapons in a swords war, that's why before I unveil it to you, you must make a big promise. You should promise me that you will never use this advanced technique for harmful reasons, you will never misuse it. I know there many techniques of opening up ladies but what am about to reveal to you now is one of the most advanced skills of seduction. The tease technique is typical of the Zen attitude, a woman is supposed to seduce herself, and it does exactly that. It reverses the game, and makes it seem as though it is her who approached you and started hitting on you. Let’s get down to business.

Watch me The problem with most guys is they are so casual and official in their approach. This tends to bore women to sleep, why? Because it’s what they see over and over again, wait a minute, I will show you what I mean. Guy: Hey! How you? Her: Am fine and you.

Guy: am cool, am John and you. Her: Am Tina. Guy: Nice to meet you, Tina, what do you do for a living… No matter what, that conversation is gonna hit a dead end It's not only boring and so casual, but it is some sort of FBI interrogation with a criminal. When you're just approaching ladies, you want to spark them, ignite their minds…….to be going? Who the heck is this guy? I know you might be wondering, “How can one do that, I don’t think that’s for me”. But the technique I will show you here is super and will reduce ladies to awe immediately within just a few minutes even seconds of your interaction. You see, it’s pretty simple. First of all, the reason why ladies immediately lose appetite to engage in certain conversation with guys is what we mentioned above-being too casual and routine. On the other hand, the reason why this will work effectively is because you interrupt the normal pattern of things. She will be puzzled and intrigued, cause probably no one has done this to her, especially those super-hot gorgeous women (it really works on this type). So by breaking a pattern and sounding so out of the league, she will immediately feel that you might be some other class of guy than the ones she has been dealing with. Here is the drill. The first part is throwing some intriguing lines, the sort of which we have given you above.

For example So, you do exist, are you very sure about this? As you can see, that will likely arouse a response in her, she might reply, “About what?” You: Tell me something, is this a coincidence or something you planned? (You see how you make it as though she is guilty of an offense already, she will have to reply) Her: What do you mean? You: So you came all the way from the other side, just to come and hit on me, how dare you! This should reduce her cold; she might laugh or at least remain confused…. If she laughs and is likely going to and she might be like, “No, that's not true”. Then it's on folks! You may ask her name like so what’s your name? And she will immediately tell it to you Let’s say her name is Amber You can go ahead to tease her like, “I bet Amber is one of those crazy girls who go on hitting on innocent strangers, I will report you to the police”. At this point, she will be just melting for you, so if you see she is really getting excited, turn around and show her your back a bit, wait for about 3 to 4 seconds. (This should make her so interested in you) Then turn back and throw in more intriguing tease. This is one of my favorites, and it has been tested on numerous ladies and really works like magic. Tell her, “You know what Amber when I look at you I sense something, okay you seem humble and gentle on the surface, let's

say we appreciate that, but deep inside, you hiding something, that your eyes are revealing to me now……….”-leave her anxious. (Ladies love to know more) She will likely ask, “So what’s it that am hiding?” You: You are so crazy and wild at the same time so successful at showing us you are a cool lady, how deceptive! From here on, you can ask for her number or escalate things on as we will teach you here in detail, but she will be so emotionally charged for you, here. Using the teasing technique will give you super powers when it comes to approaching and picking up women, in fact, you will be amazed by its effectiveness. It works, and it really works especially on those gorgeous hot ladies. More examples of the tease technique. You: Hey, so you have been waiting for me all along here, it’s okay, I'm here now. Her: Hahaha, I don’t get you. You: Of course I expect you to pretend who wouldn’t, and I know you intended this thing, I don’t think it’s just coincidence (make her feel guilty as though she committed a crime to hit on you, such that she seduces herself). Her: What do you mean? You: You were just waiting outside here, to flirt with me isn’t it (always blame it on her before she does). Her: Hahaha, No, that’s not true. You: Putting teasing aside, I really sense something in you (you see, how you start opening her up in a curious way, every woman would want to pause right there and listen to what you are about to say). Her: What’s that?

You: Danger, trouble. Her: what! (She will get so curious about you, and like we said attraction is nothing but curiosity). You: I sense a lot of danger in you, so am gonna arrest you ahead of time to save the world before you explode (women love these lines, she will just melt when you say such). Her: Hahaha, you so funny. You: I didn't intend to be that way, have you ever been arrested if you were you wouldn't be laughing right now. Anyway, what's your name(You can see I wasn't interested in her name in the first place only giving her fun, but I ask for her name as a by the way) Her: Am Jackie. You: So Jackie, you one of these crazy girls who mercilessly hit on strangers, how ruthless, I will have to take you to police immediately. Another example This works effectively when you want to hit on a woman who is moving the same way at your back, what you do is pause and start the tease. You: So, you were the one following me, huh? Red handed, I got you. Her: No, I was just walking my way (this is what a man is supposed to do, to reduce a woman to that level of trying to please and apologize to him, few men can do this, most just try to apologize to ladies instead). You: I don’t think so, you were just following me all the way the other side to come and flirt with me, I know(here she will melt, women like such). Her: Hahaha, that’s not right.

You: Of course, am just messing with you, trying to make you feel guilty a bit, otherwise how are you doing. Her: Am fine. You: You know, I sense something in you, danger and a lot of trouble in you. Her: Danger, what do you mean (you see how she starts asking you questions instead of the other way round, and that's what makes the tease technique so effective, it reduces women cold, you give the answer, and she asks the question, a very interesting duty to play). You: Am actually plan to arrest you, before you cause trouble anywhere (things like this again, make women blush, she will feel like grabbing you). Her: Arrest me? What have I done? You: Hahaha, I tease you again, I think you just too cool to tease (Now teasing a woman that way, subconsciously tells her one thing: That you are man who is naturally confident and above her class, otherwise you wouldn't be teasing her. You would be trying to compliment her about her looks and playing it nice) You: Well, I think this isn't cool right, I mean am just a stranger I don't know much about you but I just start teasing you like that, it's weird right not good, unfair isn't it? (This is an advanced mind control technique, because by teasing women they will likely complain, so you do it for them ahead of time, but in an interesting way) Her: Yeah, I mean you sound like you know me. (You see, how you act like you are on her side, make her feel very comfortable around you). You: But who told you that life is supposed to be fair to you? (Here you switch the gears, i tell you almost every woman will blush when you do this, because you pulling her and at the same time pushing her away, these kind of moves are so lethal when it comes to turning on women, she will want to swallow you, go try out this kind of thing right now)

Her: Hahahahaha, you so funny (she will get so hot). You: Of course, life would wish to be so fair on you and good, the only problem is maybe you will start bragging, haha. Now, teasing doesn't only end in the attraction stage, even during your interaction with her, you have to continue teasing her. Here are the ways. 1. Tease her for anything silly or bad that she does (but don’t be mean here) I said tease, not embarrass, or insult. 2. You have to tease her for anything good, or romantic she is doing. Here is an example. Let’s say, you flirting with her, and she smiles. Right here, you don't want just to smile back. Instead, you tease her by saying, “I know why you are acting cool and sexy, you trying to seduce me, huh?”(More sexual tension). Don't agree with her opinions that easily, I know this sounds counter-intuitive especially to those who want to play it safe. But here is the logic, by showing her that you respect but don't just agree with her points of view you appear like a confident, natural man who isn't just playing it nice to win her. Here is an example. You might be talking to her and she says,” look at the other guy, just too shabby, what is he doing here?” Now, most "Cool boys” would rush to agree with her like…Yeah, he is too shabby to be here. But never, instead this is what you do, tell her, “I think that guy is smart, you just feeling envious about him, who knows, he might be your worst ex ever” (as you smile). 3.

Tease her about anything she tries to inquire from you.

Now, most of you might be thinking that when a woman asks anything from you, you just rush to answer, but that's for novices. Instead, you do a different thing from the crowd. Here is how. She might ask, “So where do you come from?” First of all, when a woman is inquiring about you, this is a sure sign that she is interested in you. But here is the most interesting thing, don’t just give it to her that easily, let her dig for it, this serves to increase attraction and build more sexual tension. Do this, tell her, “So, you now acting like a criminal investigator, hope you aren’t a CIA agent”. Her: Hahahaha, you funny. You: So what! (As you smile) Her: Hahahaha.

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You: maybe….then you can tell it to her, like anyway, “I come from Blah blah but I hate stalkers”. Tease her about any compliment she gives you.

Here is what I mean, if you start using the tease technique you will notice how, women will start raising interest for you in just a few minutes sometimes seconds of your interaction, and they might start complimenting you instead of you/them(yes, this is the Zen Art Of Seduction, a woman is supposed to seduce herself). Therefore, you don't just want to give in to their compliments like that; this shows neediness and low selfconfidence. This is how you go about it, let’s say she is now getting excited about you, she is yearning to have you. She might say, “You such a charming guy, I like you”.

Tell her: Haha, you saying that just to easily slip into my pants, right? (I know, This is a very bold move, but making such moves is what differentiates you from novices) and very attractive women love these kind of moves, they challenge them to the core because they aren't used to guys repelling them like this, all they get in their world is a flock of cheap folks kneeling down to any favor they want. That's why if you do it this way, they will start to take you like a high-class man.

The touch and whisper techniques. These are other two techniques that are dangerously effective when it comes to approaching and winning ladies. You see when we meet with people, we humans have a tendency of categorizing them almost automatically. It's usually not your choice to categorize someone as friend or lover; this often comes from the way we interact with them. The touch and whisper techniques are one of the most advanced techniques of making a woman go romantic with you within no time. Damn! It’s like hacking attraction. First of all, which people usually whisper to one another? Close ones, lovers isn’t it. By whispering to her, therefore, even if you have just met her, she will start associating you with a lover (this happens subconsciously), you also appear to be more romantic, you break all the barriers around her and get so close to her. Whispering is a very deadly technique of showing other people that you close to them, but it is dangerously unfair if you do it the way am going to teach it to you. Use the soft romantic voice Which kind of voice is this, and how do I tune it on? You have this voice; it usually turns on when you are getting horny and getting romantic. Here is the way to toggle it on automatically, just imagine the girl you talking to naked, or may be in her pants. This cannot leave you the same in fact your voice will change the tonality right away. If you whisper to her just with that voice close to her ear, then she will feel aroused by your words, it doesn't matter what you are talking

about but just do it that way, you will be amazed by the results.

The touch technique. This is another effective technique especially when you have just met with a woman. You want to be talking to her while touching her. Touching is the best way to make a woman feel you, not just understand you but feel you, sensory. But there is a way of touching a woman which makes her feel special about you, and feel that you really care about her This is a gentle touch; you touch her while moving and wrapping your hand around her. And ensure that you do this while talking to her, this is even very effective while you are whispering to her. In an interaction, you don't want your hand to be on her for long. Therefore you touch her for about 2 to 3 seconds and remove your hand. As you talking. Very very important, ensure that your touching is moving with words, such that her conscious mind is taken by what you have to say as you touch. This is another way of making her pay attention to what you are saying. When you have just met a woman, the worst mistake you can make is to rush things and go sexual when you have not gained enough relationship with her. Therefore this gentle touch, though is good, shouldn’t go for sexual parts like thighs, or breasts. The best places to touch a lady are her hands, shoulders at the back of her neck. Those parts are very sensitive, but most importantly no woman will have issues with you if you touch them.

N.B: Never touch a woman when you aren't talking to her, you appear so weird, and this raises her guards.

The transition stage- Acceptance. During the first stage of your interaction as we said, you want to be fun playful and intriguing. Now just after that stage, there is some subtle transition which takes place that if you skip, you might have difficulties creating rapport with a woman. And most importantly what this small transition does is make a woman appreciate that you have indeed accepted her for who she is, and that she is a different girl from the ones you have met. That's why during this stage, it will be very helpful if you can notice some quality in a girl, this shouldn't be beauty. It can be being open, playful, stubborn just anything you can consider interesting, may be being exciting. You have to pull out that quality and let her know. Here is one way to go about it. You can tell her this, I have met many girls, but there is this one thing about you. Of course, she will be so curious…like. What? You: You seem to be a very funful and playful person who is very okay interacting with others, I like the way you respond to my teases, you don’t take it personal. Just point out qualities that you see in her right there, you can also add in general good qualities in ladies. But it works really well when these qualities rhyme with her; she will feel like you understand and appreciate her better than other guys. Now, subtle as such a step might take, if you don’t do it especially after your first phase of interaction where you about to move into rapport building, then she will be interacting with you like any other man, she won’t feel she is special to you.

Doing such subtle things at the right time brings up what we call consistency. And also, I go into rapport just after this because after accepting a woman for who she is, she cannot have any objection connecting with you. In fact, much as most women are always insecure to reveal their feelings to new people after that, she will emotionally connect with you very well. Knowing when to say such things is what makes you a real success with women, they will feel like you know how to touch them. Even if you don't necessarily spot the qualities unique to this lady, by telling her such general comment, you will be planting an idea in her mind which she will have to fulfill. Think of it like this, imagine meeting a stranger and tells you that the way you give them eye contact you seem to be an honest person, now even if you aren't one, you might be forced just to fulfill the mans' prophecy. This is the same way this thing works, in fact, you can use this ploy to plant ideas in a woman's mind without her notice.

Qualifying. The other stage that is really crucial is the qualifying. If you can take a woman through this stage, then you have really succeeded with her. Here is why You see women naturally crave for qualification, they usually want to earn your attraction, they want to feel like they have earned your approval. Now if you just give it to them without qualifying them, then they feel like you aren’t the right person, it will usually take a short time until they get done with you. So how do you qualify a woman and make her feel like she has just worked to get you? There are many ways of doing this, but one of the best and easiest methodological ways is asking her questions about her. Now, this is reverse psychology; you use the backdoor to hack into a woman's mind. Ask her this: Jane, am I just curious about you if you are told to name, what are your 3 top qualities that you like about yourself. Now the reason why this thing works and has always worked to make women hooked to you is that during the process of searching for their top qualities they will be struggling to impress you, and when a woman does this, then she is indirectly qualifying herself to you. Let’s say she names…..loving, kind and loyal. You should acknowledge whatever she says else, she will feel like she has sold her best self to you but you couldn’t appreciate. Just say anything like wow, that's very interesting, after here we go into a very crucial stage, and that's building rapport. Nb. The reason why such a way of qualifying works is the exact opposite why trying to be nice to a woman will often undersell you,

yes even trying to brag about your accomplishments will undersell you. Why? Because just like the above method, when you start bragging about your achievements whether you aren't asked or asked, then you are indirectly trying to qualify yourself to a woman and this is something we strictly prohibit in the Zen Art of Seduction, it should be a woman’s job to qualify herself to you not the other way round. In fact, sometimes after a woman has given you her top qualities, she might also ask for yours, but here is the secret. Never give her positive qualities. Instead, this is what you do. Give her bad ones (not necessarily bad) but qualities which could be provocative. For example, you can give her the following. Tell her, am stubborn, crazy, feelingless, and so teasy. You can tell her “Am so stupid, but I know it."(I know it sounds counterintuitive but try me here). Then add, I think you just unlucky because you knocked, am not the kind of guy you would want to hang out with (as you smile of course). What this does is it makes you act like you aren’t trying to qualify yourself to her. Reverse psychology! Instead of qualifying yourself, you instead disqualify yourself to her, it just sky rockets attraction. In fact, the more she feels you are right for her, the more you act like you aren't, tell her that she made a mistake in the first place to deal with you and that she is still making more mistakes. The bigger picture is if you give her good qualities to her then you will be trying to sell yourself to her, and there is no greatest killer of

attraction like such. More about this question qualifier. When you are dealing with different ladies, you will find that every woman will give you different qualities depending on her personality. However, there is one category of women you should be careful with if a woman is asked about her top qualities and she does exactly what I have just told you to do. I mean, she gives bad qualities about example….stubborn, heartbreaking, and tough.

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Just know that she is way too confident because such a woman like I said above isn't trying to sell herself to you, she is just disqualifying herself to you, this category of women is likely gonna be very hot and really attractive. I used to find a hard time with women who try to disqualify themselves to me; you know it just freezes you cold at first. In other words, she is saying that she only has bad qualities, and you shouldn't go for her, but I eventually figured out a way of navigating them still. Before I tell it to you, let me first talk about this. Have you ever told a woman that you like her, and she immediately says oh, I like you very much (just to tease you) in fact, I love you already? These kinds of moves need master seducers to neutralize them, so here is what I usually do. Again this is a tai-chi precept, correlating with the Zen attitude…… Always use your opponent's energy to beat them, it's just too much for you not to utilize it. So what I do is, go alone with her teases like….."Oh, you love me already? That's awesome; I came with a ring lets go get married."

Most ladies would just laugh right here, and just continue with my teasing, like…"AM gonna marry you for only tonight, come on this has never happened, join me, and we make history." I think you get the point, what I do there is use the technique a woman raised against her, you might think she is helping me to seduce her. This is the same thing you do when a woman disqualifies herself to you, just use her energy against her. Here is how. Let's use the example above, you asked for her top qualities, and she teasingly says…."Am stubborn, heartbreaking, and tough." What I can do there is tease her using her own points, I go…"You such a crazy girl, you must have disturbed your parents in your childhood." Her: Hahaha, not really, I was a cool kid (do you see the way, I reverse the game such that she starts defending herself and indirectly seeking for approval from me). Me: Here is one other dangerous thing, I think of you (I don’t reveal it as yet, leave her imagination run wild) Her: What’s that? (Now, she is the one curious about me, and I like it that way) Me: I doubt you even have a heart which feels, your heart might be like hard disk (as a smile). Her: Hahaha, why are you saying that. Me: From the qualities you told me, I doubt you have a sense of feeling and empathy, it's likely someone can touch you today, and you feel it after a decade (You see how I tease her using her own bad qualities she gave me) Her: No, it's not like that, I'm human, and I feel (here again she qualifies herself to me, which I really like.

That was just an illustration, but you must be on the look for these anomalies, some women might tend to act too stubborn and high class but always find a way of neutralizing them. Another way of qualifying women. Here, I will begin by asking you an innocent question, how often do hot gorgeous girls get the" I want us to be just friends with you" kind of speech, the answer is none, and that's the most interesting bit of it, knowing that every single man who approaches this kind of girls wants to kneel for them and penetrate their pants as fast as possible, you act different, here is how. Before I tell you that, here is one thing you might have come across, if you have tried out a couple of hot gorgeous women, you will realize that they logically have many rules and barriers. What do I mean? Here is the thing, because these girls are hit on by many guys, they have developed a lot of defense mechanisms to filter out guys, one of them is setting rules. I approached some hot girls, but one of the first things they would say to me at the beginning of the interaction would be along these lines…. You know, I want us to be just friends and below are the rules of our friendship. 1. You don’t over stalk on me. 2. I don’t want friends who call me for no reason. 3. I just want us to be friends, don’t cross the lines. When I was just starting, such rules would make me back down, cause I always thought I had hit a dead end, until I came up with ways of navigating the rules and objections.

There a couple of ways to navigate and neutralize those objections but there is a very advanced and effective way that I came up with. And here it is……..If you know someone’s favorite weapon use it against them before they use it on you. What! What I would do then, is reverse the game, such that am the one to set the rules(I wouldn’t wait before she sets the rules for me) and trust me, this worked like gang busters……I should admit it’s one of the most advanced mind control tactics. These would be my rules, just as they set them. This, of course, should be done after reaching the climax of attraction, those moments when she is enjoying a good time with you, she doesn't want you to leave. Now what you do is tell her, “You know I would make you my friend but I don’t know whether you will abide by the rules”. Here she will get serious and might be like……which rules? Then mention them like. 1. I would explicitly tell her, that I just want us to be friends nothing more. 2. That I hate girls who over stalk and keep calling you for no good reason. 3. I don’t want her to cross the lines of friendship. And guess what, doing that you might think I was inviting a lion to come and spectate a meat party, women would want to chase me, and they would get so interested in me. One thing I learnt is, if you can act like you out of league for a woman to date, that’s when she will want to chase you most. There is one thing I want to awaken to your imagination, we have been talking about attraction, but one thing you should understand

about attraction is the fact that It’s very fickle and volatile, it dies so fast. The fact is, you approach a woman to seduce her but you can't just start seducing her without establishing rapport, then she will repel you. Equally, you cannot start building rapport with a woman unless you have first made her build interest in you, else you get friend zoned this is a concept we fully revised in the section above. Therefore after establishing attraction with a woman, the next thing should be to build rapport, and you have to do this right away when her interest in you is still on the top. This is the next chapter, ensure that you understand it very well, because it's a bit different from attraction, it's a bit serious stage where you supposed to make a woman trust you. Just a Reminder: If you have anything you would want to comment about this book, please feel free to leave an honest review on Amazon, for your feedback is so important in helping me know what you want.

CHAPTER TWO

Rapport What the heck is it? Rapport is nothing but an emotional bond between two people; it is a sensible level of understanding between two parties. Rapport is so essential not only in seduction but also other places like business. In the world of business, people cannot trade with you unless they trust you. This isn't something you can joke around with, unlike the stage of attraction where you are just giving fun and being playful, when it comes down to rapport you really have to get serious. Rapport is what makes two people free with one another, where they might not necessarily agree with one another but respect one another. Like we said earlier, seduction isn't a one- time move, you cannot just say single sleazy pickup line and think…..Gosh! She is ready to go home with me. It is a step by step process. How then do you establish rapport with a woman? It may seem like it's a far-fetched thing, but I assure you it's very simple and you have been doing this kind of thing all your life but may be you didn't know what you were doing and how you were doing it. You build rapport by opening up to the other person, sharing little stories about your lives experiences that you have gone through, and being free with them. Rapport requires you to bring up a friendly attitude towards a woman, think of all things you would want to share with friends, how you would show trust and sincerity to them. Now for those of you who might be wondering the essence of building friendship with a woman yet you have already teased her, made her feel excited about you may be even so interested in you.

The answer is simple, you have to build trust with her, and you have to make her trust you, such that she doesn't see you like any other guy. Now some people might skip this stage and go straight to bedding a woman or having sex with her, and when you do that, something dangerous is likely gonna hinder you. A woman will start feeling like she doesn’t trust you, she will see you as some crook who is just too fast to use her and dump her. Am telling you even if that’s your intention you better not show it, because it will surely ruin your chances of having a relationship, or sex or anything you want from that woman. Women, by the way, would easily open up and go so sexual with men but they are usually so afraid of the repercussions. What if you are just playing her? What if you want to hurt her? What if you want to hit and run? What if you see her as a hoe? How will her friends view her? Now, all those kinds of worries can be settled by making a woman trust you. And when that is done, then you can do just anything with a woman, she will be all yours. Am not going to give you a methodological way of building rapport but rather a natural way which you and I use every day to create emotional bonds with the people we interact with. Before we get into that, there is something that I would wish to make clear here

Is it very possible to be with a person for ages when you lack rapport with them, if so, how do you know? You see, we humans are emotional creatures and more often than not we learn to trust people based on emotions than logic and reasoning. That is why when someone shares a secret with us, they

make us get closer to them, when they reveal to us what they are feeling, they make us feel secure at least emotionally around them, and else why would they hide their emotions. Many people may think that rapport is limited understanding and respecting one another, but it isn't necessarily like that. In fact, many people can be dealing very well, understanding one another when they aren't free, when they can't open up freely. This is very possible especially in offices where one person is above another, and they fear to express themselves authentically and realistically, this kind of respect and fear isn't natural, and people will always see through it, they will know you just trying to impress them, and you aren't being sincere with them. I should say it's better to be natural and sincere instead of being too cool and polite for school. It's not only in offices but even in relationships and marriages; certain couples don't have true rapport amongst themselves. You will find a woman or a man being so nice to their spouse that they do almost anything they are told to, it can go on like that unless you interrupt the pattern.

Rapport pattern interrupt. One of the ways of creating natural resourceful rapport amongst parties is by breaking the existing pattern, here is how. Let's say, whenever your partner tells you to do something you just meekly agree without question (because you’re afraid to say No”, next time they tell you to do something that you feel isn't okay, try to disagree and give your reasons for such. That way, they will start to see you from another angle, and they will begin to respect you. Another way of breaking a pattern is by discussing matters you never have. Let's say there is a brother of yours; you aren't very free with; your conversation can only go as far as….Hi, how you, how was your day? Next time you talk to them, just ask how their sweetheart is doing, keep talking about such emotional conversations with them until you feel you and them are so free to. Lastly, there is what I call contextual rapport; this is the kind of rapport that a group of people can have especially when they tend to engage in same hobby or activity, let's say sports, reading or even stealing. Sometimes it comes from the fact that you sharing the same difficulty hence you are alike, you just naturally bond. This kind of rapport though natural and sincere, is usually limited. This is because you only narrow it in one area, if you soccer fans, every time you meet you discuss nothing but soccer, this means that had soccer not been there then there is nothing serious that would bond you. Many people think they have rapport with others yet they only having contextual rapport. The way to break from that kind of limited rapport and be very free with one another is by talking about other things but the one you usually bond on. If you have a chess player friend of yours and

whenever you meet, you discuss chess positions, next time you meet ask him about, his favorite sex position, whether he loves skinny babes or fat ones, and what he looks for in ladies. That way you will be able to bond with him in a wider range, you will start having more things in common hence strengthening your bond, you will find yourself even going to parties together, and many other more. We now gonna talk about a very basic but tremendous wheel of building rapport and that’s story telling.

Advanced story telling techniques

One little story can take a woman on heck of a trip, we all feast on stories. There is nothing which captivates a human mind like a compelling story. Women love stories for your notice, but most people just don’t know how to craft attention grabbing stories. When you are crafting your stories, you wanna make sure that they are as ambiguous as unclear to easily figure out. This can be done, by deleting some information from your story, such it just serves to open more and more questions from the woman’s mind. Once you can keep her mind that captivated then she won’t be able to survive you. And never complete your story, always leave it hanging to make her more hooked in that, she can want to keep yearning for more (I think you know how soaps and movies do) For instance, you can go like. Damn! It was very tight, that guy was so horrible, I don’t know how I survived it. As you can see the above statement is likely going to arouse many questions e.g.# What is it that was tight? # Which guy was horrible?

# What and how did you survive? This can serve to leave her unsatisfied and want to get a clear picture. And if you didn’t know, The more you can keep a lady in the mode of…”I don’t understand you” the more romantically hooked to you she will be. Ladies will always want to understand guys that are unclear, but they never like guys who are plain papers to read. Ensure that in crafting your stories, you are as ambiguous as possible so that whatever you are telling her, it has a couple of interpretations that leave her mind going wild. This is another way of engaging her mind; it might also tend to bring some sort of confusion to her mind (and you always want her to be in this state of mind). If you say something, and she finds it hard to get it right away, she struggles to ensure that she makes sense of it, and the harder she does this, the more you engage her mind. The key here is to leave things bubbling up her mind for long, don’t rush to release the tension.

Elements of a good story #It should be intriguing, attention grabbing. #Element of briefness, not too long to take a year. # Element of unclearness. #Element of conflict (many things being at stake) Where to get interesting stories You may think that you have to storm libraries read romantic book after book to get stories to tell, but that would be somehow boring, you have come a long way, you have been on this green oscillating planet for long, you have a lot to tell the world. Use your life stories. The reason why this strategy works like magic, is that when you are telling an your story, you revive those memories back, if you had tension, fear and weren’t sure what to do then, it will show up on your face, and she will really like it, this is another element that makes good stories, they affect people’s emotions. That’s what you want to do. The short come. Much as it’s interesting to tell a lady about your stories, it will be a turnoff if you start telling her about your victories and successes, keep that a side, as you already know, good things never make good news, the most interesting part of our lives have been those tough situations we have gone through with faith not being unsure whether we would make it. Besides You never want to appear as a guy trying to brag to her; no woman will tolerate this. Examples.

#You can tell her about how you used to escape from school during your high school, and how you narrowly survived when the guards stumbled over you, how dangerous it was because it would lead you to an expulsion from schools, how your heart was pounding, and how you can #never forget it. #Tell her about those bad things which spoilt your trip (how you nearly survived accidents for reckless driving, and how you were nearly going to be arrested) these are things which make women go Oh! That was so horrible, triggering their empathy emotions. #Tell her some of the risky things you have ever tried out, it could be mountain climbing, sky diving, skiing or any of those activities which are known to trigger adrenaline rush into blood. As you doing that, don't forget all the details of the experience, feelings, how your heart beat faster and how relieved you felt afterward. (Details of a story are so important to ladies). #Tell her about one of your most horrible nights, how you were so scared, the darkness, you couldn’t see anything. And how you were hearing funny sounds, how this triggered the past stories you used to hear and watch in movies about monsters. Oh, my God, I thought like vampires were gonna come for me. Throw in such frightening lines, to make her feel, cold. These are the kind of things ladies want to hear, and I'm quite certain that, you have many of them. The reason why we #recommend this is because by doing so, you look more ~authentic and this is what will sweep her away.

Conversation hooks Good story tellers don't just have good stories to tell, but they know how to tell them. These people can keep their listeners excited and thrilled by some of the spicy lines that they insert in their stories; these are lines which leave their audience pending. Here are some of them. #1.You gonna love this………….By saying that, you make her mind pay more attention to whatever you are about to say, keeping her more attentive and you will find that she will enjoy it. #2. What made it even more interesting was……………then say it. #3. This made my heart to start pumping really fast,…then reveal it. #4. You couldn’t believe what happened next………..then say it. #5. Everyone loved this next one……….then say it. #6.This was just too exciting…………reveal it. You see, the essence of stories is to make someone’s conscious mind wonder in the details as they release their defenses. It’s how movies sell like crazy! Mastering the art of crafting nice, intriguing stories alone can put you on a higher edge in seduction. What’s so unique about movies? Have you ever come to realize that a movie is nothing but some crafted story that actors display. But there is something about story telling that has made it almost magical that even therapists can fix their subjects by just narrating stories to them. The most interesting bit of stories is that if it captures your target’s attention, then they will have to ~follow it and more than that, for them to make sense in the story, they will have to get lost in it. This is a psychology flaw wired deeply in a human mind.

The human mind cannot differentiate between something imagined and real, so by telling a story, it’s like you are instructing someone to experience the things in it. Some people just don't know how to describe stories; you should ensure that you portray whatever you talking about in your voice For example, if the experience was scaring, you should show this in your gestures, if it was exciting enough do the same, remember the subconscious mind picks more on the gestures and the non-verbal signals than the conscious language. Another thing you can do is to reinforce the story by asking her to imagine being in such a situation. For example amidst the story just to reflect and emphasize what you have just narrated, you can ask her….. Imagine, moving at night, alone on the streets; then you see some tall guy walking towards you at a very fast speed, how does that feel? Here you would be dipping her deeper into your stories. You don’t have to be a woman’s friend to be able to connect with her, some people have erroneously led themselves to believe that connecting with other people especially women comes as a result of special thing which just have to be there, destiny or sort. But that's not true, and here I will show you that rapport is something which can be established right away. As a matter of fact, I will give you a fool-proof way of pulling out rapport even to a total stranger you have met, in a matter of minutes, and even send her to Romancehood. You will be a star at this. These are the steps #1 start off by talking about something which might apply to her right off (in NLP this is called pacing)- I will reveal this more in details later. This usually helps you to be on the same page.

#2 increase the bond by getting into her more and maintaining the interest, be a good listener, inquire more about her story. #3 if you feel she is now into you, then now start tapping into her romantic side, #4 If you start flirting with her sexually and she is alright, you can then start touching her in a non-sexual way. #5 If she responds to your non-sexual touches, then you can start touching her in sexual ways. But start with the less sexual parts, like her hair, her neck. Always follow the above steps sequentially (don’t skip any of them), and if you move to the next and she feels a bit awkward, then first go back to the previous stage and do it better. Another important thing to note is trying to distract her with words as you touch her such that her conscious mind focuses on the things you are saying as you do the touching, this way you will bypass her guards and she will give you little resistance. Never touch a woman while you are silent because she likely objects it, so utilize this natural flaw in human mind. A human mind cannot concentrate on two things at the same time, if you touch her as you speaking, she will be listening to you, so she won't mind about the touch consciously, but her subconscious will feel you. And never look wherever you are touching, this makes a woman feel awkward, and she will probably throw out her defenses. Another point to note is, the above steps can be done as fast as in minutes or hours, days, weeks or even months, depending on what you want or the time at your disposal or your degree of expertise. It’s all about you.

However, in Zen Seduction, we recommend you do things a bit fast (this doesn’t mean that you have to rush) the more time you give a lady to think of something, the more likely to turn you down, giving a woman more time means making her more indecisive. Master seducers know this, even con men are aware that if you are to persuade someone very well, then you have got to be pretty fast before other things intervene to distract your target. It works pretty well when you run all those steps in one day or night, that way you can push a lady into an emotional tour that she will get lost in feelings. It is important to note that ladies get warmed up, and can also get warmed down within no time. Everything in the first two chapters was about teaching you how to approach, connect with ladies, building rapport, impressing upon them and building trust, principles sure not to be taken for granted. It was aimed at helping you open up ladies and quickly winning their ways of thinking. What we are about to uncover in the next chapter will tremendously deal with your confidence as a man, we will teach you things which will blow your mind. Am quite sure that finishing the following chapter will increase your confidence and composure around ladies and even other men by far. We will show how to portray confidence using your body language. Hurry! You don’t want to miss this!.

CHAPTER THREE. How to seduce women using killer body language. Why you should work on your Body Language. Body language is one thing that keeps telling others about yourself without your awareness; they also register the message you're posting to their subconscious without being aware consciously, nevertheless they use this information to make decisions about you. In fact, your body language speaks volumes about you, and people (especially) trust it more than your words. You will see that by working on just your body language, your attractiveness increases by volumes. The truth of the matter is your body language works on a subconscious level, and yes! Most of your body language is natural not intentioned; it stems all the way from your emotions. We cannot stress enough about body language, but what you have to know is that most of the seduction takes through body language. There are basically two types of body language. 1. Dominant body language. 2. Negative and positive body language. The dominant posture. When you meet with a lady, you can Subconsciously show her that you are More Dominant and of Higher status than her. You don’t have to say this and you shouldn’t. However, you just portray it in your body language and gestures. When you are speaking maintain clear eye contact. And try to use your hand gestures to drive a point home.

Trust me on that, people around you and herself will somehow see you as a dominant person who is in control of the conversation, and ensure that your voice is higher than hers to illustrate your dominance further. But don't be so tense, just do it in a relaxed, poised manner. A key to note about this dominance is your *consciousness. You should have a higher projected self-image, about yourself and to the extent that you believe it will be to the very degree you will portray it. Here in we will discuss in details how you can cultivate confident body language that will make women, and everyone else respect you.

Use of gestures

Politicians, motivation speakers and leaders use this a lot, if you didn’t know Whenever you are listening to somebody talk, your conscious mind usually focuses on the words, since it’s logical and analytical. On the other hand, the subconscious mind focuses on the gestures and other non-verbal cues, things like *facial expression **tone of the voice, **hand movements. Even musicians know this ever look at a rapper rhyming, he cannot almost do it without using gestures, lest we won’t feel him. So, the first thing you do when you have just approached a lady is to talk to her while you are using gestures, these make your target subconsciously feel that you are a confident person, and she will instinctively start paying closer attention to you, not just her but everyone else around you, will notice that you might be a guy in control of your space worth listening to. Gestures(especially hands) have a tendency of holding people’s attention tight, just walk into a room full of people and the first person

to draw your attention will be the one using gestures while conversing. As you will see; This does not only work in seduction but in every other aspect of life, if you master this ability then you will immensely attain the powers to influence anyone to do anything without their notice. The key to be noted. On your body language there are two things you can do, you either change your beliefs which will eventually change everything, including your body language or just work on your body language which will also affect your beliefs. Talking about body language isn’t just metaphorical, this is something you can just try out and test for yourself. So if you really want to exhibit confidence and power, you just need to walk, sit and stand in just certain way and you will immediately feel the power. We will start with walking.

Walking style. Your walking style is one of the most important elements of body language, in that it works on the peripheral vision, and peripheral vision works on the subconscious level. It is found on spotting movement even of slight twitch. When you are on the street walking, the fact is people see you before they actually see you. I mean they first see you subconsciously and then consciously If you will change your walking style to what am gonna recommend here, you will find that people will start staring at you, at least you will pull their attention whenever you’re moving. So here are the protocols. 1. Ensure that your eyes are parallel to the ground, don’t look down or up I always say your eyes must be on the eye level with others. And as you are walking keep looking people in their eyes, or at their eyes if they aren't looking straight at you. 2. Your chin and head should be straight not slouching down. 3. Then take long strides, these exhibit confidence, and dominance as you occupy more space. 4. Your shoulders should remain back and down, don’t raise them, that is a sign of weakness. 5. Carry the weight of your body, on the ankles, never move on toes. You should always move with your neck straight and feel as you move, your movements should show someone that you are very proud of what you are, as far as your feeling will be the same as others will feel. Always move with a proud chest, and be present and aware of every step you make.

Women, know how to read gestures, a guy can just coldly move into a room, and in just seconds, they would have known the class he falls into. Your locomotion portrays much of yourself, am going to give you some mantra you can always repeat to yourself as you entering some special place. Say this… *I am an Alpha man, **I demand attention ***I control everything in my reality. This will put you into a state of #presence, and most importantly it will boost your confidence, and you will feel some sort of *power, as you repeat it.

Something to note. We can illustrate how to look Dominant and Confident from here to there until cows come home, but let me give you a short cut to this whole thing. You see, generally, if you feel proud of yourself, every other person will feel that, when you are moving. Move with swag, as proudly as you #want. The more you feel yourself, the more people around you will. You see some men will move with slouched body, with no energy in their body, they just look lifeless and of course undesirable to ladies. You should be VIBRANT, and a very strong person. Try this Next time you are going for a party or any social gathering, start moving with all the swag that you can pull out, and you will see how the crowd will start gluing their eyes on you.

Standing posture While standing, always control the space around you, the best posture is to spread your legs apart and be relaxed let your hands show that you are the man around. Just looking at a group of people standing, one can be able to differentiate between them, you can know. #1.The most dominant in that interaction? #2. Who is more submissive to others? #3. Who is more confident, about themselves? Women almost pick up on these things *subconsciously. One of my best postures whenever am speaking to ladies is this I stand straight, and never bend my neck towards her, I just turn my head alone but not any other part. NB: Never bend your body, or neck towards a woman, this subconsciously shows neediness and low self-confidences, it’s like you’re trying to chase her using your body language. Now chasing a woman with words might be bad but doing it with body language is even worse. When standing here are some here are some protocols to observe. 1. Always occupy more space around you, take up that space. 2. Your legs should be spread apart not very wide. 3. Again you should be relaxed. 4. Don’t lean on anything, stand straight. 5. Don't slouch your head unless you're checking for something of which you should finish and go back.

The eye contact

If there is anything you need to work on to sky rocket your confidence then, it should be the EYE. I used to play around with this powerful organ, underutilizing it, avoiding eye confrontation; but the day I realized the immense power of the eye was a complete game changer for me. In fact, however cool it seems, I never ever want to put on sun glasses.-NEVER! Here is how it comes to me, imagine having nuclear weapons and you decide to engage an enemy with knives and swords. Ignorant, huh-maybe even stupid, especially if he beats you? Did you know that you can flirt by use of just your eyes, build sexual tension? Yes you can even control people, fight them or neutralize their attacks by just using your eyes. Yes you can even control people, fight them or neutralize their attacks by just using your eyes. Your eyes are just too powerful not just in seduction but equally well in other day to day interactions, ever pay attention to salesmen, these are guys who have realized the power of the eye. As a confident Alpha Male, you should be able to give people a clear eye contact, when you are speaking to people give them a strong eye contact; this usually shows that you are a confident man and honest and also catches their attention. In the first few minutes you meet a lady, you should constantly look straight in her eyes, as you talk to her.

However, the eye transcends just confidence, if you didn't know the *eye has the power to transmit thought waves into another person. I know you might not have heard of that. Master hypnotists have attained an ability to just look straight in their subjects' eye and push them into a state of trance. We cannot emphasize enough about this organ, you can’t just afford to not use it. Not to admit there are many people who come from societies with certain cultural restrictions, I have many guys who feel uncomfortable giving off clear eye contact. Ridiculously in certain societies, looking people (especially elders) straight in the eye is a sign of disrespect, in fact some children will not want to look their parents straight in the eyes, so they get used to not doing that, even when they grow up they still carry on this limiting trait in their adulthood. If you happen to be a person who falls into that category and you now feel like its time to unlock the unlimited potential of your eyes, am now going to give you some simple eye exercises which will help you get more confident and feel very comfortable maintaining steady eye contact.

The eye exercises I will now give you some simple *eye exercises you can use to enable you maintain *eye contact with people. Exercise No.1 Stand before your mirror, gaze positively and firmly at your own mirror therein, just as you would gaze towards another person. Imagine you are talking to another person Then say this I am strong. I am very confident.

Repeat for a couple of times (as you, believe the words you are saying) Notice how powerful you feel about yourself. Exercise No.2 Take a piece of white writing paper about six inches square, upon which you have drawn a circle size of a coin, the circle then being filled with black(or blue ink) so that the spot will stand out black and distinct upon the white background. Pin the paper on the wall at the height of your eyes when seated. Fix your eyes steadily upon the black spot, and gaze at it firmly, without winking for a minute. After resting the eyes, practice the exercise again, repeat it for five times, with your chair still in its original position, move your paper three feet to the right of its original position. Seat yourself and fix your gaze on the wall directly in front of you, then without moving the head, cast the eyes to the right and gaze steadily at the spot for one minute. Repeat for four times Then place the paper on the wall three feet to the left of its original position, gaze steadily at the spot for one minute, repeat five times. Continue the exercise for three days as you increase the time to three minutes and so on increasing the time by one minute increment every three days period to up to 12 minutes. Now you might go beyond that if you are interested, but twelve will be enough.

Using the eye as a seductive tool When it comes to seduction, there is no single organ you can use to flirt, seduce and build immense sexual tension in a woman like the eye. You know attraction, love and all these emotional things are on the subconscious level and I don’t know whether you are aware of this but the language of the subconscious mind is Body language. That follows that if you want to evoke emotions of attraction, or empathy or sexuality-then you have to use your body, not just words. Speaking about your body parts, one way of building sexual tension in a woman is this; Next time you on a party or any outing, and you spot a *girl that you really interested in, try this- keep looking straight in her eyes, ensure that you maintain the eye contact long enough such that she is the one to feel *uncomfortable. Every time you get an opportunity, just look straight in her eyes, repeat it for about three or four times. If you do this pretty well , she will feel that may be you know about her or she knows you, but more than anything, you will give her a ~signal that you might be *interested in her. Of course you don’t just give eye contact and you sit back; eye contact is like preparing the stage for the event. Therefore just after it, you must go and approach her, if you don’t then she will get a feeling that you might be interested in her but you just lucking enough b*lls to go for it. Luckily there is even an easier way that I came up with, I think you came across it in the section of approach techniques but for the case of making sure we are on the same page with everyone, I will have to repeat it here. So, you two have been exchanging eye contact with her, she now feels like you have something to say, she is also looking at you once in a while, eagerly waiting for your move it’s like throwing one shoe

people always wait for the second to come down for things to make sense. Now this is what you do, Move straight to her then tell her this, “I saw you looking at me with seductive eyes, what are you up to, are you trying to seduce me” Yes, you have to be this BOLD, usually 9/10 ladies I use this on just excitedly laugh or smile, going, “seducing you? Get serious” Then here you can start officially flirting with her, just press her a bit like,”Oh No! Don’t pretend, am a mature person I can tell a spoon from a ladle”-For more of such, you will have to revisit the Tease technique. Scientific research has it on record that intense eye contact can increase love and affection between two partners. Powerful eye contact immediately stimulates strong feelings of affection However you should understand the type of eye contact we are talking about here, this isn't just staring, looking at eye lashes, but gazing straight into her eye balls. In essence eye ball to eye ball. And maintain that gaze whenever you are speaking to her, by doing so you will delude her *subconscious into liking you.

How much eye contact are you supposed to give her? It should be #intense eye contact, the more, the better, and the more the affection she feels for you. Sometimes in your interactions with her, you might just pause for a few seconds and look straight into her eyes, as though you are an optician looking for her optical nerves. This will likely leave her going……..what ‘sup? Just do it again. Initiating Bedroom eyes.

Have you ever seen two people in love, the way they look at each other when they are getting turned on? Let’s face it, this isn’t something unique, every one of us has this type of look, it usually happens on auto-pilot; our pupils tend to widen, the blinking rate slows down automatically our breath also deepens. This usually happens subconsciously. However, I will show you a way of initiating it consciously. Here is how to go about it. Just look at one of the most attractive parts of your partner, you will feel some *sensation in your body, and your pupils will widen automatically. If you start looking at her with these eyes, she will also copy you subconsciously, if you do it well, you will sense changes in the size of her pupils.

The eye contact game Knowing that maintaining eye contact with your partner increases the affection (or love) you have for one another, a smart person wouldn’t joke with this kind of thing. Here is what I did There is a game I used to play during my childhood. It was all about gazing into each other’s eyes, without blinking. The one who blinks first loses the game. I thought about it and knew it would be a powerful weapon in seduction. What you do is provoke her, that there is some eye game you are gonna play with her, as described above.

Then you start your eye contact business, whoever blinks first loses the game, as you see, this will tend to engage her into competing with you (but you know what you up to, huh?). Make it interesting; you can smile while doing it, and enjoy it. Repeat it for a couple of times, may be 3 or 4 times. And you make sure she wins most to motivate her.

Navigating her body using the eyes. As you are busy, conversing with your partner, let your eyes navigate her body. However, you should go slow on this, step by step. Do this First, start with the nonsexual parts Let your eyes move all over her face, nose, and mouth, but more emphasis on her eyes. If she enjoys it pretty much, then you can proceed to the neck, shoulders and her torso. If you feel she is getting into you, you can now take them to the breasts, let her notice how you lower your face, down to her boobs. Repeat the exercise, starting all the way from the face to around her belly, and just after this…..look straight into her eyes and give her a smile. This shows that you are confident of what you are doing, NEVER look away after making such bold moves.

The sitting posture. On this, you should sit in a relaxed way with an open posture. Remember how bosses usually sit, they take control of the space around them, they are at poise and exhibit much confidence. Some people sit as though they are on the move, about to take off. As a key, you should always show open and relaxed gestures, welcoming people into your space. Guys who usually sit with their body closed, tend to *subconsciously tell off to others that they are #notwelcoming and aren’t willing to receive anyone. This is the key to note about sitting position. Ensure that #1. Your arms are open (don’t clench them) #2. Your legs also should open #3. Relax the entire body, feel at ease. #4.Raise your neck, be straight.

The handshake.

The handshake is another tool you can use to make an indelible impression on the people you meet, high class people; politicians celebrities, high social figures and salesmen are so keen this. In fact you will never come across a leader in any field who is frail and weak in giving handshake, now we have just talked about other body organs which exhibit confidence most powerful of which was the eye. Now there is something about the handshake which makes it even so effective in making an impression with people. You see it is something physical, it involves touch, and I will have to tell you this; nothing can replace touch, just nothing! You see contrary to other senses, touch has that ability to transmit energy directly from one person to another, and it’s sensory. People feel you, and done correctly can make people you greet feel very comfortable around you. So which type of handshake should I give? Firm *handshake! Next time you get an opportunity to shake hands with anyone ensure that you get a firm grip of their palm and feel their hands, giving such a handshake will step up your confidence, and it will drastically increase on the impact you leave on people. Dominant and submissive handshake

Whenever two people are shaking hands, there is usually the dominant one and the submissive; sometimes there can be equality. How do you differentiate the two? Again this usually happens subconsciously, but you can consciously use it to your advantage. The person whose palm rests on the top is the one who seems to dominate that interaction, as the one of the down palm submits themselves. As a confident seducer, therefore, you should ensure that you greet her with your hand being more dominant than hers, this subconsciously shows that you are of a higher status than hers. Another type of handshake is the one of equality, unlike the first two categories, in this one, nobody seems to dominate or submit themselves, and so the two palms remain in the vertical position. You use this for business partnership perhaps. You should grab her palm confidently with strength and show dominance by trying to put yours over hers. Most of these things should happen subconsciously. Therefore, you have practice them such that they happen on auto pilot. But just improving your handshake will tremendously increase on the first impression you leave on people during your interaction, not only women but men inclusive. Palm gestures Next, we will discuss about palm gestures and how you can use them to exhibit *dominance. Open palms used while illustrating points during your conversation usually show honesty and openness. So while you are illustrating your points, you want to make sure that your palms are openly facing her.

This shows that you aren’t hiding anything from her and that she is welcome.

Positive and negative body language. This is probably one of the most misunderstood areas of body language. Just like positive is represented by + adding (giving) and negative by -, which literally means to take away. The same analogy applies to negative and positive body language. Positive body language refers to how much, you giving your body or facing to them, and negative refers to how much you take away your body from them. You might be thinking that since positive is the giving, you should only give a woman positive body language, huh? In fact, that's one of the mistakes that most guys make during their first interaction with women; she immediately sells them off as needy chaps. And this is a turn off to women. Basically, positive body language involves things, like facing them with your body Giving them positive facial expression, and showing interest using your body. And negative is just the opposite of that; it usually involves taking your body away from them Showing them your back. The fact is, in seduction we don’t just give positive or negative body language, but a right mixture of the two. However, when it comes to positive body language you never want to give it away for no reason, she must earn it. That’s very important, and a lot of guys keep violating that rule. Here is how it goes, in the very first few seconds of your interaction, you want to give her positive body language but immediately take it

away from her. The drill of positive and negative body language. When you have just approached a lady, you never want to face her directly; this indicates neediness, you want to face her sideways (90 degrees to their direction), not face to face. This is called the give and take technique; it's as if you're just gauging whether this lady is worth your efforts or not. Here is the key, when you say something that arouses her interest, where you feel she is really getting interested in you, that’s when you turn around and look away, then turn back with a smile. Simple, isn’t it? But many people fail to understand let alone apply this technique. First of all, showing your back to a woman who is already attracted to you, indirectly tells her that you are used to dealing with attractive ladies (but this might be one of the hardest things for you to apply), and yet if you learn how to apply it effectively, you will become a pro at women, this pull and push technique is a type of mixed signal which is known to stir women's emotions to 10 folds, it immediately turns on women. The pull and push technique isn't about being mean; it's about exhibiting value if –and if you're valuable then you should be the one to qualify a woman. That's why after you make her smile (which is giving her value) then look away, she will feel like pulling you back. The reason why many guys miss it, is they either push before pulling or pull pull and just pull! You see if you approach a woman and start to turn away before you have got her attention, then she might feel like you aren’t just interested in her on the other hand if you give too much without taking it away then it wont be long until she loses interest in you, you must present a challenge-she must be afraid to lose your attention.

This is the reason why you have to turn around only if she is getting into you, I think it is clear right’? But here is what the above statement also means-if she is getting into you, you have to turn away! And I recommend that you use this technique in conjunction with the tease technique, because the latter is one of the verbal techniques which is known to arouse ladies within literally minutes or even seconds. Consider the first three chapters of this book as the “Opening phase” they were mainly aimed at preparing you, equipping you with all the necessary skills and weapons you need to fight the war. We would want to assume that you have read those chapters pretty well and digested every little nugget there in, for the proceeding chapter will be taking you to another level. Note that you cannot properly succeed on the next level (middle game) unless you have mastered the first one. Remember seduction is a step by step process. The middle game will be taking you through how to seduce women; we will show advanced seductive techniques of hacking right into a woman’s mind and triggering her emotions such that she develops *affection for you. Most of the techniques you will find there are aimed at turning the tables around and making her chase after you. A woman is supposed to seduce herself-This is the key attitude, you gonna learn. Why not? Let’s unveil it!

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CHAPTER FOUR The middle game- seducing

What is seduction? Finally, we get to a stage that is every man's dream albeit realized by a fraction. This is the Promised Land. Many people are alarmed by that entire word…" seduction." But here is one thing that I want you to understand. Seduction is nothing but disarming a woman's conscious logical mind and toggling on her emotional subconscious mind. This where she can be made to feel more as opposed to thinking. This thing isn't limited to women, in fact, it transcends romance even in business, it’s all the same. Let me tell you one fact that you might not be aware of, much as we humans tend to think that are logical and rational creature, the truth of the matter is we aren’t. More often than not we make decisions not based on sound reason and ration but emotions. This is a flaw in humans that the leading companies in business worldwide have researched very well and appreciated. But when it comes to love and romance it’s even more effective. Much as you think like you have all the brains and logic to convince, you just cannot seduce a woman logically. In fact, when a woman's mind is logical, it is said to be in a cold mode, this is the mode where it makes the rejection decisions. Therefore your job as a seducer is to constantly keep a woman's mind in the emotional feeling state where she gets to do more of the feeling. This is the stage where you go sexual with a woman and not before; you start going for kisses, sexual touches. Herein we gonna equip you with deadly seductive tools

The art of flirtation Flirtation is about creating sexual tension, making her go wild, arousing her and triggering within her hot emotions. It’s about captivating her imagination with words If you observe, most of the things which make us laugh excited, and which we really enjoy watching or observing, they usually have tension within them ( I will discuss this in detail just below). Imagine jokes the tension between what someone says and reality is what can burst into tears of laughter. Now thinking of talking about romantic things with a woman in public, well this creates a lot of tension within her because what you are saying cannot be done or shouldn’t be talked about in such a crowd. If you acquire this knack, you will be able to flirt with any woman you meet from anything to just ~whatever you want. Most men don’t know how to flirt with ladies, am gonna show you a killer way of flirting with any type of ~woman, that you come across and make her melt. Example Now like I stressed it above; the best way to flirt with a woman is by creating sexual tension-this is a subject I will visit in detail later. Here is are examples of flirting with women. #1 .Want to know a secret? Promise not to tell? Okay, shhhhh!, come closer. I have never used a pickup line in my life. You know what crazy, super-secret line I use to start conversations with women? “Hi.” But don't tell anyone, or everyone will start doing it.

#2. When I saw you with glasses, I knew you one of these girls who act smart, I think when you using four eyes to see, you probably think you just too wise. Her: Not really. Me: You know there is something I was told about girls who put on glasses….(first leave it hanging to build more tension) Her: oh, what’s that? Me: I hear they over want to flirt and get seduced, I don’t know what those glasses do to them (here am taking her to the climax of tension). Her: I don’t really think so, all girls are the same. #3.You Know, I think you should be leaving before anyone thinks me and you are flirting besides I had promised my friends that am not flirting with any crazy girl to night(This might kill her, and she will have to react) Her: You mean, am crazy? Me: so, you pretending to be cool huh? To lure me into one of your traps, huh? I don’t think it will work (That last line” I DON’T THINK IT WILL WORK” nails it, in fact it’s what creates the tension). #4. I think when you put on that skimpy dress, model around and put guys on tension, you just feel like you are on the top of the world, huh? One might think that you shifted from using Oxygen to Nitrogen-you young girls amuse me! #4. I can imagine the type of kids you will produce, they will just be crazy, like the mother (as you point to her), if I may ask, will you spank your kids for doing crazy things lie you do or just encourage them? (Again here imagination engages a woman’s feeling mind)

#5. I think this world is would be a peaceful place without crazy people like you, isn’t it? You young girls over want to attract men, I don’t know why may be to get spanked-you know the spanking am talking about here, don’t you(Women love this kind of ambiguous talk, it makes their imagination run wild-it’s not so exact so they have to keep guessing what you meant, which increases on the tension) #6. When she does something very ridiculous, tell her this, “That just tells me one thing…..”- leave it hanging for her to seek for completion Her: what’s that? Just smile and tell her, “You must have forgotten to take your drugs, that’s why it will be hard to contain you in here”

The boomerang effect. You should create enough sexual tension such that she starts seducing herself. And that’s that brings us to what I call the boomerang effect Do this. When you approach a lady, first flirt with her and make her smile If she smiles and laughs then you are well to go. As she is smiling and feeling sweet, definitely withdraw your attention from her, and look the other side. If you had flirted her really well, then she will want to pull you back insisting that you keep flirting with her (here you would have turned the tables up and down) Most folks think that they have to flirt by giving her a lot of attention, and by making her smile constantly. This is what I used to do, but I realized it just doesn't work, it somehow displays you as somewhat desperate individual trying to please, and as super glue man, whom women don’t enjoy being around. That’s why it’s very important that if you feel you have flirted with her, really well You start pushing her away indirectly, this will intensify attraction, and it will make her want to be with you more.

The science of sexual tension. It will just appear abstract and mysterious if we discuss about sexual tension but fail to talk about its roots. The word tension which indicates the contrast between two opposing modes of thoughts or vibrations; therefore sexual tension is two is about making a woman’s mind swing between two mode of thoughts. Let me ask you a question. Do you remember in school during those lecture sessions when a particular friend of yours cracked a serious joke, and your Strict Math teacher couldn't let you laugh? Well if you recall very well, those are the moments where laughter was sweetest. In fact, when he moves out and the same joke is cracked, you don't laugh as such. Do you know why? Because the tension which was bursting you up is released. When it comes to sexual tension, it is still the same analogy. Let me give you an illustration, imagine in the morning when you are leaving for work, you're probably even late for work, but this is the time you want to kiss her like you never have. It creates a lot of sexual tension within her that she might think about you all through the day. I can give you example after example but to cut it short, sexual tension is created when there are objections in the sexual act which is about to be done. You will find many of these; sometimes you have to create them to make your romance exciting. Understanding this science will put you on a higher edge when it comes to seducing women, you will do it in no time.

A women is supposed to seduce herself Society has bred us to believe that it is always guys doing all the chasing and persuading, but here at the Zen Seduction, we strongly believe that: A woman is supposed to seduce herself. What! I know it's alarming, (and am not surprised that it is to you) but you see, if you really want to be a superstar at women, you have to embrace that doctrine If not, just take it as a presupposition. An assumption you can work based upon. And I assure you, when you fully adopt that attitude, you will come to realize that despite what pickup artists have lied to you, that you should chase after ladies like a cat would chase a rat, you will find that having the right attitude will reverse the game and things will happen in your favor. What we will teach you here is a way of displaying yourself, and triggering her emotions, such that she will be the one to want to have you. Notice that, you don’t actually tell her that; You like her She makes you melt, or any of that bullshit advice dating gurus recommend, Here we will teach you a way of reducing a woman to emotions, and actually, you will barely say anything about her looks, after that you pretend to push her away, provoking her to pull you back. What we will teach you here is a way of displaying yourself as a prize to ladies, such that she is the one to win you. Tracking your progress.

It doesn’t come to some guys that their excessive offers to women are usually the ones underselling them. It’s very *important for every seducer to track his progress. This is like an investment, yes you are investing your worth time in a lady, and she is got to be worth that time. Before you purchase her any gift, she is got to be worth it. Of course am not encouraging you to be mean, here. I want you to respond to “deserve" not just "need," yes be like life itself. If buying a lady the most expensive car can win her heart, and you have your money (that's okay) but as you will see, ladies hearts aren't won like that, ladies are emotional creatures, it is about tickling their emotions that will put you on the edge. If you look around, you will find guys women consider special; these are chaps who have learnt to speak the language women understand best -emotions. Soon you will be able to speak this language and make women scream for you. You should always track the feedback from your actions, if they are positive, then you're good to go, however, if they are negative, immediately change what you are doing, that just shows it's not working. You don’t have to push it so hard! Some men over show interest. If most of the time, we did nothing but controlled ourselves around ladies, by not showing much interest. We could at least score better than we tend to do. Yes, some people have less sense to say in this world, and by keeping quiet, they leave the world wondering (whether they are smart or dense)

But since the world has a misconception that silent people are always wise, they falsely think that such a person is wise. And so with seduction, if you feel you don’t have something better to say, you better not utter any word, because many times if your words aren’t seductive enough, they will tend to sell you down, and a lady can judge you by them. Which cannot happen to our silent (know nothing brother)

How to initiate touching and why it’s necessary for you as a seducer.

First of all, we should admit that on a date, it’s so important for you to start touching that lady. Yes, that isn’t a family dinner, and she isn't your sister either. Whenever you touch her, you send sensations to her body; she starts feeling you. Electric energy flows, from you to her. You will master this. The mistake most novices do is to force things, they rush these touches, and women squarely turn them down. It should be done smartly, and timing is very crucial here, don’t worry I will show you how to go about it. How to initiate touching In my interaction with ladies, I came to realize that women usually want to do things although they are hesitant, that’s why you should be as spontaneous as fast to go. Therefore; You should create funny excuses to touch her *1. Talk about palm reading You start by telling her that you know something about palm reading and that you are gonna reveal all her dirty ways by simply looking at her palm. She will be just too curious here. While doing this, you want to touch her hands softly and gently, which sends sensations down to her body.

How to do this. Palm reading is not supposed to be complicated, as a matter of fact just enjoy this game and explore your creativity. Simply talk about things which you know ladies are capable of, for example, you can tell her: Your palms tell me something here…….On the surface, you are a humble girl (that's if she looks so), however, inside there, there is a wild you, waiting to be released. Tell her this: You look to be a very enthusiastic and passionate lady in what you do, but very brutal if provoked beyond your tolerance. And here, the type of lady you are dealing with should guide you on what to say. #1.You can tell her: You seem to be a person who relies more on your heart than the brain, you trust your intuitions. #2.Here is another thing that I see, it’s as if you used to be a very innocent girl, but something happened……here wait for her response. If she says,” yes” or, “No! That’s not right” tell her, “you were forced to lose your innocence before necessary, isn’t it?” In all of your readings, try as much as possible to avoid going directly sexual, build the tension but don’t release it, let her mind wander by not being direct, and this drives WOMEN crazy! #3. Talk about her desires. This should be easy, we all know what ladies yearn for, things like being heard, being loved and cared for. You can tell her; I see you are a person who loves people to respect your opinions, you seem to be a lady who relies much on your guts, although am sure this has led you into trouble somewhere, here you creating more sexual tension. She might ask, “Where?”

Tell her: I won’t reveal that. Tell her: You always want people to take your opinion as the right one even though you are sometimes wrong. And you take this very personal; you even chucked your friend for thinking you are wrong. Now all this is about your Creativity, add in more funny things, just to keep it interesting, just think of those embarrassing things we used to do when we were kids, talk about that. Trust me; she will be just enjoying you here. #4. Any funny thing about her For example, you can mock her by talking about things on her, in a funny way. You can tell her this: I know, you heard a lot of a hard time deciding on what to wear today, your mind was telling you to put on a grey dress, but your heart went with the maroon one, and you spent 14 hours deciding on this (just to exaggerate, you know) *2.Ask for thumb wrestling Another way to get an excuse to touch her is by asking for a race of thumbs between you and her; you can first reverse psychology her by telling her that……she looks weak, and that you don't know whether she can handle that game. While doing this, be playful and enjoy the fun, you may first start by pretending that she is taking you. You are like, oh Gosh, she is so strong, will break my thumb. As she smiles, then take her (and you should, coz women are weaker) after this, tell her she is a weak person and a loser!(teasingly) You can even push away her hand. These things make women melt before you, sometimes get turned on.

Getting closer. While you are advancing on your escalation, you want to get closer to her; you start this by whispering into her eye….. Do all this in a teasingly humorous way, whenever you are with a lady, it's very important to keep getting close and closer. However don’t just do it abruptly, step by step, she should never read your intentions. How to get closer to her #1. Whispering. You can pretend you are telling her something secret, as you get closer to her, then just say any funny thing to her. Whispering is a romantic way of talking to a lady, and if you do it pretty well, she will have to smile. #2.Conversing with her. As you telling her mind trapping stories and you feel she is very hooked, use this opportunity to get closer, you can even touch her here because her conscious mind will be following the story. It’s all about distracting the conscious mind, remember this. If a lady agrees with something the *first time, then she takes it okay, next time you do it, it will all appear normal. This applies much especially to things like touching, hugging and kissing, the very first time you try it, she might feel awkward, but next time, it's just any other normal thing.

A woman is always indecisive

From the point of picking her up, dating her to taking her to your home, a WOMAN is never sure whether she is gonna sleep with you or not. That said, never be so comfortable that you have done a great job, so you need to relax! But how can we exploit that weakness in women? Simple! If they can’t decide, then we can always decide for them, this may not be as easy as it sounds to be, many guys tend to act like ladies in relationships. You are supposed to lead her, not give her a chance to turn you down by asking her to choose from given options. (More on this later) Here is what you do, instead of asking her: Are you gonna have some chocolate (trust me for no reason, she can just turn you down) tell her: You gonna love this one, am getting you some chocolate. To cut it short….. Never give a lady lots of chances to choose, always decide for her in advance, and lead her.

Don’t feel too comfortable about your job! You have to keep the ball rolling; you should keep sweet talking to her until you checkmate her. Let’s say you are driving home with her, one mistake most novices make is keep silent and wait until they reach Home. I can assure you as elusive as ladies are, she can easily change her mind along the way if you give her time to THINK.

Therefore you should distract her conscious mind by keeping the conversation flowing, such that she is constantly excited, that way you by pass her conscious mind, and control her emotions(which as you will get to know is the best and indeed only way to control women) If you have some music, you can start playing it, and ensure that you have romantic songs, which will drag her into those moods. Even after reaching your place, she may be hesitant to enter, but as we said, you should take the lead, here you can give her some excuse, like You know what, there is some new collection of comedy that I got last time, trust me, you gonna love this!(but you know what you are up to) Inside there, as I know women, she still hesitates to cross from the living room to the bedroom. Again you should create some other distraction (always have some unique things around you) For instance, you can tell her, that there is this beautiful set of music playlist in your bedroom, it’s really good, if she doesn’t mind, she can take a look at it, from there you can start your journey. Remember this, Whenever you see that she is objecting to something, don’t try to create resistance with her as this will only create more objection, and you risk her conscious mind turning on, trust me this can ruin your night! Instead, first agree with what she says then slowly transition to what you want (Pacing and Leading….in action) As for instance, she may say that she doesn’t want to enter your room, she prefers the fresh air outside, you can say; it’s alright, me too, I even think it’s better outside here, and just after agreeing with her, you start exciting her, then act like something has just flushed

into your mind, ask her if she has ever watched the interesting comedy collection you have, reveal to her that it’s the best, she can ever watch, then excitedly tell her, it’s just on my laptop, come and see! The key is always to create funny excuses to lure her into your traps spontaneously, and if she resists, use the technique of pacing and leading

First hugs, and kisses. I always tell guys, all these things hugs and kisses, can be easy to get once you know how to play the game. For hugs, it requires you to be as spontaneous as possible, #.Be quick and as you see her, open your arms unhesitantly with a smile, and oops! hug that babe. Don’t ask for these things initiate them, getting a hug should be like getting a handshake, just open your hands and get it. For KISSES however since they are part of the romantic journey, these have to be prepared. Just like you can’t just start having *sex with a lady minus romance, you also shouldn’t rush a kiss So, you're finally on a first date with that girl. Huh? You have been with her on that date, and you want to get a kiss from her. But every time you think about it, thoughts of rejection flash into your mind. #1.May be she will consider me a moron. #2.What if she slaps me. #3.What if she takes away her face. I know, most guys think that getting the first kiss is a pretty hard deal, and few if any even think that they can get it on their first date. What if I told you that you can do it pretty fast even on your first date?

Just relax. First of all, you should admit that getting the first kiss can be pretty hard especially if you don’t know what you are doing. Most guys, wouldn’t flirt with a lady romantically, or even establish any physical contact with her all along their dating session then they

wait, when they are parting. Where she is probably giving him a good bye, and want to force a kiss. As you can see, this doesn't work; women will always check on this type of behavior and if you aren’t careful, you might not even get a good night hug. But you see, it doesn’t have to happen that way, as a matter of fact in Zen Seduction, we will give you a fool –proof approach to effortlessly getting a *kiss from her. Yes! Even if it were your first date! Ladies are pretty different from men almost in everything, much as a man will be ready for a kiss right away, a woman, on the other hand, needs to be warmed up, prepared and made #ready for it. Next, we will discuss how to initiate and prepare her for a kiss. First of all, for those of you who might be asking… Do you think, she might want me to kiss her on our first date? Is she really ready for it?. You should understand that by the time a lady agrees to go out with you on a date, then she likes you, and yes she can kiss with you, and yes even have sex with you, on just that night! And that doesn’t have to be shocking! It’s all game, just enjoy You see, women are never ready for almost anything; you are the one to make her ready. Here is how #1.Flirting with her #2.Stepping into her romantic side during that. #3.Touching non-sexual parts then sexual parts (e.g. hands back of neck, then thighs) #4.Maintaining strong eye contact as you pause.

#5. Start looking romantic, put on bedroom eyes. #6.Tell her about romantic stories, which can push her into those moods. #7.Start softening your voice, as you get closer to her. How to gauge whether she is ready for a kiss. You have probably prepared her well, and now you are wondering….how do I know, she is into it? Well, that's a good question, and indeed there are a couple of signs to help you figure out whether you have done your job pretty well. If you see any of these signs, then she is ready, but if the response is negative, then you better save your face, don’t kiss her. #1. You can start off by touching her body parts (non-sexual) After that You gauge her response, and see how she reacts, does she enjoy it, what does her gestures convey, remember it’s not just the words, but gestures speak volumes, if she feels comfortable, go to the ~next step, which am about to tell you. However, if you touch her, and she doesn't react positively, i.e., acts awkward-flinches, then back down the mission, go back to the previous step. #2.Touch her in a sexual way (like cheek, hair, tap slightly on her thighs and see) if the response is positive then you are well to go, just go for that kiss. If she responds negatively again, go back to the previous step.

#3 creating kissing tension. What am going to reveal to you is a way of creating tension in her such that she is the one who will want to kiss you. Yes, it's that *effective! What you do is extend your face towards her as if you want to kiss her, to the point as if your lips were about to meet (this should be done fast), then withdraw, and watch her response. If she acts like pulling towards you, then she is ready for it, she liked it. You can then increase the tension, by doing the same thing, if you see her pulling towards you again……..you can even tease her as you smile like: what are you up to, what have my lips done to you? On the other hand, if she responds negatively, i.e., doesn't smile, doesn't move towards you then she isn't into it, you may go to preparation stages and do more job from there.

Pecking the cheek. Another thing you can do if you have got enough positive feedback is to kiss her cheek and smile, judge her response. And as you're doing all this, don't just be silent, smile….chances are she will just smile back subconsciously. It exhibits your level of confidence to be making these bold moves while you *smiling and looking straight in her eyes, very IMPORTANT. Never try to shy away when going for it.

The kiss technique. This is one of the most effective ways of creating kissing tension in a woman.

It's called triangulation; it's a very tempting and insidious way of making a woman fantasize about kissing you. What you do is, especially if you have done the preparation steps we mentioned above, look at her left eye, then right eye and the mouth. Continue the cycle, left eye, right eye mouth. Right eye, left eye mouth, for about three or four times. Then notice how she is looking, she must be getting turned on and puzzled. Now notice if she is doing it back at you If so, then it's on, folks! Just touch her cheek and lean in slowly for that kiss. It’s a very simple technique but you will be very surprised by the results you will get.

Why you have to disqualify her such that she qualifies herself to you, when and how to do it. Disqualify When you have seduced a woman pretty well, and you see that she is into you, in order to intensify her desire, you can start to disqualify her. You do this such that she starts qualifying herself to you.(It’s called pull and push technique) You see most guys fail at ladies, not because they don’t know how to connect with them, how to seduce them or how to build rapport. Nope, in fact, it's because they over do the above. That way, they look to be the ones pushing the buttons all the time, from start to finish they are the ones, seducing and forcing women to like them. What such guys don’t know, is that you can also hack right into a lady’s mind and have her chase after you instead of the other way round. In my interactions with ladies, I realized that I was the one who was hard-working myself, I used to do the hunting and chasing many times. But as you can see, it is very tiresome, much as it can yield some results, it doesn't work effectively. I wanted to find a way, of making ladies chase after me, as I enjoy the hiding. And you know what, I found it, and am going to reveal it to you right here. You see, ladies are really elusive creatures when you show a lot of interest in her, her first impulse will be to repel you (this will just happen subconsciously without her intention) however when you withdraw your attention, she will then consider you. And this is the loophole that we would want to exploit to our advantage.

This is REVERSE ENGINEERING; the first step is to engineer her directly, seducing her And if you have built enough interest in her (this is something you should figure out), you start PUSHING her away, by disqualifying her. If you had done a great job, in the first step, she will start pulling you back; she will be the one to want to make the conversation continue and flow.

How to disqualify her There basically two ways you can do this One is using nonverbal cues And the other is using words, indirectly. Next, we are going to learn how you can do this by using; Non-Verbal signs #1.Here you can start by looking away, trying to ignore her a bit, and breaking the strong rapport you have built with her. #2.As she is talking to you just look away, and see. #3. Just show some sign of loss of interest in whatever she is saying. #4. You might completely turn your back away from her. Next using verbal signs Notice that, this is done indirectly as if you don't mean it. #1 Tell her; you look like a nice girl on the surface, but you know what, I don't trust appearances, they are deceptive, you might actually be the exact opposite. #2 Tell her; I would go with you, but you are very young and innocent, I wouldn’t want to spoil you. Note: The above only works for young women, the ones you feel are younger than you, and they also know it.

As you can see the second one is very provocative, it has some reverse psychology in it; she is likely going to play right into your hands by saying………whom do you think is young, am very mature mark you(this is very typical of young girls) #3 Tell her; I would go with you but am afraid, you might spoil me: I don’t wanna lose my innocence. I wanna remain holy. Note: This works effectively, on mature girls, the ones you feel are mature enough to have passed through enough romantic experiences. Note that contrary to young girls, when it comes to this second category, you pretend to be holy and innocent, you assume, she might be the one to spoil you. How intelligent! Am quite sure she will play right into your hands, by saying…….who is innocent, you? Haha, You are kidding me. #4. Tell her: if it weren’t to break my mother’s promise, I would go with you. She might ask: which promise? Tell her: I promised my mother to remain a virgin until marriage. Trust me; she will melt on that. Come up with more, just get it.

Practical solution. After equipping you with the seduction techniques, am now practically going to show you how I applied them to solve the issue of the other buddy of mine (in the introduction, remember?). Remember that in the beginning, she was the one chasing after him, but when he started chasing after her, she then lost interest in him. Why? Simple, like we have said, women psychology is reverse psychology, many people think they understand ladies but as we said they are far away from that. You see, when a lady is attracted to you, and you don't give her your attention, this tends to intensify the attraction she has for you, she will yearn and crave for you even more. What bubbles my mind is this. When you start yielding to her and giving her all your attention, showing her all the love and care, she then loses interest in you. It gave me hard time to comprehend the above principle because it just doesn’t make any sense at all. Then I later figured out that, ladies just have an inherent subconscious urge to chase for something unattainable-they want what they cannot have. A lady can easily leave “The Perfect guy” who is giving her all she wants and go on with a “no care guy” who doesn’t give her any attention. As you can see, this is a flaw we can and should certainly exploit. Don't worry; it's all psychology and perception. How? Awesome, you just have to play it a bit hard to attain, whenever you see that she is showing interest in you, this will drive her wild. She will be the one to want to stick herself to you.

So how did I go about my friend’s issue? This is what I told him; You see that girl likes you, if she showed interest in you in the first place, then she likes you, but you broke the principle you made the game too easy that she’s no longer interested, you now have to reverse the game, she is on the top of you now, but don't worry. Just reverse engineer the game, and in no time she will be toppled. I added: You should now slowly but steadily withdraw your attention from her, reduce the number of times you text and call her indefinitely. I instructed him to do that egolessly, yes as we said, and never try to show that you are revenging, act as if you know nothing about the tactical moves she’s been making. By reducing the care and attention he was giving her, she noticed it. And was like: I don’t get you these days, what’s up? The type of questions my buddy was earlier asking her, seeing that I knew she had *got on it. And yes, he got on the top of her. Women psychology is reverse psychology. After completing the middle game (seducing), we are now going to take you through the endgame (control of relationships). This is a part Pick Up Artists, and dating Gurus miss out, they think it's all about seducing and dating, What of controlling relationships then? I believe that man should not only know how to attain but also how to maintain, am going to teach you all this in the next chapter. Just roll down

CHAPTER FIVE Control of relationships by use of advanced psychology. I will reveal to you some of the killer mind control tactics that will keep her hooked to you, and make her feel that you are her Best.

Mind control tactic 1 You should appreciate that in the game of perception, you are either changing someone’s mind for the better or your *worse. Relationships are dynamic, and however static you would want them to be, they are bound to ~change, so you should then consider changing them for your own good. Many chaps ~wish that a girl will keep loving him as she did in the beginning, but as you have already seen, that can’t just happen, given many factors which come into play. But as a tactician, you should ensure that you are always pulling off moves which make her more hooked for you, always convincing her that you are the BEST. Relationships tend to become boring, and you get too used to one another, this is a time when you should introduce hardcore mind tactics to make her want you more again, ensure that you are the first to sense this and make your first move. People think being a leader is about commanding and directing people to do things for you, it is of course but it also transcends that, to be a *leader in a relationship you should be in control of things, you should be the one to first sense that the thing is losing steam, and therefore you interject with your mind tactics to steam it up. Never let your relationship enter into a comfort zone. Being the leader would mean, that if interested, you should be the one to say, the game is over, not her. In a relationship, just like in any other thing, there is always that #leader and the ~follower, remember that a leader doesn’t necessarily make the first moves and direct the relationship, but even when the other party makes the first move in the aim of trying to challenge your leadership (usually unintended or even intended) and women do a lot of these things. Women usually want to test and play games with us, but you should be able to turn the tables around and beat her, also in a game she

initiated. If you start doing that sort of thing, then you will be becoming a Grandmaster (and you will especially if you stick here for long) at this awesome, heart breaking game. Let's now say; she is getting too used to you Let me teach you this tactic. This one comes from economics, *Once the demand of the commodity increases, its price will have to increase. Here you do things which show that ladies are yearning for you, craving for you, and remember to pretend like it's not your intentions (this is what makes it work like magic) Notice that if you try to explicitly do it, then the move becomes weak, and she will figure out that you just trying to make her feel jealous, which she can also do, and counter it. And if you can’t condole well, then she will beat you before you start. This can be exhibited by talking to other ladies, associating with them pretty well, and if they are close enough to go and report to her how wonderful you are, then this will be adding more spices to the meal. #Know this, No matter how much your girlfriend thinks that you are an asshole, if other women, start yearning for you, then that social proof will wipe away the image she associates with you. It’s for this same reason that, when you have been down, and you raise your status, every person who used to think that you are a moron, will now see you as a superstar, and they will directly or secretively want to associate with you. Why? Simple, when other people start liking you, your haters won't also help but at least like you (although they might not want to say this)

That’s why after a breakup, always ensure that you are improving and getting better and better. Just generally improve your life. If many people respect you before her, if others see much value in you, then she will have to reflect and start seeing value in you. As you can see, it’s not just being the best (as we earlier mentioned) but convincing her, that you are the best convincing comes most from other people in the society, use other people to show her that you are the best. This gives a name to a common technique of rapport called social proof (we talked about this in details) By constantly showing her that you are a high-status man, then she will continue to see you as her BEST, but as we said, this doesn’t come plainly as you see, it’s as a result of the tactical moves you make on the board. And that's what makes relationships kind of interesting and fun to deal with especially if you know about mind tactics. If she thinks you are losing her, and #You show her that ladies and every other person wants you, #You are a cool guy, your friends enjoy being around you, Then Psssh! She will now think that she is actually the one losing you, you are a prize to be won, this is how things run. I know you may find some of the tactics here immoral may be even #manipulative, but you should know that relationships can only thrive on tactics. Many people still think of perfection(I really don’t know where that word fits in reality)… and many of them indeed wish for a perfect partner, the one who will love him forever and ever, who will continuously see him as his king. Am not saying the above dreams cannot be achieved, what I would want you to know though, is that you should work to attain them,

don't just wish. And to be blunt here, You will never find a perfect partner; I think wishing for that is like wishing for ideal situations in life which will favor you all the time, wait when you create your own planet (you can do all that). It's only armatures of the game who wish for ideal situations; masters know that no matter the prevailing situation in a relationship, they will play it so well that they will always be on the *top, you are about to get good at this! One other element about seduction is never to announce your intentions Remember as we said, to seduce a woman whether you are just starting or repeating, always use the back door, you can’t use the front door and expect to succeed. Therefore if you want to get her back again, don't tell her straight that you want her to forgive you, and you move on (it may work, but she may be hesitant) and again this is a lot of power you are putting at her *disposal, and any woman can use it to sabotage your intentions. You should start accessing her emotionally, and if you had bonded pretty well with her, you could remind her of some of the interesting moments you shared. Another thing you can at least say is let's just be friends; then you start your flank attacks without her notice. If there is one principle you can learn from this entire course, then it should be this; Women are not pretty forward creatures, and any attempt to face them in a logical straight forward way will always reap failure.

When should I say sorry? Well, if you are the kind of person who is so apologetic, and wants to say sorry to her all the time, then I got good news for you, in fact great news. It’s just astonishing that much as women look like they’re yearning for your apology, when you keep apologizing time to time, am not saying it’s a bad thing at least ethically but something strange happens. She loses respect for you, sounds silly, isn’t it, I could be lying to you, right? If you think so, then I dare you to try me. Well let me explain this to you, when you keep admitting every mistake of yours and apologizing for it, then you appear like not a true leader- she will get a sense that you aren’t a secure person to rely on because hey! You show her that you make mistakes. I know some of these tough facts might tail spin you but see, I used to be that type of guy who keeps apologizing to ladies all the time, and I tell you what? The more I became apologetic the less of a man I became at least in their eyes

So what should I do, does it mean I should just walk away after making a mistake, upsetting her or any sort? Actually, that’s more stupid and never do it, you see after being puzzled by the female behavior, I mean not respecting guys that keep singing, “Sorry” to them, I was too curious, I wanted to know the best thing to do when you make a mistake. So I started studying leaders in every aspect of life, from presidents, to organization leaders, companies, religions name it. Then oops! It dawned on me, this is a top principle that I stumbled on and I know many people might not have heard of it, but it works

really effective. It’s not about acting like a jerk after making a mistake or any of this stupid ”I DON’T GIVE A SHIT” attitude, it’s a core principle that will always make things better No matter how much you screw it up, you ready for it? Well here it goes… SEE YOUR MISTAKES AND CORRECT THEM BUT NEVER ADMIT THEM. And if you come to ponder upon that, it just makes perfect sense for a very specific reason by the way. When you make a mistake of any sort, the most important thing isn’t admitting but correcting it. In fact people who look for “who “and “why” something went wrong in a situation tend to play the Blame game, they just want to know the person who erred and then yell at him, scold them but if you’re a smart person then you probably don’t buy into this. So next time you upset her, disappoint her or do anything that she doesn’t like, don’t just say sorry, because sorry doesn’t fix the situation rather do something that will make her feel better. If you start applying the mentioned principle not only in relationships but in every area of your life, you will be stunned by the respect that people will start paying to you.

How to break down her defenses using Timeline techniques. Ladies usually create a lot of resistance whenever you are trying to persuade her to do something. But I will show you a Mind Control Technique you can use to breakdown her resistance and lead her to do just anything. This is advanced psychology. You see, in everyone’s mind, there is a difference between, the past the future and now. Everything is bound to change; people will always change. I don’t think the way you used to behave when your 10 is the same way you behave yourself right now. There are things you used to like in your past, which just irritate you now, and equally, there are also things that you hated in your past that you now crave for. This is all human nature. And that’s what we want to use to our advantage. Language is a very powerful thing, by just using words we can control people’s feelings. Imagine these four statements. #1.I will go there. #2.I went there. #3.I used to go there. #4.I won't go there. Each one of them evokes different feelings in your body.

When you say: I won't go there. It triggers feelings of resistance in you because you are trying to oppose something on the other hand when you say: I will go there, you feel at ease because you want to do something. How is this going to help us? You see, it means that you can easily push your target’s objections to the past by just altering the words she used. Let's say you are trying to convince her to go for a movie night. I know women, just out of the blue she can just say this, “I don’t go for movie nights” (and yet she does, but this was some spontaneous thought). Here is what you do. Tell her: You said, you used not to go for movie nights, but now it's okay, let's just go for it. If you were keen, you would have noticed that I pushed her objection from Now to the Past. By changing “don’t” to “used to not” you indirectly change the frame of mind of Not doing something to, having the ability to do it now. As you can see, this is a very powerful technique that you can always use to change many things. Sometimes she might be experiencing some pain, and you push her pain to the past and make the now pleasing.

Future pacing I have a prominent sales man friend of mine; he told me that you know what Kyle In marketing, the products you offer cannot completely or fully satisfy your customers, knowing this, you should then talk about it in advance He said the main reason why customers never come back is usually customer remorse. And the best way to deal with this is by future pacing them Tell them, I know when you compare our prices with those of our competitors they might be a bit expensive, ours are more expensive because as you see the quality of our products, outmatches theirs by far. Such that, when they talk to a friend of theirs and may be tells them that they have bought a similar product at a lower price, she will just know, because you talked about this in advance. Getting to know about that in marketing, I knew you could also apply it in seduction, talk about your flaws if you have them in advance, and justify their presence, even if she finds them out it will be okay. But more than that, You can indirectly future pace her, by telling her about how jealous this world is, and how they can do their level best to kill something which is working. You can add on by saying, “even if it's a relationship, remember many guys and girls are single out there, and they feel very jealous when they see a happy couple, and they will relentlessly do their level best to bring it down.” After implanting that thought in her mind, she will always be on the look for any rumors which want to ruin your *relationship, if anything

happens that tries to destabilize you, just add in this salt, “Didn’t I tell you about that, am quite sure you listening to rumors, isn’t it ” Perception and psychology...*NEVER forget that! You might not get some of these mind techniques when you just read through this guide once, but do it for more times, you will find ideas popping out of the blue to you. Dating law. The more you keep a woman’s imagination under your control, the more lovely she behaves to you. Notice what I said: Controlling her imagination (perception), #Not wishing she controls herself. This is a pretty different doctrine from thinking that women are mature beings and therefore they will control themselves (You are the man, you are the one who should control her). By saying control we aren’t referring to putting a gun on her face and forcing her to love you more, in fact, if you are doing that, then you already lost control. Control is mental, not physical. Another thing you can do is, especially when you have a serious relationship with her. Understand that however much you give your woman everything and all the care she deserves when it comes to matters of love and falling in for anyone, she does that emotionally not logically. It means that however attached she is to you, if another guy, who knows how to trigger her emotions and make her feel attraction for him ~comes, then he can steal her from you. But don’t worry about that, I will teach you a technique to implant an idea in her mind to repel all these. This works quite well when you've been a committed lover for her; you can tell her, “it’s your choice, I have no control over you

wherever I'm not around, and as much as I can advise you, I surely can't decide for you (here you are making her feel powerful, which every human being yearns for), you can get a guy and think he is better than me, but know that most of those other guys just want to use you, and dump you. Implanting such an idea will again make her keen with other guys since your future paced that most other guys just want to use and dump her. Even if she disobeys you, and goes with another guy, and what you predicted happens, she will come back since she would have proved your theory.

How to condition her, and make her respond to you like a robot.

Conditioning her If you have been with women for quite a good time, you might have appreciated that they are very illusive creatures, women swing moods spontaneously. You might be doing well with a lady then she switches from good to a very damp mood. These things usually leave men’s hairs scattered as they try to figure out the triggers of such behaviors. Sometimes you may just touch her somewhere, and she moves from happy to sunken depressed. Am going to give you a way of controlling a woman’s moods, in that even if you found her unhappy, you can easily elicit a smile on her face. And I assure you if you can master this skill then she will take you differently as compared to other bunch of guys. I think you have heard of ladies saying….. That guy knows how to handle ladies; he makes you feel up even if you are down. Well, don't think that it's just nature. Indeed this is a skill you can learn and employ it in your relationship. Women will just get addicted to you if you use it correctly.

Pavlov and his dog. I think you have heard of Pavlov’s experiment with his dog, where he used to ring a bell before giving it food, and the two experiences were associated(integrated) whereby, just ringing the bell would make a dog salivate. Well, that was just a dog, but a human mind learns pretty faster than that. Do you have a favorite song of yours which you listen to, and revives the past memories in your mind? That’s the conditioning we are talking about. Have you ever gone to a place you spent your childhood, just getting there triggers all the past memories you had, this just happens automatically, you don’t need to force it. Have you ever smelt some scent then it immediately reminded you of your buddy who used to wear it, that’s what ANCHORING is all about, merging experiences into one, such that when one occurs the other spurs into action right away. How is it going to help us here? I can hear you ask. In every relationship, there are always good funful experiences and horrible ones, as a mind expert, you want to store the good ones such that you can trigger them back and your partner experiences them again. This can turn you into some sort of magician in a relationship

Next how to condition her by use of anchoring Anchors can be of many categories; we have kinesthetic anchors (physical) auditory anchors (voices), smell, and visual etc. Visual anchors #You might not necessarily touch her, but when she is happy and excited just look straight in her eyes. Next time you do it, she will just feel those sensations again. #For example, you may tell her to mention her happiest experiences, and as she is doing that, you just touch on your chin, with your fore finger, this can merge the two things. During your courting, you can have one of your favorite place you do all your romance from, and store all those wonderful experiences. Next time things go wrong, you can just go and have some time from there, just you and her being there will revive all those wonderful experiences you had with her, anchoring is really powerful, it's just that most of the time, it happens ~spontaneously, but you have got to do it consciously just like masters do it. Auditory anchors Here, when she is excited you can find your favorite words, you say to bond the excitement feelings with it. My favorite is this one………Oh! Baby!...that’s awesome. Oh! Baby that’s amazing Oh! Baby, I love that. Etc…just get the concept. This can be very useful, especially when you are having sex, with her, it can store those arousal feelings. Next time you say Oh! Baby She will just feel aroused.

You can also have a favorite song you frequently listen while you are courting or romancing, next time she listens to it she feels those sensations again, which makes her think about you. You can also anchor things using your tone of voice, as she is feeling happy you change your tone of voice to the one you want to store. Next time you use the above tone, she will just feel excited automatically. Have you ever noticed that some people are just so funny that just seeing their faces, since we anchored laughter with their faces, we just tend to burst into laughter right away? Most comedians are good at this thing. Kinesthetic anchors. These are the most powerful anchors, because they involve muscles, physical touch. If visual and auditory anchors are like Wi-Fi then kinesthetic anchors are like internet from Ethernet cables, just too effective. For example, when your partner is in her happiest moods, you may find a place you can always touch her such that the good sensations of happiness are integrated with the touch, next time you touch her at that place, she will just feel automatically happy. (yes it’s that powerful, like magic). Always mark the places you touch her while she is turned on, happy or in excited moods, next time you touch those places, those feelings come automatically. Smell anchors One of the most powerful anchors are the ones of a scent. Here ensure that when you are courting or having a romance with her, there is some scent around your place which is prominent, every time she smells that scent, she will always remember the things you did to her.

The back side Everything has its drawbacks, just like you can anchor good feelings, you can equally anchor (store) bad ones and many people tend to do this without knowing. A guy can just touch a lady somewhere, and she gets annoyed, not because what he did was annoying but, the anger feelings were just stored in that place, and by touching there, she automatically gets annoyed without her notice. Such things happen, that's why you should be careful on where to touch her when she is annoyed, better touch the other places you touch her when she is happy, to revive the happy feelings. Many masters will teach you how to win, from a neutral or winning position-that is pretty easy. But few if any can ever teach you how to convert a losing position to a win. That’s what I discovered from most dating guides. They assume that things will always go well, but in the next chapter, I will show how to recover a breaking relationship, most importantly how you can get your ex-back. These are techniques you won't find anywhere else; you will be amazed by how effective they work if you not only read them but go on to put them in practice.

CHAPTER SIX Getting out of the dredged friend zone and ex back. Reasons, why you get friend zoned, how you can kick your ass from that dredged zone. Too much of anything is always bad Much as we're telling you here first to establish rapport before you start seducing a woman, too much rapport without attracting a woman is likely to draw you into the dreaded friend zone. And it takes another skill to get out of there. Next, we will teach you how to break from the guarded friend zone How to kick your ass from friend zone. Like we discussed earlier, the main reason for getting stuck in a friend zone is establishing too much rapport without attracting a woman. This tends to create too much familiarity that instead of seeing you as a sexual being-potential lover, she sees you as a friend. And with that, *You become her therapist. *You listen to all of her worries, **You solve most of her problems, ***You always heal her wounds, ****You comfort her whenever she is bothered hoping that she will notice how much you care about her and possibly consider you as her guy. But as you already know, that never works, it just pushes you deeper and deeper into the *zone.

I want you to understand that if you are a victim of the above syndrome, you are not alone. In fact, many guys are in that zone although they aren’t aware, that’s why they will stay there for long, you, on the other hand, you very lucky for coming across this knowledge. I have been friend zoned; I know how it hurts. I came to appreciate that ladies always watch out on guys whom they make their lovers. Yes, they can have many friends (but we know that these are guys who want to be lovers) indeed, very few will be allowed to be lovers. You see, it’s not being CARING that makes you a lover, you have to be #romantic, and you know what surprised me? However close a friend you are, she will never let you become her lover unless you have come out BOLDLY and displayed some romantic moves. Ladies just have no mercy on that; they will always welcome you as you come. Having that in mind, then you should be careful on how you display yourself to a lady, are you being a friend or a romantic guy, remember she has many friends, and you wouldn't want to be added to that list. But don't worry we will show you how to escape from that *deadly zone.

The deadly mistake The worst mistake most chaps make to cross from friend zone to lover zone, is to directly announce to a woman like You know what, I would want us to be more than just friends! That’s a sure way to FAIL, and if you have been making that mistake, then you should know why you haven't been successful. In martial arts school, I was taught about a self-defense technique which really amazed me. To go fast, you go slowly and to go slow; you go fast. Our master told us this If thugs or a robber attack you, do this Tell them, that you don’t want any trouble with anyone and that you don’t want to fight, you should even let them know that you are willing to give them anything they want. That should make them lower their guards, and that’s when you strike What’s the science behind this? If you are going to fight, then be the guy who is recommending for peace talks, Be the cool, weak guy that your opponent thinks will finish in minutes. And so with seduction Never make a mistake of telling her that you want to move out of the friend zone to being her *lover. ~Instead tell her that you just want to be friends, nothing more. As you will see, this will lower her *defenses, and you will start exploiting that.

In fact, you may even tell her of how proud you are about your friendship, and how you wish it continues. Make her feel safe. Something to note. Every decision you take in life has its repercussions, we all know that you have been a good friend to her, caring and doing almost everything for her. Friends rarely annoy one another, they usually play things safe, but now you want to cross from Friend to Lover, this is a bold move you are making, and I would congratulate you for that. However you have to note this, being a lover requires a different strategy, and you play different roles this side. What is even shocking is this. When you are just a friend, there is no war between you and her, but for being a lover, you are putting yourself into some sort of war.

Yes, love is war. You see, love is a battle between two, woman and man, of course, this isn't fighting physically, but for power in a relationship. Just know that in love everyone is always struggling to have more power in a relationship, to control the other. When you are a friend, she might have been so direct and honest to you, but that won’t be the case when you are a lover since you are a competitor, she can’t risk sharing some vital information with you, lest you use it against her in the #Game. So be ready to play the game as a man. However, you don't have to worry about that, in the Zen Seduction we will equip you with all the weapons you need.

Here is the way to go about it

Do this. Create sexual tension After you have made it pretty clear in her eyes that you just want to be *friends, then start to make moves which seduce her, and as you are making these moves (remember she will notice).. So talk about it in advance, tell her… But remember we're just friends, I don't know why we are doing this romantic stuff, hope it doesn’t ruin our friendship. (Blame it on her).How friendly! You can go on to flirt with her, and as you're sexually flirting with her and she enjoys it, remind her of the other fact still, Tell her, I don’t know why you flirt with me like that, I mean we're just friends….stop it.(this will serve to create more sexual tension)… driving her wild. As she hugs, Hold her tightly in a romantic way, and again be the first to talk about it, you are like……..Those hugs of yours, whatever you are up to, God knows, I'm just a friend, they are just too much for a mere friend. Just go try it out.

It’s okay; you can thank me later. Will now reveal to you some of the reasons a relationship may turn into a stalemate, and she feels like leaving you, but how can you reverse engineer this to get her back.

Main causes of break ups. *Too much perfection You see, most relationship usually break after reaching the climax, where you seem to have explored one another to your full Depth. That’s why in The Zen Seduction, this is one of the mistakes that we prohibit guys from making, and you should surely avoid. Don’t create a lot of comfort in a relationship, as a matter of fact; you should run this game in such a way that a woman is always the one, trying to beg for your love. Every minute, she should be feeling insecure whether or not she is about to lose you, and this can be easy to do, it’s all about perception (nothing more) Going back to our point, never let a woman think that she has completely and entirely had enough of you, that she should now go on with another person, which brings us to an important ingredient in relationships. #Be unpredictable If you didn’t know, women consider guys who are unpredictable to be more *romantic than the direct straight wired chaps. Not only women but if you think of it, life itself should be unpredictable if it's to be joyful and exciting **Lack of trust in a relationship. One of the main reasons a relationship may end is when the two partners lose trust for one another. Of course when that happens, more nasty things spring in, like cheating, not caring for one another's feelings. So how do I build trust? Trust is earned, not asked for. Hence you should do things in a relationship to build your trust and strengthen that bond between you. This can be done in many ways; this is also about perception.

#1.As a rule, in a relationship, you should never rush to blame your partner in case something goes wrong, even if other people are evidently accusing her of something she did wrong, always be on her side, this makes her feel that you believe in her and trust her. #2. Avoid unnecessary arguments. If you didn’t know, Arguments tend to separate two people, because if you fail to connect with someone on a mental level, then you can’t connect otherwise. Women want their points of views to be respected (even if they aren’t taken) and being very emotional beings, whenever her opinion isn’t considered, she feels she is being neglected and not loved. Yes, they take things way so personal! Have you heard ladies saying, “The guy is so understanding!” They actually mean he is on their side most of the time (This doesn’t mean that he goes with their opinions all the time) VERY IMPORTANT. Much as holding arguments just between you and her is bad, what is more worse is being in a group argument or discussion, and you fail to be on her side. Remember you are the *man who is supposed to protect her, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and physically, so when you are in a group discussion, however much her point of view is ~naive, you should support her, again this shows the bond between you. Just after that when you are back home, may be can tell her, “your argument wasn’t good, but I just had to support you anyway” She will love the respect you have for her. #3. Believe in her. As earlier stated women are emotional beings, she loves it when someone believes in her dreams; this can be illustrated in many ways. Whatever she is doing, sincerely tell her that …You believe in her that she can make it. This makes her feel strong. Always celebrate her victories, be happy whenever she wins. Tell her how proud you are for those small accomplishments she has earned.

Right away. There is nothing as discouraging as a partner failing to acknowledge their spouse’s victories, and if you don’t, then it speaks volumes. You surely don’t wish her well. #4.Poor communication. This has been a reason for many break ups, even in companies, games and sports communication is so crucial. Just a simple call, to tell her you won’t be at home in time, is enough to save you from all the suspicion and quarrels. Usually, when you don't give your point of view, her mind will have to get one to fit into the picture. We cannot speak enough about communication, for it’s so crucial in a relationship. #5.Violence and mistreatment. This is one other cause that usually splits relationship apart; I think partners can tolerate any other misbehavior but not this one. This usually involves, beating up women, abusing them even raping them, and any sensible man wouldn’t do this type of immoral behavior. On its small scale, things like back biting, ill-talking and failing to respect your partner’s opinions are also forms of mild violence.

Next, I will show you the No contact method; this is a sure way to make her come back to you, trust me she will

The No contact method. When a lady breaks up with you, I know your first reaction may be to talk to her and convince her to come back, right away. But never do that. Instead, give her enough time you also give yourself for the two of you to cool down and relax. I strictly condemn you against visiting therapists or counselors to give you an advice on how to make her come back to you, if you are interested, you can go there for some positivity and motivation, they are good at that kind of stuff. Most of those counselors will give you *wrong advice because as we discussed earlier, few people understand how ladies REALLY think. Although many assume they do. If you didn’t know, begging for a lady who is on the verge of breaking just encourages her to do it even more. So you should stop pulling her, first let her go. Rules of no contact #1 Don’t call her #2 Don’t text her #3 Don’t stalk her on social media or anything #4 Forgive yourself, wipe away all the anger and disappointments if you don't mind…….go into some meditation. The real problem with a breakup. I know your mind might be going wild, you now think like you are a loser, a moron and the world is turning against you. This can be worse especially if you recall those other negative thoughts people usually direct to you. Things like.

~Man! you will never succeed in life; you don't understand. Heck, you might be even thinking that you aren’t handsome enough! I want you to understand that, break ups are very common life experiences, many people have broken from relationship to relationship, but they eventually made it. Here in the Zen Seduction, we will show you how can get over the breakup, and even get her back if you are interested. Let this sink deep! After breaking up, the real problem is never the breakup itself, but the state of mind, it pushes us into that negativity, thinking you aren't worth it, thinking that you are now finished, and NO other person can Love you. In fact, if you can just do one thing, which can be very good for you, then it is clearing yourself of the negative thoughts that emerge after a breakup. We will teach you how to do just that.

How to clear negative thoughts using meditation Just go take in some deep breath then allow yourself to relax. Close your eyes and let an intention to let go, start by releasing all the tension in your body, then mentally let go. Repeat to yourself, that statement over and over again let go, let go. You can do this exercise for as long as you wish, but I know doing it for just three days is enough, to put you on track. Procedure. This can take fifteen minutes. #1.Sit in a comfortable position, uncross arms and legs and loosen your clothing. Relax your lower jaw. Don’t allow phones, people or

pets to disturb you. #2. Gently close your eyes. Take two deep breaths (slowly inhale through your nostrils for four counts, hold for five counts, and exhale through your mouth for five counts). #3.Set an intention to relax for 15 minutes. That you will be awake after 15 minutes. #4.Breath smoothly and evenly. Tune into your breathing. Concentrate on your breathing, and become very aware of your breathing. Notice how it slows down and levels out as you relax. Then you know you are in a state of alpha. Now begin counting backwards, from 50 t0 1, saying the number as you exhale. Be sure to get to 1. #5. When you reach on 1 give yourself the following suggestions. *I completely let go of all the tension in my body * I let go mentally *I let go of all the negative emotions * I let go of all the disappointments *I completely forgive myself and others *I am a free soul, I love and people love me. * I feel at peace; I feel relaxed. After completing your suggestions, start counting forward from 1 to 5 upon reaching 5, you will open your eyes, feeling completely *alert, refreshed and relaxed. Remain sitting for 1-2 minutes, staring into space. Slowly become physically active again by moving hands and feet stretching. Then get up and quietly go about your activities. #5.Move on with your life, improve your life for the better. This is the final and most important step

If you didn’t know, ladies love men who are independent, we shouldn’t narrowly reduce this to only financial independence, even emotional, if you can show her that you are strong man, you don’t depend on her for emotional support then she will be challenged by that. What I'm teaching you can very well be used in seduction, but it transcends that, am actually giving you, life principles themselves(since seduction isn’t outside life) then you ‘re well to go. You should acquire the attitude of moving on with life no matter what happened, and here is another thing to take. If you stop chasing after things, they will eventually come to you. I think you have heard of this mantra. You eventually get back things you desire when you no longer desire them. However, it doesn't mean that you no longer want them, it actually implies getting from the state of mind of "wanting" and you move to state of mind of "being" or having. Never be desperate for anything, you give your power for it to control, but you can do it the other way round, remain calm with your power and you will surely control it.

Some wisdom. You see, after a breakup, the mistake most guys make is to assume, that they are the only ones who are hurt. Who lied to you? Well, let me tell you, something. You see unless you two haven't been enjoying one another in a relationship, but if you did, then she is equally broken as you are. Therefore don’t act like you are so concerned with what happened. If you miss those moments, she surely is also ~missing them. If you can remain calm, and stop reacting, then you will get things under your control. Relationships aren’t easy, but they are part and parcel of our life, therefore what you can only do is learn how to handle them. And hey! Don't wish for a perfect relationship that I assure you won't get it, just learn how to handle issues, don't wish for less problems, cultivate more skills and you won't worry about challenges anymore.

Practical business. Now that I have taught you the techniques, let me give you a sample of how you can practically apply them. Remember the story about a friend of mine who had red flagged me (in the introduction part), here is how I went about it. First of all, I had to admit that I had made a mistake of trying to be so overt in my approach. Therefore, I changed the strategy. After her hurtful words: Kyle, you and I are just friends, nothing more. So don’t act like you are my lover cause you aren’t. Stop your silly texts you are sending me. This is what I told her: You would have told me earlier, I also enjoy being friends, this love thing is heart breaking, and friendship is pretty good. Notice how I lower down her sword (she had raised against me earlier) Psychology! She went: Oh! My Kyle, you're so understanding. I like that, let's be Best Friends Forever, I like you very much. Her jaws got jacked up; she got excited, throw her eyes up in the air, I guess even her clothes. Me: Yeah, in fact, long time without meeting, let's go have some coffee. And we went that night out, had fun, and I continued with my mission until I checkmated her. You will find many challenges like such in relationships, she thought she had beaten me, but do you see how I took the back door and got right into her without her notice, and trust me there is always a #backdoor. And never take things personal, if I did, I wouldn't have won her, I instead took it as a challenge to solve. Ladies are so provocative, but as an Alpha man, never let her control your mind, you act from your *consciousness, don't just react.

An afterword. In this universe everything is bound by principles, nothing escapes laws, you cannot provoke the law of gravity by jumping out of the plane, and you just walk away with it, neither can you touch a live wire and expect it to spare you. We can never defy principles and expect to flourish. If we wish to succeed in whichever endeavor we engage in, then we should study its principles and start to corporate with them. There are guys who have ladies yearning and screaming for them, you should know that every effect has its cause, nothing just happens without a cause, and so with those guys, they have mastered the principles which govern ladies, that's why they control them, you and others might have been ignorant of these principles, but now, we have taught you, it's your time to use them and also control women. You have come a long way up to this closing words, it's been tremendous work you have done, and we trust that we have equipped you with all the necessary skills and wisdom to make you a better seducer. If you will read the work herein and digest it, then go out and apply it, we assure you that seducing any lady will be second nature to you, this is something we have taught many people, and we know it works. We have done our job pretty well; now we set the stage for you. The ball is in your court; it's up to you to go and apply this knowledge.

By the way… Before you go, I’d like to say “Thank you” I know there are dozens of books on understanding ad seducing women, but you took a chance on my guide and for that I’m extremely grateful. So, thanks again for downloading this book and reading all the way to the end, am quite sure if you go ahead and apply the immense knowledge that I have given to you, the seducing women will just become a piece of delicious cake to eat.. Now if you liked this book, please take a minute or two to leave a review for it on Amazon so that other men can find out more about it. Your feedback is most appreciated as it helps me to continue writing books that get you results. And “thank you” in advance for your review. Iam eternally grateful.

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Table of Contents So whom is this book meant for? CHAPTER ONE: CHAPTER TWO CHAPTER THREE. CHAPTER FOUR CHAPTER FIVE CHAPTER SIX